[How Does Pooping Feel To You]

I think it's basically been said before but it's a mix of naughtiness and littleness for me. It transfers my state of mind to a time when I didn't have any responsibilities and could expect my stinky  accident to quickly attract some attention.

I'm definitely not into the scat side of it and I don't like the cleanup part, but I don't find it disgusting enough to deter me from doing it either. It just feels like a natural aftermath kind of like most people don't get disgusted every time they wipe themselves after pooping on the toilet. Shit happens, and sometimes it happens in the diaper.

[Do you REALLY Want to become Diaper dependent?]

On 8/23/2018 at 10:37 PM, Little Christine said:

Yes it is; because then you are not your own person, but a slave or addict to that on which you depend. psychological dependence is the easiet kind to defeat if you want to stop being a victim

I think that perspective is a bit too white and black. Humans are complex creatures with complex desires and some of us were created and shaped in childhood to have a lifelong "dependency" on diapers. Dependent meaning that a person can't really be completely happy or complete without indulging in diaper related activities.

I think of diaper and incontinence desires as a part of the upper parts of the infamous need pyramid.

I'm pretty sure that nobody in this thread would become a mental wreck without diapers, but I'm also pretty sure that quite a few would simply be a more unfulfilled and unhappy version of themselves. Some people have way more problematic and dangerous desires than a dependency on diapers out there, and I think it's one of the more mild desires you can wrestle with in your life. All in all it is ultimately a problem of "luxury" to consider oneself psychologically dependent on diapers for comfort. It's only in the last hundreds of years that we as humans have had the opportunity to develop and satisfy these kinds of needs instead of fighting for daily survival.

 

[When Was The Last Time You Pooped Your Diaper]

About an hour ago. I was going for a morning walk when I felt the unusual urge to poop this early in the morning (10 AM). I don't know what I ate to have this happen but I would definitely have had to go home immediately if it wasn't for my trusty diaper ? I love when diapers actually make my life easier!

I'm home again and it's getting really stinky now so I'm going to wet it and change into a new one!

[The Psychology Behind Incontinence Desire]

On 6/1/2018 at 7:17 PM, babykeiff said:

WARNING

Long post that is designed to try and answer a unanserable question.

*Wall of text*

Wow, thanks a lot for the post! I usually ponder a lot about the philosophy/psychology behind many things in society, and I sure have thought about the desire to become incontinent a lot. I personally think you hit the nail on the head with your post.
 

On 6/1/2018 at 7:17 PM, babykeiff said:

I’d prefer to be the infantilist – the side effects of being an infantilist is a wet and/or messy diaper, maybe some diaper rash, maybe some distain amongst my peers, but nothing that will kill me. Smoking does kill. Alcohol makes me stupid. Drugs kill.

I am obviously biased as a DL/Infantilist I guess, but yes - So much yes to this.

Both my grandfathers passed away before I was even born due to different vices. One of them drank himself to death and the other one ate himself to a heart attack...
My mom has smoked since she was a teen and let's just say that both my parents drink their fair share of alcohol.

When it comes to me I only drink alcohol at parties, I never smoke, never do any type of drugs and I eat relatively healthy.
If infantilism is to be my "vice" in life I welcome it with open arms! 

[You have to start with hello]

At least according to James May ? But I broke that law and posted like a mad man before this introduction.

I'm a 23 year old ABDL Switch (primarily DL) from Sweden. I've just started embracing it again after a long purge cycle, and I intend to never enter that cycle again. ?I'm on the right track baby I was born this way ? 

I'm mostly here to discuss aspects of the ABDL life and any related issues/ideas that pop into my head ? 

[Why diapers are better than toilets.]

You can have more true privacy using a diaper when out in public (depending on the situation). When using public restrooms you are forced to hear, smell (and see in the case of guys) other people doing their thing.

[Is it possible to become "diaper incontinent" at night?]

