[Am i jealous?]

Hi little mel here, yesterday my boyfriend got his dog back, who is now living with us rather than his dads. I love keisha shes a beautiful dog but i cant help but get jealous of all the ear scratches and belly rubs shes getting.

Is that bad?

[High and dry]

Hi there, 

Just wondering how everyone feels about cannabis and diapers.

Personally i smoke regularly and it really helps my anxiety but so does wearing nappys. So why not mix the two together?  

Thoughts?

[That diaper feeling]

4 hours ago, Angela Bauer said:

How interesting that you decided to nat wear a diaper for your kidney ultrasound.

My family has some sort of hereditary bladder problems. When I was little because my bladder was tiny and over-active my Mom would nicely ask me to wear just-in-case diapers on trips and to special events. Around puberty at age 12 I reverted to bedwetting. The funny thing is my day control was getting better. As I got further into my teens increasingly I would choose to wear day diapers for the convenience and comfort. For my high school graduation I was diapered under my gown. Once I moved to a university dorm my roommate was a bedwetter. We always wore diapers to parties and to long lectures. My last under grad year I wore day diapers most of the time. The summer I moved to law school I completely lost my day control, so I have needed diapers continuously since then. Of course I am diapered every time I have a medical or dental exam or treatment. I find medical professionals have no problem with my diapers.

I guess im still a bit shy 

[Enema Question]

On 7/26/2016 at 1:49 PM, Spanky said:

I like to hold it as long as I can. I'll put my diaper on and lay in bed. I'll lay on one side for a while then the other side. After about a half hour or so, I'll get up and walk around. I'll continue to try to hold it in, but it will get to the point where I can't anymore and some will start to leak out, then some more and some more. It's an amazing feeling as the poop leaks out and you can't control it.

Me tooo

[That diaper feeling]

10 minutes ago, rusty pins said:

To each his own.  While I love being in diapers SOME OF THE TIME, I would never want to be in them all of the time!  I believe everyone should have a good healthy balance in life with everything they do.  Otherwise people get obsessed with something, spend all their time doing that one thing, talking about that one thing and that ailenates some friends.  No one wants to be around someone who is always talking the same thing over and over.  With diapers it can even be worse if it's a fetish.  As I've posted before, when you start wearing diapers more and m,ore and all you can think of is diapers, the fetish starts to take over your life.  you might lose focus at work because you are thinking of when you can get home and into your diapers.  You stop going out with friends because you would rather stay home and play in your diapers.  People should balance hobbies, activities and fetishes with normal life.  Doing lots of different things and learning new things all the time keeps us active and our brains stimulated.  No, while I do enjoy the time I spend in diapers, I would never want to wear them all the time.  Life is too short to put all your eggs in one basket, especially at age 18.

Im 18 too

[That diaper feeling]

9 hours ago, froggy said:

Are a disposable or terry nappy fan?  I prefer cloth diapers and plastic pants.  I will get disposables for camping.  I wear more than actually use.

I use disposable

49 minutes ago, stevewet said:

I don't feel dressed without the bulk o a nappy anymore.

Same :')

[That diaper feeling]

Today I took off my nappy and wore actual panties. ( im not dependent on my diapers i just wear them as underwear) . It was so weird because I've  pretty much been in my diapers for the last three weeks. I missed the comfort they bring but i couldnt wear because i had an ultrasound  (not pregnant btw was for my kidneys but anyway thats totally unrealated). 

When i got home i was straight into a fresh, soft diaper and it was like a wave washed over me. Just love that feeling I  get putting on a nappy after a few hours out of one.

[Diaper dares?]

Hi there,

Looking for some self punishments I could do next time I've got the house to myself

Nothing public please

Thanks, Mel

[Diapers and anxiety]

On 6/7/2018 at 3:30 PM, Comfortably diapered said:

I've got such bad anxiety and depression and for sure diapers help me feel like myself and make me happy. I wouldn't trade it for the world. Some turn to drugs or other things. Diaper up and be stress free!

