TomBoyAB Posted April 30, 2019 Share Posted April 30, 2019 Hey guys. It's TomBoyAB. I'm sure you can guess what this post in particular is going to be about. My Mommy is going through A LOT in her life right now. She just got out of the hospital after a major car accident where some of the people most precious to her passed away. She was also seriously hurt in the incident. Due to all of this happening, she is extremely overwhelmed, and with good reason. She said that with all that's going on, she feels as though she can't take care of me anymore. I've just kinda been numb these past few days. I have been trying to immerse myself in other things to distract myself (shopping, books, movies, fishing, work, etc.) It just hurts too much to think that my Mommy may never be in my life again. It also hurts to think that someone as kind and sweet as my Mommy could have so much bad stuff happen to them. I'm trying my best to just be a big kid and deal with it, but sometimes, I just wanna be Little. But being Little without my Mommy just makes my stomach churn. I put on the best big girl brave face that I can, but I still miss my Mommy... She was there for me when no-one else was. She was the mother figure in my life when I needed it the most. And now she isn't there. I try not to think about it, but as soon as I'm alone, these thoughts creep into my head: 'I want my Mommy' 'I miss my Mommy' 'Please come back, Mommy' I have cried myself to sleep more than once since her last message, and then I wake up the next day, repeating the same cycle: Wake up Put on brave face Go to work Come home Sleep What should I do? Thank you to all that took the time out of their day to read this. Any and all thoughts would be appreciated. 1 Link to comment
Baby Girl Sarah Posted April 30, 2019 Share Posted April 30, 2019 First of all im so sorry for all thats sad in youre life as of now ? The short answer on youre question is continue what youre doing I have cried myself to sleep more than once since her last message (its VITAL that youre able to alow youre self to relive youre feelings so is also you give youre self TIME and not try to compress this in youre mind ) Wake up (obviously we dont have mush chice in this ) Put on brave face ( The only thing we can do is try our best to be as strong as we possibly can both for our self's as well as our nearest ) Go to work (this is VITAL part as life HAS to go on one way or another ) Come home ( Logical ) Sleep ( Again logical ) And also give youre mommy TIME as well as you can shorly understand she`s also overwhelmed from all this and needs a time out to collect her feelings and get her life back together. And you DONT know that sometime in the future she wont be able to take you back . BUT for now you have to give her some time to get her life in gear again . 1 Link to comment
Huggybutt Posted May 1, 2019 Share Posted May 1, 2019 I'm very sorry for what's going on. *Big hugs to you! Is there any way you can be there for her as an adult friend? It sounds like she is in need right now and showing your support could give you some happiness and prominent purpose through gratification. Perhaps she will see that and with time, will come back to you with open arms when the time is ready. I wish you the best! Link to comment
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