9 minutes ago, Little Christine said:

That is even worse because you will still be juggling x number of uninformed, possibly dangerous opinions when it would be easier to get and deal with a properly trained persons response and process it. This is a FETISH site, not a medical site and any medical or mental health advice you get here is worth what you pay for it and if you are new to all of this, then you are not even oriented and are, in short, Murphy bait

The problem is not the brain, it is the "muscle memory" if you teach it to go in your sleep or near-sleep, that is what it will do regardless of eternal conditions; it is reading internal body conditions. Also if the muscles fully or partially atrophy then what the brain tells it will not matter. They will have atrophied partially and just not be able to carry out the instructions you give the brain

I see. I truly appreciate your honesty and well-meaning, the internet is short of actual professionals after all. 
But if I decide to do something I can promise you that I will have read a lot more about it than just a few forum posts. It is true that you get what you pay for but the Internet is a special place in that some professional information can still be out there for free if you look hard enough.

9 minutes ago, rusty pins said:

If you really want to start sleep wetting at night, I might suggest that you try a hypnotic tape for bedwetting only.  That way you can remain continent with day control but when in bed at night you can wear diapers and wet in your sleep.   There are many hypnotic tapes, some will let you wet only when wearing diapers, some only at night when you sleep, you just have to look around on the internet for them.  be aware, they may or may not work because not everyone can be hypnotized.  You have to want it and be open to it.  I suggest if interested, read up on the internet about bedwetting hypnotic tapes.

Interesting. If I'm receptive to that it would be exactly what I'm looking for. 
I'll look deeper into that, thanks for the tip!

[Is it possible to become "diaper incontinent" at night?]

2 hours ago, Little Christine said:

Why do people ask medical questions of the medially untrained? We have neither a house MD nor a house shrink to be the "go to", so you will still have the question unansweredd or worse incorrectly answered, and 10, usually conflicting, pieces of information which will be of questionable value and therefore you will be more confused than you were. If it appears in a "Desires" sub, I suspect you are not interested in real facts, but wish-fulfillment, which, in medical matters, is dangerous.  If you have a medical question, ask the right person

I understand what you're saying but I wasn't planning on blindly following any response I got. I'm quite new to all this and I just wanted to know if what I wanted was plausible at all, and from what I gather it unfortunately isn't? But I was suspecting that as well so I'm not shocked.

I've always slept naked so I was thinking along the lines of being able to teach the brain that wetting while padded/dressed is okay, and without it's not. But I guess that the brain isn't that easy to fool then and all out incontinence is the only option? 

[Is it possible to become "diaper incontinent" at night?]

Sup everyone!

So... For as long as I can remember I've had a really shy bladder. I can't for the life of me pee at a urinal, and even when I try to do it in a private toilet stall I easily get distracted by other people. If I'm on a road trip with people I have to go several meters away from everyone else and look like an idiot just to be able to pee. It's a quality of life issue in many ways for me. Another downside of it is that in combination with my relatively small bladder I will wake up with an immense pressure on my bladder if I don't control my fluid intake before bed. It's not really urge incontinence because I don't leak but it hurts, disrupts my sleep and prevents me from being properly hydrated at times. 

I've started wearing diapers quite recently and I'm wondering if there's any way to train myself to only wet myself at night when I'm in diapers? I don't want to become night time incontinent without a diaper (at least not yet), but it would be awesome to be able to wake up after a good nights sleep with a wet diaper. Both for my ABDL side and for my sleep quality's sake.

Is this practically possible or would I have to become incontinent without diapers as well in that case?

[Who likes pooping in their underwear?]

Yes, but I prefer a diaper because it feels more baby-like and it allows me to stay in it for a while without staining furniture etc.

Some of my earliest memories are from when I was 5 years old and pooped/pissed my pants on a few occasions when I went out to "play" in the forest.  I remember it feeling soooooo good and naughty. Afterwards I told my mom that they were "accidents", but even then I knew that she didn't buy it... I just couldn't stop myself.  I don't recollect doing it again after that until puberty hit so I must have been reprimanded or embarrassed so much that I repressed those feelings and stopped doing it.