 

On 6/9/2018 at 7:42 AM, spark said:

For me the diapers are a primary coping mechanism.   My mental health is actually quite good right now, but a lot of it knowing that putting on a diaper is my security.  I could probably abstain for a short time, but know that I will need them.

 

1 hour ago, Marcus said:

Diapers are good for that security reason. It has help me a lot with my anxiety as well. When my bladder went bad on me and now I'm wearing all the time. My Dr was surprised that it didn't bother me when he told me I was going to have to wear adult diapers. The only thing that's weird is now I'm peeing in them. If the diaper is helping calm down then wear it. Don't worry what others say.

Thanks guys, I personally don't have and issues with my bladder or bowals but its like a safety net idk it feels reassuring wearing them, hope you are all well

[Remembering makeshift diapers]

Oml i usued to cut two holes in a thick bin bag and stuff it with loo roll haha

[Diapers and anxiety]

8 hours ago, Txdiapered said:

When I had to start wearing diapers fulltime, I felt that people would stare at me and make fun of me. But found that wearing a diaper brought my stress and depression under control. I talked to several doctors about this and they said the the diaper was in my mind like a security blanket and as long as I had a diaper on my mind though differently. So I understand like you said you felt more comfortable in public when wearing a diaper. I have been wearing fulltime for 12 years and I take minimal doses of depression meds now.

Thats how i feel but I'm noticing when i dont wear them now i get more anxious but i enjoy them and i can afford them all going well so i dont mind wearing my nappys to make me happier. If  it helps it helps.

Hope you are well

4 hours ago, stevewet said:

I am a much happier and more relaxed person sine I switched to nappies full time. My wife noticed within a few weeks how I was so much less stressed out. My only worry was that people would notice. Now I just don't care.

Thats good to hear,

2 hours ago, diaperedboilerman said:

https://psychcentral.com/ask-the-therapist/2017/03/12/anxiety-wearing-diapers/

 

1 hour ago, Angela Bauer said:

This July I turn 54. Although I was gently toilet trained before I turned 3, my bladder was tiny and over-active. Therefore on trips and special events my mother would ask me nicely to wear 'just-in-case' diapers. I always wore normal clothing over those diapers, but hundreds of times my diaper was changed in public ladies' rooms and occasionally out in the open. Consequently by the time I can remember I never was embarrassed by my diapers. To me they were another kind of panties.

At puberty I reverted to bedwetting. My older sister by then had needed diapers in bed for 5 years and all three of my younger siblings needed diapers part of every day. All of my friends had seen a changing table and stacks of diapers in our family home. They came for sleep-overs anyway. When invited to sleep-overs both my mother and I would tell the other mother that I would bring my own rubber sheet and diapers.

For university I had to start wearing disposables because my dorm did not have a coin laundry. I still had day control but often decided to wear a just-in-case diaper to long lectures and to parties when there would be drinking. By the time I graduated from pre-law I wore diapers part of every day. Nobody seemed to care. As I was moving to a different university for law school I lost all daytime bladder control.

For me the decision to always wear a diaper was easy. I knew I had to budget money to buy diapers and time to change my diapers, but the advantage was I could change my diaper when convenient with no unscheduled toilet breaks. For me diapers have removed much anxiety.

Thank you Angela and everyone for responding, its nice to hear other peoples experiences with this sort of thing at first i thought it was was just me but it makes me happy im not alone

Mel x

[Diapers and anxiety]

For about 8/9 years I've suffered from quite afew mental health issues. Anxiety, depression, dp/dr and the doctors also think i might have borderline personality disorder. 

But this isnt about how i deal with all that, nope, its about how wearing diapers has helped some of my anxiety.

Im not sure why but wearing more frequently has surprisingly made me feel more comfortable when im out in public. Usually i get very paranoid about people starring, laughing, talking about me or whatever else my hyperactive mind can think of. Since i pretty much unintentionally swaped my underwear for nappys ive noticed im more at ease with being in public. Btw i dont 'use' them that much but hopefully i will a bit more.

I dont really understand how wearing a diaper make me less anxious when it used to make me even more terrified of people noticing me.

Any ideas?

 

[How to tell my partner i want to go 24/7?]

