wittleone142 Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 Hi Everyone i was just wondering how do u actually befriend a babygirl.I have talked to a few but im so backward its hard never know if i say the wrong thing or what. i want to be friends with and have someone to chat with im not really a daddy but would like to be someday. but like isaid im just wanting some friends right now please let me know Link to comment
musicaddict Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 On here? 'Hello' tends to be a good place to start. Follow this with casual conversation over a period of time about mutual interests and you might see results. Link to comment
Horndog Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 STEP 1: "Hi, how are you?" STEP 2: "Tell me about yourself." STEP 3: Be a nice guy. STEP 4: ??? STEP 5: Profit. Link to comment
Repaid1 Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 Post more than one post and tell people a bit more about yourself and what have you would really be a good place to take off from Link to comment
sarah_ab Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 like repaid said, post... hang out, get to know people and let people get to know you... most importantly, realize that just because she is on this site in no way means the first and every conversation you have with her there after is to be about diapers. In fact, unless she brings it up.. steer clear of that topic and stick to the things you would talk to any girl about that you are first meeting... generic things.... See the good thing about meeting somone on an AB site is that, if you profile is actually filled out well, then you never have to have that extremely awkward "i like diapers" because well you both already know each others likes/dislikes.... so you really can focus on just getting to know each other without this thing in the back of your mind.... well aside from sex... but thats normal for everyone! Link to comment
ErinM Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 Don't be creepy and respect boundaries. Basically, if she tells you to leave her alone for whatever reason, then do it and don't whine. Link to comment
belinda_sue_fox Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 Do drive bys in your Ferrari while burning hundred dollor bills. Link to comment
BBB Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 Do drive bys in your Ferrari while burning hundred dollor bills. Dollar* Damn Brits Link to comment
sarah_ab Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 at least she didn't say Hundred pound bills! those are some heavy bills! Link to comment
belinda_sue_fox Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 Dollar* Damn Brits Damn typos!!! Link to comment
square_duck Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 Flowers.... and what Sarah said Link to comment
sarah_ab Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 no flowers die and take a lot of work to take care of.. tells a girl you want her to put a lot of hard work into you only in the end to fizzle out and die away. nope.... candy is good says "i'm sweet and premade and ready to go but will give you cavities and in the long wrong you pay for it"... baked goods spoil if you don't eat em right away.. could tell the girl "you better get all you can out of me early on cause its not gonna last" i'll take the money! Link to comment
belinda_sue_fox Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 i'll take the money! Is that the money they are burning as they drive by in their Ferrari?? Link to comment
Honu Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 I've done it and now we're married! Okay, everyone is right about how you start. You treat her like a human even though she is a girl. Don't get wrapped up about that and discuss things like you have a brain and some control. Let things build and as you start to tell her about yourself, be truthful. As long as it's true, you can describe how responsible and stable you are. Once it has been established that you can treat her like a person, are someone that is interesting and someone that could hold his own in a long term relationship, she might get attracted to you. There's a lot of conversations between "Hi" and that so don't rush it. The mistake way too many guys make is rushing straight to personal things with someone you don't even really know. Not only does it not work, it leaves a bad impression for the community as a whole. if you're smart, employed, responsible, stable, emotionally mature and available, make sure your posts convey that. Be nice to as many people as you can here and be open to making new friends. One thing may lead to another so don't just think the straight path is the only way. Good luck and do your best. 1 Link to comment
Repaid1 Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 employed?? what does that have to do with it.. I prefer Financically stable ( my spell check is on the frizz!) Link to comment
wittleone142 Posted January 17, 2012 Author Share Posted January 17, 2012 thanks everybody for the info i can only do my best and hope for the best Link to comment
wetnappyuk Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 Not many girls in Scotland on here though, I am willing to be proved wrong though! Link to comment
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