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[pixie]

Hello,

I'm very new to all of the adult baby scene sorry if I say anything offensive. If i do it might be because I don't know what terms or anything to say or use. I was hoping to find some help. Here is my situation:

My boyfriend is 7 years older than me(I'm 18. he's 25). We've been seeing each other for nine going on ten months now. We are both each others first and we are exploring different things together. Well he enjoys the diaper scene. He enjoys being babied. We've already have names to call each other when he is in that particular mood. I'm trying to understand, and get used to this, but we got into a really bad fight the other day over a misunderstanding for AB's. A fight that nearly cost us our relationship. I'm trying to understand how his mind works about this particular situation, and i'm trying to be that "mommy" but I just really don't know how to go about doing anything. I know he has questioned me before about soiling the diapers and how i felt about that. But i also know from accidental findings that he likes being punished in that if he misbehaves he has to wear the diaper. Most recently i've found stuff about being forced to do baby things, like forcing him to wet his pants or other stuff. I would just like to have some ideas for something i can do that will kinda break the ice, and let me get used to the feeling of everything, and to show him that i'm trying to understand, and to make my baby boy happy.

If this is in the wrong place I'm sorry but I figured I should say hi as well. So yeah. If anyone would like to email me personally my email is charlestongal@gmail.com

-Pixie

[Pipsqueak]

Welcome, Pixie!

I can't stress enough that communication is the key to everything going smoothly in a mommy/baby relationship. AB's are all different and what one likes, another one may hate. The best thing you can possibly do is sit him down somewhere comfortable (still in grown-up mode) and discuss what his fantasy of the ideal scenario is and what parts of that you feel comfortable with. There is always a little give and take required in any relationship and this is no different. He is extremely lucky to have a girlfriend who is open to indulging this particular side of him and so therefore he needs to help YOU understand his wants and needs and respect your comfort limits. He may enjoy a little discipline for bad behaviour, but then again he may not. And what his idea of discipline is may not jive with what you think it is. Talking it out is the most important thing you can do, so there are no disappointments or nasty surprises when it's time to play.

Hope you enjoy your time with us.

[pixie]

one thing i would like to do with out his knowing is to surprise him into that mood i guess. kinda like how people would light a few candles, and play some music to surprise someone, and get them in the randy mood. what is something i could do like before he gets home type of thing. and also what are some good sites to go to that will kinda go in depth about AB?

thanks for your help pipsqueak. we did indeed realize that our communication on that was very poor on both our sides. since we are both very new to this i still feel weird looking stuff up about it. i still feel weird talking about sex so, i'm trying to make sure what happened won't happen again.

[biggs]

one thing i would like to do with out his knowing is to surprise him into that mood i guess.

I guess if you cooked him dinner & doesn't eat it all - suggest to him that if he doesn't eat all his dinner, he'll have to spent the reszt of the evening in nothing but I diaper. If that doesn't take him by purprise, nothing will

Or better still, depending on how you feel about it, when he gets in, be wearing a diaper yourself & ask him to treat you how he wants to be babied.

[Topguy]

Hello,

I'm very new to all of the adult baby scene sorry if I say anything offensive. If i do it might be because I don't know what terms or anything to say or use. I was hoping to find some help. Here is my situation:

My boyfriend is 7 years older than me(I'm 18. he's 25). We've been seeing each other for nine going on ten months now. We are both each others first and we are exploring different things together. Well he enjoys the diaper scene. He enjoys being babied. We've already have names to call each other when he is in that particular mood. I'm trying to understand, and get used to this, but we got into a really bad fight the other day over a misunderstanding for AB's. A fight that nearly cost us our relationship. I'm trying to understand how his mind works about this particular situation, and i'm trying to be that "mommy" but I just really don't know how to go about doing anything. I know he has questioned me before about soiling the diapers and how i felt about that. But i also know from accidental findings that he likes being punished in that if he misbehaves he has to wear the diaper. Most recently i've found stuff about being forced to do baby things, like forcing him to wet his pants or other stuff. I would just like to have some ideas for something i can do that will kinda break the ice, and let me get used to the feeling of everything, and to show him that i'm trying to understand, and to make my baby boy happy.

If this is in the wrong place I'm sorry but I figured I should say hi as well. So yeah. If anyone would like to email me personally my email is charlestongal@gmail.com

-Pixie

Communication, communication, communication.

You both need to sit down and negotiate terms for this. It's a fifty fifty thing-he gets something he likes-you get something in return. It can't be all about him, and work for you both.

As far as his fantasies? have him give you blanket consent to do certain things to him-within his stated limits. Then leave the rest up to your creativity. That's part of the privilege of being given control.

[jenniebear]

I agree with everyone else so far...communication....and knowing what the other desires.........and making sure you both are giving not just one of you getting....sometimes people get so wrapped up in their own wants they forget to give.......and sometimes there is a certain type of person who gives and gives and thinks that's what it's all about... but then one day they wake up and find they would like to be on the receiving side now and then.......balance and meeting one anothers needs no matter what your roles are key ...

Anyway............

My Daddy was new to the ab/dl world when W/we began O/our relationship.........i expected very little in this area in the beginning.......i shared stories/fantasies......and i informed and discussed.........but i waited until He was ready...................and when He was ready....He basically took a scenerio from a story i'd written and acted it out..........that was how it was in the beginning........i'd write a simple little stories....He'd store them up...and when the time was right....sometimes weeks or months later He'd bring it to life.........

Now He creates the scenerios or often it's just part of every day life.........but the story scenerio was a simple map for Him to follow......and it was a map that i gave Him that led to the things i enjoyed....

Best wishes and don't get into too big of a hurry.....start slow....with what you are comfortable with and build on that.....

[nappyloon]

Hi Pixie and welcome to the best place on the internet.

Sounds like you have some sound advice from the others, so I hope it works out for the pair of you.

[Repaid1]

I have always liked the surprise of being babied like you mentioned. There are a few online sitters that have a form with the many questions you might have. Perhaps he could print it out and fill it out for you that way you would still have the element of surprise, as he wouldn't know when or where. But you would know his likes and dislikes without the awkward part of talking about it face to face.

I personally agree that it is best to have open communication, but as to breach the subject perhaps the "form" method could break the ice..till you are both more comfortable with the idea. Then discuss it in depth after the session so that it becomes more of a "natural" thing for you. Best of luck..Cheers to you! Both!

[pixie]

i've tried a few things the past two nights. tuesday we were laying down watching tv, and i started tickling him, and said how i like how he giggles, and started talking to him like a child. making him count his fingers, and say his ABC's, and so forth. I made him brush his teeth before he went to bed. and then last night he wanted to watch a kids movie (we both love childrens movies) i told him he was only allowed to watch it if he was wearing a diaper and his onesie. so i changed him, he was really embarressed, but he looked cute! Thanks for all the help.

[Repaid1]

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[Three Rivers]

Pixie,

Sounds like your off to a great start, congratulations to both of you for exploring a new side of life. Best wishes

Three Rivers