Update: this morning i asked if he would mind if i sometimes wet in my diaper and there was a reallllyyy awkward silence so i quickly said the first unrelated thing i could,so should i just leave it forevermore or bring it up again?

Also ive been wearing diapers instead of underwear for the past few days (even though I've not been using them in the way I'd like to as much) and when i put a normal pair of unddies on today i felt like i needed to go to the loo every two seconds. I was also so paranoid that i was going to wet myself and i wasnt wearing anything to hide it. I know im not dependent on my diapers or anything but they make me feel protected and comfortable, not having that there today was so strange so the second  i came home straight into a pull up

2 hours ago, MarkSmith said:

The hard part is already done for you since your partner is already aware of your diapered desires and accepts you wearing them.  From the way you described your current diaper wear I would anticipate your partner being understanding of your need to be in them permanently.  

Do you want your partner to participate in your full time diapered lifestyle?  This is an important question.  I am diapered permenently and in the beginning my wife was very involved.  After eight months in diapers she no longer really participates anymore. 

Wearing them all the time is a serious commitment for both you and your partner.  A good plan is to set milestones.  Start out wearing them 24/7 during the weekend, then for a week, and then for a month.  You both will quickly find out if diapers all the time work for your relationship.

Communication is always the key and it is no different when discussing your diapered desires.  Honesty is also very important.  If you truly feel you a NEED to be diapered 24/7 you need to make that very clear to your partner.  Also understand that the feelings that causes binge and purge cycles that almost every one of us experiences in some form or another effects both you and your partner.  For example, if one minute you tell your partner you want to be diapered all the time and then the next day you decide that you want to take your diaper off it can be very confusing to your partner.

I hope this helps a little and I wish you success.

I dont think he would be comfortable being involved in things like nappy changes and things but i dont mind doing all that stuff myself to make him more at ease.

Thank you very much for the advice

[Babyfur _>you<_ Needs A ?]

Im a fox babyfur

Im 1 year old

Favourite toy= all my cuddly friends

Favourite tv show - batman the animatedseries 

Best setting has to be getting ear scratches while curled up on daddy's knee with a fresh diaper on

[My foxy journey]

Hi there, Im Mel

About 6 months ago i told my partner about my love for diapers, he was completely fine with it infact we did the nasty with me wearing one that night.

It was amazing to finally have someone who wasnt weirded out by it and i think he actually gets turned on when i wear them around the house. 

But thats not it. 

About 3 months ago i realised that im more of a babyfur rather than an adult baby. I love wearing my butt plug fox tail and my fluffy ears along with a diaper. 

I dont think he was very surprised when i brought it up because he says that i have always been a little fox. 

So now we are going to get a bowl for me and he already collars me ( which is the best feeling ever)

These days i wear my  ears from the second i walk in the door to the second i leave and its great. I get lots of belly rubs,ear scratchies and pats on my diapered bum.

So thats the story, thanks

 

 

[Hello little mel here]

7 minutes ago, AbabeBill said:

See, joining in here has already paid off. LOL 

Haha guess you'r right

[Diaper self punishments?]

Sounds good i like wearing for long periods of time 

[Hello little mel here]

Good idea thanks

[Hello little mel here]

Hi there, im new to posting on here usually just read them but oh well here i am.

Im a diaper lover, i also love pet play and I identify as a fox. Gotta love a set of fluffy ears and a butt plug tail ( although the tail and the diapers dont usually get paired together)

I have alot of fun with my partner (who is very accepting with all of this) and it would be nice to share my/our experiences with like minded people

Thanks

[Diaper self punishments?]

Hi there,

Looking for some self punishments I could do when home alone. 

Nothing public please

Thanks, Mel

[How to tell my partner i want to go 24/7?]

Hi there, 

I usually just read posts on here but I'm looking for some advice on how to tell my partner i want to go into diapers 24/7.

I wear them around the house alot and we've had sex with me wearing a diaper a few times, he seems to really like it. 

The only problem is i want to wear them all the time and I really want to know if he would be okay with me using them (wetting) from time to time.

Any ideas on what to say?

Thanks, Mel