noahVmiller Posted June 18, 2015 Share Posted June 18, 2015 For the first time in my life I have a mommy, and when I'm with her it feels like I'm on cloud 9. However, I am having a hard time finding my "role" in the relationship. As a little I am naturally submissive, and my mommy by heart is a very domineering person. She wants me to be an "equal" and furthermore she wants me to be the "dom" more or less during sexy sexy time. I don't have a problem with either of these roles, but I have a hard time knowing when I can act little or at least indulge in my submissive self. Link to comment
Elfy Posted June 18, 2015 Share Posted June 18, 2015 For the first time in my life I have a mommy, and when I'm with her it feels like I'm on cloud 9. However, I am having a hard time finding my "role" in the relationship. As a little I am naturally submissive, and my mommy by heart is a very domineering person. She wants me to be an "equal" and furthermore she wants me to be the "dom" more or less during sexy sexy time. I don't have a problem with either of these roles, but I have a hard time knowing when I can act little or at least indulge in my submissive self. Link to comment
BowsAndRibbons Posted June 18, 2015 Share Posted June 18, 2015 My boyfriend and I have run into a similar problem. We really like Dom/Sub play, but neither of us are incredibly dominant. He's a sissy (though nota huge fan of diapers in himself) and I want to be babied, but not become a baby (cuddled and cooed over for like an hour, but then return to being 20 and fully functioning). Usually we compromise by him asking me if Rachel can come play with her baby, or if she has to stay with her mistress; thus giving me the chance to choose the evening's adventure. As much as I adore being the submissive one, seeing Roger enjoy himself is much more important to me. I think you will have to make the same choice. 1 Link to comment
littleJaina Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 This has been something difficult for me in my relationship as well. I'm on the dominant side, but still incredibly soft hearted. Someone's it makes it difficult to "push", so to speak. The distance really is a factor. The only thing that really helps is being able to see and guage reactions so I know what kind of impact I'm having. On the other side, I'm still a woman. I DO want a man beside me to tell me things will be ok, to hold me in his arms, and to initiate sex himself so that I feel desirable. I have been incredibly lucky to find that perfect partner. And I'm even more lucky because our distant days are drawing to a close and we'll be able to spend much mute time in physical contact. It's going to be so much fun to be able to explore our different roles more easily! 1 Link to comment
littleJaina Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 I also want to point out that you need to stay away from an attitude like your screen name in a relationship. Relationships are all about SHARING. Link to comment
noahVmiller Posted June 19, 2015 Author Share Posted June 19, 2015 my name was supposed to be a sign more than anything, more like an inside joke between my mommy and me so she could identify me easier. If there was a way to change it I would have by now. DOn't want to risk getting banned and creating another account. Link to comment
BowsAndRibbons Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 On the other side, I'm still a woman. I DO want a man beside me to tell me things will be ok, to hold me in his arms, and to initiate sex himself so that I feel desirable! You took the words right out of my mouth. Link to comment
Lee B Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 This has been something difficult for me in my relationship as well. I'm on the dominant side, but still incredibly soft hearted. Someone's it makes it difficult to "push", so to speak. The distance really is a factor. The only thing that really helps is being able to see and guage reactions so I know what kind of impact I'm having. Link to comment
BigC300 Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 Maybe us diaper lovers need to go back to college for a PhD in Maslow's Theory? Very interesting! Link to comment
Midwest Babygirl Posted July 9, 2015 Share Posted July 9, 2015 My Mommy is socially-dominant, and sexually submissive. Link to comment
noahVmiller Posted July 11, 2015 Author Share Posted July 11, 2015 #progress For the longest time that is more or less the impression I kept getting in my last relationship. I am a natural submissive but further than that I take pleasure in giving pleasure. I always want someone else's needs met before mine or else it makes me feel uncomfortable sometimes. I'm not saying a relationship HAS to be this way but I feel like I would thrive under a dynamic similar to Link to comment
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