boy Posted November 15, 2016 Share Posted November 15, 2016 As per topic,I don't have the courage to baby my lil girl. Long story short, it took me many years to reach a mutual undestanding(literally) Now that she accepts the concept, I simply can't find the courage to execute even one session. And lots of things came to my mind like..like after diapering and dress her up,what am i going to do next? Or how long will a session last? Of coz there's hard limits from. But nonetheless,its the courage to do it. I guess it's because of the downs that i encountered with her in the past,that's been holding me back. So would love to seek some help from couples/daddies/anyone who been thru this. Link to comment
minachan16 Posted November 15, 2016 Share Posted November 15, 2016 You and my daddy have a lot in common. Don't worry about how long it will last, but ask her what kinds of things she wants to do and that she wants YOU to do during a little time session. Setting an itinerary to start with may not be a bad idea, for instance: 8:00 AM: Breakfast 9:00 AM: TV Time 10:00 AM: Coloring etc. etc. Diaper changes will happen as are required, and your little should let you know if there is anything else she needs. Most importantly, TAKE IT SLOW. This is something BOTH of you should enjoy so don't feel like you need to rush any aspect. Take the time to get to know your little in her "little space" and give her the time to get to know her new "daddy". 2 Link to comment
boy Posted November 17, 2016 Author Share Posted November 17, 2016 On 11/15/2016 at 10:43 PM, minachan16 said: You and my daddy have a lot in common. Don't worry about how long it will last, but ask her what kinds of things she wants to do and that she wants YOU to do during a little time session. Setting an itinerary to start with may not be a bad idea, for instance: 8:00 AM: Breakfast 9:00 AM: TV Time 10:00 AM: Coloring etc. etc. Diaper changes will happen as are required, and your little should let you know if there is anything else she needs. Most importantly, TAKE IT SLOW. This is something BOTH of you should enjoy so don't feel like you need to rush any aspect. Take the time to get to know your little in her "little space" and give her the time to get to know her new "daddy". Link to comment
boy Posted November 17, 2016 Author Share Posted November 17, 2016 21 hours ago, Sweetiesnuggles said: Link to comment
Jilly Poo Posted November 17, 2016 Share Posted November 17, 2016 You mentioned in one of the above responses that she doesn't like to wet (I'm assuming she's wearing a diaper/pull-up) then why not try "Potty Training" as an activity if she is willing to use the Potty in front of you. Link to comment
boy Posted November 30, 2016 Author Share Posted November 30, 2016 Update updates! We managed to talk it out! And here's our itinerary! We will have breakfast, then off we go to mall toy r us! Do some window shopping..maybe with little time for arcade! And we will head back home and have a ab session time! Session includes -snuggles time -stuffies time -movie time -story time -coloring time/art n crafts As for diapering,it will only be done during night time when we are having story/movie time. Pacifer n onesie included! Hard limits for her is to going pee/poo that's all. With you guys help of introducing a safeword,I've established a safeword with her,so as to make her feel safe at any point of time. 3 Link to comment
minachan16 Posted November 30, 2016 Share Posted November 30, 2016 So happy that you two have worked it out. Enjoy the ride Link to comment
boy Posted December 1, 2016 Author Share Posted December 1, 2016 4 hours ago, minachan16 said: So happy that you two have worked it out. Enjoy the ride Thanks! I will enjoy! Felt so excited and looking forward!! Link to comment
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