I'm looking for advice from you women to see if I should go threw with it

[diaperdan1967]

I would like to know what you women think about what I want to do with my wife. She is a very good wife and she is turning 42 ,and I am 47 and I joke about having a nice guy joining us in the bedroom. Now let's start at the beginning, I have been having trouble with Ed, since I was 35 ,but my wife didn't know what was going on in till the early 40ts, and I was going to the doctor's office and she was with me. The doctor said that I have very low testosterone, and I will have to be on 50 milagrams of viagra or a daily dose of 5 milagrams ,and it's very expensive. I started to bring toy's into are bedroom and she was more open to the toy's ,and over the years she has been very supportive of the toys in the bedroom. I do get hard but it's not too often and she really likes the real , and she does get very frustrated with me because I tease so much and she gets so wet and I can't bring her to orgasm .

Now I have been writing in my diary and I no my wife reads it . Some of the stories I talk about are things that we do and othes I fantasize about doing with her. The only thing is that the stories I have talked about I don't know if she will be willing to go along with or if she will divorces me for it. This is how it goes in my diary. This part is true I love when we are at home and are boys are not a rounded and we have alone time. One of the things that we do is to get a nice hot bath in are world pool tub and she has a glass of wine. Now she's in the tub for a hour and in that time my wife is drained and is willing to do anything I want to do . I love when I lay her down on the bed and she is so warm and horney ,I start by massaging her all over and playing with her at the same time. I have a wide range of toys I strap on when I get her to the point where we make love for hours and in that time I acting like other guys are coming in the bedroom and I will talk outside the bedroom door to a pretend person and strap on a different toy come in and get in bed and most times I have her blindfolded and tied up . I get into bed and try to make it feel like someone else is touching her and being to make love to her and then change places .He would get out and I would get in bed on the other side , but it was me walking around the bed .I'm only semi hard most times when we make love I'm 4 and a half inches but it tease the fuck out of her and she gets even Horner I get out of bed and open are bedroom door once again and acted like someone else is there and this could go on for hour's.

Now I'm trying to tell you ladies about are lives not a porn stories. I love my wife very much but I feel like she is missing the real thing. I joke about if she ever meets someone don't cheat on me I would rather have him come home with her and join in then have her cheat on me behind my back. She hates when I say that and gives me a smart ass comment.

Now I need to get to the point. In my diary ,I talk about setting up a weekend getaway at a hotel. The room would have a world pool tub and I would have someone from are diaper communitie with 8 inches or more and no diapers . She hates diapers and don't want anything to do with them or me when I am in one . Know back to what I was saying setup a weekend getaway at a hotel and tell her that I setup a couples massage in are room at a later time and go out to drink and let her have a couple glass of wine .Now she's in the mood for for the couple's massage go back to the room for are appointment have him come in and be dressed in the part ask who is first and I would say my wife and she would get ready and he would go into the bathroom run the water for her to soak into the world pool tub and she would get in the tub ,and I would bring another glass of wine for her to drink and to relax even more .I know how she will feel after that, so when the guy tell her he is ready for her ,she will be so drained and willing to just lay down on the bed in a towel or a massaging table I'm not sure yet on that .Now he would really start with the massage and do her back down to her legs, and then her feet at this point he will be able to see her bottom and buy this point I'm hoping that he is hard as a rock. Tell her to turn over to do the front she will have a towel across her breast and her bottom .she will close her eyes and relax again ,and he would slip off his pants and be at her head starting to massage her neck and shoulders working his way down to her breast and he would slip his thumbs up the sides of her breasts ,and if would say anything I would tell her to relax and enjoy she loves her breast played with and from there it would happen to go all the way and I would be hopefully she will not be mad .

At home we pretend and she said she doesn't want anyone else but there's times she wants more than a toy and if there was someone else there at that time she would I think

[Baby Brian]

Diaperdan, it sounds like you're trying to mix your fantasy life with your real one, unfortunately it doesn't work that way. I feel your frustrations though. I too have low T, and can't please my wife as much as I'd like to. Plus, I also have to cathterize more than I'd care for, which ruins the mood and pleasure for both of us. Plus, I'm bisexual but made the promise to be faithful to her only. After a while all I wanted was another guy and she no longer turned me on quite as much.

I've tried bringing up a 3-way with her, as well as going to an open marriage. However, she is set against either of them. Like you, I love my wife and don't want to loose her. Unfortunately there just doesn't seem to be much either of us can do.

Of course if your marriage gets bad, or you think she might leave you, I'd seek counseling. As would I.

[diaperdan1967]

Thanks for your help, I have been having trouble with my fantasy and the roll we pretend to be in , in the bedroom. I fantasize about different things because trying to satisfy her is hard to do ,and she gets so frustrated with me because I just don't get her to the point where she can get the big o or the little orgasm. Now she's gets so frustrated with me she gets mad and it's not like we are going through wam bam thank you mam , so times we are making love for a hour or more. I have all size of toys , just depends on the mood she is in. When I play the role of different guys with different sizes toy's on she is turned on so much we can be in bed all , but even then she can't get satisfied.

[Repaid1]

I have to wonder if your "T" is low why are you not taking a supplemental? I know it's not cheap either, but still having low "T" can cause some serious heath issues in men and your doctor should have informed you and corrected it.. And many guys suffer from "ED" including me, and if 50mg isn't working for you double it to 100mg. Many of my friends are doing just that, and it works for them. a 50 works for me. Also I don't know what you would take but they don't make a 5mg of Viagra and it isn't something you would take daily as Viagra is taken no more than 4 hours before intercourse and no later than 1/2 hour. If 100mg doesn't work then you should switch to Cialis. I also have friends that Viagra doesn't work but Cialis does. Also I have no Idea what a World Pool is, but I know what a Whirlpool/ Jacuzzi is

[DavidMW]

You said that you feel that she's missing the real thing.

[TaliZorahFanGirl]

The sought after woman's response:

[TaliZorahFanGirl]

[DavidMW]

Taking turns certainly

[Bettypooh]

From a close friend whose genetics included a tiny penis and premature ejaculation "That's for me and it works for me. For her I use everything else and it works too." Knowing that he's had several happy girls in his life it must work pretty good so my advice is to learn to use what you've got to best effect, and save the "you thing" for the end to please you

[Diaper_Angel]

Nothing wrong with trying to make fantasy a reality- so long as BOTH parties are on board.

[dlgal1408]

Diaper_angel hit the nail on the head, with being 100% honest and communicating with your wife before anything should happen.