Question To Females.

[Morv]

men are physical, primitive beings controled by their sexual urges,

Pretty much agreed. Just install "primarily" between "controlled" and "by."

women, being more mature and cultured

Disagree.

Even when all scientific evidence portrays men and women as far more similar than that.

Men and women have more similarities than that, however, we do differ in many important ways. If you look at what has been said, many man seem to assume that women are "visual," whereas most of the women's testimonials and even one guy's own statement actually demonstrate that women tend to be more physical and prone to attachment in a more than visual way -- contact and connection, physical, auditory, and visual. But, to each sex, its own. We share a possessive degree of sexuality, however it tends to manifest itself differently in each sex and tends to be stimulated in a different way in either sex. A trend, a probability.

2- From my normal life view I think they all look false and fake. Only doing the pictures for the men who do get off on nappys.

Actually, this doesn't really bother me that much. In a "pornography & me" relationship, I'm not looking for much more in my potential partner.

But seriously, I think that approach leads to more standard porn producers creating content to compete in a niche market, which really results in photography styles that, though more professional than many other sites, don't emphasize the right parts of the model and/or scene. A common result of this is numerous body shots that just cut off a very attractive woman's head. Now, I'll admit to being turned on by pictures of women in diapers and one of the various stages of undress. However, I am turned off by headless women. Doesn't mean that a nice close up shot is a bad thing, but women that are missing a head, or worse, half of a head, or like missing half her breasts or something turn me off. The shots that do don't work for me.

On the other hand, the sites that are actual ABs/DLs also tend to not have as high of a quality of photograph. Often resolution is lower, encoding of images and/or video isn't as high of quality, and pictures are blurry. Though well framed, I find that the shots on these sites are more likely to be out of focus, and there tends to be more repetitive shots, where all that changed was a minor shift of a leg or an arm or something.

But, either way, support masturbation. It reduces the frequency of HNGs in chatrooms. I believe in it.

You should too! Believe in the power of theraputic chronic masturbation as a behavioral modifaction technique for HNGs.

MASTURBATION: THE POWER IS IN YOUR HANDS!

[Pipsqueak]

Nicely put, Morv.

[DollyDiaper]

Agreed, well said Morv

Indeed, thanks for answering about men from a male perspective, whilst acknowledging our voices when answering about women - and not putting words in our mouths or endowing us with false attributes.

Would that there were more men who actually listened to what we have to say when describing our own experiences.

D lly

[seppuku]

As a side note, this thread has proven only one thing: everyone is different.

[curious]

Um YES! I like the look very much of a nice handsome fella in a diaper! Not sure if I'd call it a "turn on" but maybe so since I have been known to get a little warm over a few diapered guys ive seen! A guy in a diaper is VERY PLEASING to the CURIOUS EYE!

Huggles and kissies,

CURIOUS

[wetvinyl]

Ok-- to every guy who's posted a diaper-pose pic and is wondering why the ladies aren't beating a path to their IP address:

NEWS FLASH: Females are not as primarily image-based as males are. Most times, for females, a picture of

a guy in a diaper is just a picture of a guy in a diaper. The visual by itself is not the prima facie

appeal for them. Women also need, and respond to, the emotional and non-physical side of things-- the

unique individual personality of the guy... nuances that are far beyond what a mere diaper-pic can give her.

SCENARIO 1: Joe DiaperGuy and Jane DiaperGirl-- who have never met each other-- both post their diaper-pose pics.

Joe sees Jane's pic, she's very very cute... and Joe IMMEDIATELY thinks about:

(1) diapering Jane

(2) having sex with Jane

(3) Jane diapering him

(4) living with Jane

(5) all of the above, or

(37) possibly marrying Jane (contingent upon the success of 1 through 5 above, plus many other mitigating factors as well).

Meanwhile, Jane sees Joe's pic, he's fat/skinny/older/not George Clooney... and she immediately thinks:

(1) Next.

SCENARIO 2: Joe DiaperGuy and Jane DiaperGirl, who have never met each other, both meet in a chat room. They talk for a while... then suddenly it's three hours later, and they're still going strong. During this happy circumstance, Joe reveals to Jane that--

(1) He's single

(2) Has a job that's pretty cool

(3) Doesn't live in his mom's basement (has his own apartment/house)

(4) Yes, he can change a car's oil, hang doors, and do dishes

(5) Is listening to the latest DixieChicks / AndreaBocelli / Josh Groban CD

(6) Loves to walk in a gentle rain

(7) Found himself unexpectedly crying during "Titanic"

(8) Had a difficult childhood, but forgives his parents (or not-- whatever)

(9) Believes the only pain any woman should ever feel is during childbirth

(10) Is managing a small but promising portfolio of investments in socially- and enviromentally-responsible concerns.

(Couple notes to the guys:

(1) I know you all glossed over that list after about the 4rd or 5th point... but read it again. Here's why: Notice how there's NOTHING about diapers in there. Yes, you and the girl are both here in a diaper room... but she wants to know something ELSE about you. So suck it down, fella-- it's not all about you and your Attends now.

(2) If you DON'T happen to have a portfolio of socially- and enviromentally-responsible stock concerns-- or anything else on that list-- feel free to plug in your own personal plus points. But, yes-- she is listening to you... and taking notes.)

After a while, Joe and Jane exchange diaper-pose pics... and now Jane sees Joe in his diaper-- and thinks OMG HE'S SO CUTE...!!!!!!!

And the rest is history.

Just my observation. But, hey-- I'm just a plain ole 48-year-old guy. I don't claim to have figured the fairer sex out, even at this late date. I could be wrong.

[seppuku]

*clapclapclap*

[seppuku]

Oh, and you know what? This thread has been going on for over a year! Holy shit!

Edit: Apparently I am to blame for dragging it out from the depths.

[diapergirl80]

wetvinyl's got it.

Random guys in diapers don't do much for me. I don't seek out pictures of guys wearing just to look.

However, the right guy in a diaper could be absolutely wonderful if the two of us had a connection.

It's the same with any guy I date--he's always the most handsome guy in the room for me, regardless of whether anyone else agrees or disagrees.

[seppuku]

she speaks!

[Morv]

And to think, I unfortunately still do live in my parents basement (well kinda; I actually live up stairs, but I spend most of my time in the basement... and most of that is so I can save money to allow the following part of this statement), and my portfolio is in energy providers and defense contractors because they are secure, if not in alignment with my personal mores.

[wetvinyl]

And to think, I unfortunately still do live in my parents basement (well kinda; I actually live up stairs, but I spend most of my time in the basement... and most of that is so I can save money to allow the following part of this statement), and my portfolio is in energy providers and defense contractors because they are secure, if not in alignment with my personal mores.

No worries, Morv. I wrote that post well under the influence of many of Sam Adams' bottled pleasures, and allowed myself some degree of generalization in compiling that 10-point list.... just to get the post out before I fell into complete incomprehensibility.

I'm quite sure that any descerning female, upon reviewing the general tenor of your DD-posting canon, could overlook your current domicile status in balance with your overall appeal as a Quality Big-Brained Guy.

I myself have never seen "Titanic", heard an Andrea Bocelli CD, or maintain a stock portfolio of any kind...

Carry on

Vinyl.

[Guest Diaperdragon]

wetvinyl got it right. Women aren't into diapers as much as men are. For me, when you see a pictures of one guy in diapers, you see them all. Most pictures i see are either just the diaper or the guy in the diaper. Pictures of guys in Diapers don't turn me on at all.