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Just a wonderful story, thank you for sharing it! Cindy's ability to create a situation that neither of the others expected or wanted, but grew to desire, is wonderfully devious

Yes, sometimes I like a spanking to end with some tears. Most of the time, spankings are playful, whether they're just a few swats with a hand or a certain wooden paddle that STINGS like ******, but it's for the fun of being spanked (or a bit of an endorphin buzz). But now and then, usually when I'm feeling very relaxed and completely at ease with my partner, I can let go, and just allow myself a good cry. It's usually during a fairly long, slow spanking with lots of body-to-body contact. I've asked for a spanking when I've been upset or stressed out about something, and know that a good healthy cry always makes me feel better. Pain alone doesn't do it. The hardest spanking I got in my life, I was deliberately razzing my partner, saying they had a weaker wrist than a cheap bartender and whatever other witty commentary I could come up with. It sure worked, ended up with a mix of howling in pain and laughing in between swats, and sitting was "memorable" for several days. Delrin cane. Mucho Oucho! ?

.. And says "why the droopy drawers?" (sorry, couldn't resist) I've been a kinkster for pretty much all my life but only discovered diapers when I was in my 30's, and found they brought out all kinds of feelings, most of which I enjoy a lot. I don't call myself an AB, but only because it's something I haven't really had a chance to try. It's on the list In the last year or so the DL part of me has been more eager to come out and play. I live in the southern US, but travel a lot. I'm physically male, but have a lot of feminine aspects to my personality, so I consider myself gender-fluid or non-binary and bisexual. But I'm here mostly because I don't have a place where I can just be completely open about my DL (and maybe AB) interests, around like-minded people. Thank you all for making this place and I hope to get to know some of you!