Submissive, Not Sissy

[Toddler Pampers]

I’m not a sissy, but thought I might find other submissives lurking.  This meme fits me perfectly: beautiful woman, even older, happy with a husband in diapers, or at least enjoying dominating in the relationship.

 

Does anyone else get that from diapers, what they say about the power differential between those who wear them, and those who don’t?

[gmcchamp99]

That picture depicts the dynamic between my wife and I extremely well. She loves having her husband wear diapers, tending to his needs and overall having the final decision to the end results to a lot of the sexual aspects of the marriage and relationship while still maintaining a equitable partnership in the relationship. My wife has worn many diapers with me and sure does enjoy wearing, using and certainly playing with me in them but there's something to be said about her keeping me diapered. She loves to pick out what diaper i'll be in for the day, how long I will keep it on and if I'm allowed to change my diaper while working. Besides that, access to porn, maturbation and or sex is at her discretion as well. 

 

I enjoy it immensely. 

[Toddler Pampers]

30 minutes ago, gmcchamp99 said:

That picture depicts the dynamic between my wife and I extremely well. She loves having her husband wear diapers, tending to his needs and overall having the final decision to the end results to a lot of the sexual aspects of the marriage and relationship while still maintaining a equitable partnership in the relationship. My wife has worn many diapers with me and sure does enjoy wearing, using and certainly playing with me in them but there's something to be said about her keeping me diapered. She loves to pick out what diaper i'll be in for the day, how long I will keep it on and if I'm allowed to change my diaper while working. Besides that, access to porn, maturbation and or sex is at her discretion as well. 

 

I enjoy it immensely. 

My wife knows I wear diapers for pleasure, and that the pleasure comes not just from wearing, but using, for both, wet and worse.  She doesn’t exactly approve, but definitely tolerates.  For this, I’ve concluded that she likes, doesn’t love, but definitely likes, that I’m happy for her to know everything, because she definitely enjoys that I’m submissive.

[gmcchamp99]

9 minutes ago, Toddler Pampers said:

My wife knows I wear diapers for pleasure, and that the pleasure comes not just from wearing, but using, for both, wet and worse.  She doesn’t exactly approve, but definitely tolerates.  For this, I’ve concluded that she likes, doesn’t love, but definitely likes, that I’m happy for her to know everything, because she definitely enjoys that I’m submissive.

I am sincerely happy for you. My wife goes above and beyond with her involvement, approval, support and care of me being diapered all of the time and comfortable with it. 

[babybub]

@Toddler Pampers. My situation is the same as yours. I wash my plastic pants and leave out to dry on a towl rail in view of my wife. She is fine with this.

[Toddler Pampers]

59 minutes ago, babybub said:

@Toddler Pampers. My situation is the same as yours. I was my plastic pants and leave out to dry on a towl rail in view of my wife. She is fine with this.

Awesome, isn’t?!  But, honestly, while my wife doesn’t actively support, the fact that she’s fully informed, and still loves me, says there’s something there that works for her.

 

 I say she doesn’t actively participate.  That is when it comes to me being a baby in diapers.  But, when we have sex, she wears this very nursing bra, if I ask, which I always do.  I’ve made it very clear to her, as if she needed me to, that her undoing those hooks, and giving me her breasts, is me nursing like a baby, complete with the satisfied sounds a baby makes.

 

Fortunately, for me, there’s something in that which really works for her.  Again, I believe she loves me being submissive, though not necessarily for wearing diapers.  But she is very nurturing and feminine, and, obviously, loves having her breasts sucked, which so works for me, too, as I pretend.  Yes, I wish I was diapered, but it’s pretty wonderful that we’ve found our way at all through this.  Been married for 26 years.

 

[Little BabyDoll Christine]

This kind of thing is inherient in being an AB or Little as does a certain kind of humiliation as a little may be and usually is, chastized in front of others IRL, being in a vertical relationship with her "caregiver". Especially for a little girl. Using the diaper is inherently "submissive" becasue of the cultural "canon" that goes with it (either a baby, decrepit old fart, incon, lazy, little girl (when I was little, girls were diapered for long trips or if in groups of two or mare who could not go for two hours comfprtably without needing the toilet at one of their homes for the afternoon being under 8 years old or sometimes those under 6-1/2, to make one aware of her pajties and teach her to keep them concealed as part of "chastity training",  or some other less-than-fully-in -control image that is fundmentally attached to the diaper

This is different from Sissy. Sissy has things attached to it like being a girl is deameaning, cuckhold, SHP or some otherdysfunction or dysfunctional state. As a 5 year old blonde, I am expected to be sweet and adorable without being babyish or whiny, and to try to use that to manipulate. I would not be expected to have a 7" howitzer under my diaper so there would be nothing wrong if I did not: Trying to SPH a little girl would be pointless like trying to fat shame a pig or tease an elephant for having a big nose. Also, I am expected to do feminine things so being in a dress and tiara would be normal and I would be expected to love it just burstingly. If, on the other hand, I were expected to be a zombie-stomping, AR-15-1/2 slinging, top-tier NFL tight end, F-22 Raptor ace with 30 confirmed air kills, that would be a WTF thing (Here is a true story: back in the  early '80's I was a regular caller to a local conservative talk show, well one night I was waiting to go on and, during the commercial break, the host, with whom I was familiar, was setting up the coallers for the nesxt round and he came to me and we did the usual set-up. Then I said "Are we private", he says "Yeah" and I sid "Did you know they calle me 'Tomcat'?" and he, knowing me well, goes "Why?" and I says "Because I can f 14")

[Rachael-Little]

Not being married I’m not a sissy either but without question I would love having a dominant women in my life who would love keeping me diapered and kept as it were, her girly guy in diapers and sometimes regressed too