Thank you for asking this question because it is my question too. I do not think I am a DL. I wear them but I don't "need" or "desire' them. I don't dislike them but I can't stand to be in a wet one for very long. Like I said in my hello, I never would have thought twice about diapers if my guy hadn't piped up. I don't want to say I am doing it for him because if it were just that I would not be on a message board trying to find my way. But y'all talk about it with such passion and I just don't seem to have it. So if anyone out there can help me find my "tipping point" ,as someone else put it, I would be forever thankful.
~Belle