BabyGirlin RubberPanties Posted March 15, 2007 Share Posted March 15, 2007 Ive been AB/DL for as long as i can remember, but ive never wet. I use hair removal cream which makes me feel so warm and snug inside my nappy. I spend my night times feeling aroused or just snug as a baby. I've tried so often to wet, but it just doesnt happen. so i pretend. My question is...Why can't i wet my nappy? Do you have any tips for me? Any help appreciated...i will experiment tonight, UK time Link to comment
thekid1 Posted March 15, 2007 Share Posted March 15, 2007 could you explain more Do you have to wet but just cant go in your diapers and up using the toilet instead? if this is the case a couple thing to try is when you have to go try siting on the toilet with your diapers on and try to relax. Try drinking lots of water so you have to go more. this takes some time to retrain your self to go in your diapers it don't happen over night. and as i sad before relaxing your bladder muscles is the key thing. good luck Link to comment
diaperpt Posted March 15, 2007 Share Posted March 15, 2007 could you explain more Do you have to wet but just cant go in your diapers and up using the toilet instead? if this is the case a couple thing to try is when you have to go try siting on the toilet with your diapers on and try to relax. Try drinking lots of water so you have to go more. this takes some time to retrain your self to go in your diapers it don't happen over night. and as i sad before relaxing your bladder muscles is the key thing. good luck This is good advice. And just think...if you have plenty to drink - water, juice, beer, whatever - and are in a diaper (and don't take it off) the need is eventually going to catch up to you! Do this and when you feel the pressure of needing to release, don't force it - relax and let it happen. Good luck and do write back wet! Link to comment
AutieAB Posted March 15, 2007 Share Posted March 15, 2007 That's it, relax, relax, relax... It'll happen but you spend every day of your life from toddlerhood onwards being convinced by people that Wetting Yourself Is Bad. It's a hard mental hurdle to overcome but it can be done. Eventually it'll become second nature. Plenty of liquid to create a little pressure is a good idea but don't go overboard because that can actually make it harder to let it go. Try waiting to the point where you would normally get up and go to the loo to try. Another trick is the reverse of a potty training trick put your diaper on and try to pee while you're sitting on the loo. It's a more 'normal' setting to pee in, which should make it easier; it helped me when I was first starting out. Link to comment
loopy Posted March 15, 2007 Share Posted March 15, 2007 BEER.... relaxs you and makes you need to pee just drink some then hold out for as long as possible... then an accident will happen (and it feels better being uncontrolled :X) After that it will be easier. Lots of water works as well, or coke since coke makes you need to pee. Link to comment
Guest Posted March 16, 2007 Share Posted March 16, 2007 Ive been AB/DL for as long as i can remember, but ive never wet.I use hair removal cream which makes me feel so warm and snug inside my nappy. I spend my night times feeling aroused or just snug as a baby. I've tried so often to wet, but it just doesnt happen. so i pretend. My question is...Why can't i wet my nappy? Do you have any tips for me? Any help appreciated...i will experiment tonight, UK time the harder you try the more it WON'T Happen so stop trying and evensully it will happen it takes along time to undo what you mum took along time getting you to do Link to comment
beallucanb Posted March 16, 2007 Share Posted March 16, 2007 Try warm water first, you will get the sensation, snd then let go in your diaper, worked for me the first time I wet, now I can wet anytime I want,I have my second diaper on tonight, the earlyer one jst couldn't hold anymore.... Link to comment
WallaWalla Posted March 16, 2007 Share Posted March 16, 2007 Eh, hair removal cream in your diapers? That sounds like a good way to get a really REALLY bad skin issue, that stuff is caustic, it even says on the bottle not to use it near your lady bits. Link to comment
BabyGirlin RubberPanties Posted March 16, 2007 Author Share Posted March 16, 2007 thank you for taking time to reply everyone. thekid1...i dont have to wet but i want to experience it. Thank you for your advice about sitting on the toilet. I will try that one. I thought i was relaxing when i try to wet, but i guess im not relaxing enough....i'll keep trying. WallaWalla...you misunderstood. I dont use the cream inside my nappy. I use it at bathtime. What i meant is that the smooth after fx makes me feel warm etc. Thank you again everyone. I will keep you all updated. Link to comment
BigDaddyJed Posted March 16, 2007 Share Posted March 16, 2007 first ry drinking tons of water then sit around a relax as the others said but if you real want it to happen then as you sit around or what ever try this I had great exp with this one after drink lot of water sand by the sink and do the dishes you sit on the potty and run the sink the runing water sound make me and my little one wet alot they soak the nappys and diapers from the sounds of running water your cute too Link to comment
sirpoopsalot Posted March 16, 2007 Share Posted March 16, 2007 Hi babygirl, All good advice here but the most important thing is to relax. As was mentioned the harder you try the harder it is. Beer does make you pee and so does cranberry juice. Try drinking cran jc and club soda. After 3 or 4 of them you WILL have to pee and then it is just a matter of relaxing. Good luck and please let us know how you make out. Link to comment
BabyGirlin RubberPanties Posted March 17, 2007 Author Share Posted March 17, 2007 im warm, im relaxed im in my thick nappies waiting to wet...its there but it wont come. i want to wet Link to comment
sunnykait08 Posted March 17, 2007 Share Posted March 17, 2007 I agree with the other posts in trying putting some water in the diaper to see if that helps to let you go. Also, I believe that some people may have a psychological issue in which the thought of them peeing or pooping themselves prevents em from doing it. I also agree by drinking lots of water. Also, when you get the urge to go just don't go to the bathroom and enjoy the sensations of going in ur pants or shorts or etc. Link to comment
Forever3 Posted March 17, 2007 Share Posted March 17, 2007 Try trickeling a LITTLE stream of warm water down the front of your diaper. The sensation of warm will aid your "release". As it has been reiterated on this thread, RELAX, more fluids, and before ya know it, you will be going going GONE! Link to comment
AutieAB Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 im warm, im relaxed im in my thick nappies waiting to wet...its there but it wont come. i want to wet So once you've got yourself into that situation, do something else. Watch TV, read a book, play a game or anything else you normally do to relax because you need to calm down some. Now try some of the suggestions in this thread. If you're patient, relaxed and you wait long enough, it will happen eventually. The laws of human biology say so Link to comment
beallucanb Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 One of the things that helped me in the beginning, 1 was the little bit of warm water, and 2 was going to the basement, in my mind, I think, I didn't want to mess up my house, and going to the basement, garage or wherever, you won't possibly make a mess by leaking, relaxes your mind and your body will allow you to go, sounds crazy, but then again I'm nuts anyway. Give it a shot, the most it can do is not work for you, it worked for me.... Link to comment
Pipsqueak Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 I don't wet very often, but for the longest time I was like you and couldn't make myself wet no matter what. The thing that worked for me was learning to let go when I stepped into the shower. Maybe it was the constantly running water or the fact that it would just run down the drain, but it was easier to get my body to let go in the shower. Once I could do that consistently, I had no trouble wetting in my diapers - although I still can't seem to do it lying down. Link to comment
BabyGirlin RubberPanties Posted April 8, 2007 Author Share Posted April 8, 2007 ive done it - ive finally done it...i loved the sensation. every single minute of it. im sitting in it now and it just feels so natural. thank you so very much everyone of you. Link to comment
thekid1 Posted April 9, 2007 Share Posted April 9, 2007 well i am glad for you just out off curiosity what worked for you? Link to comment
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