Incontinent DL

I love the sound of my polyurethane plastic pants! I can hear them rustle under my jeans, but no one else has ever noticed them. They're too noisy to wear under slacks in public though. Then I wear vinyl or waterproof nylon.

I wear cloth diapers, so always wear plastic panties over them. I prefer polyurethane because they are very comfortable and last a long time. In hot weather I wear waterproof nylon made from polyurethane laminate (PUL) because they breathe a little. I'd like to try some Gortex panties, but I've never seen any.

I have urge incontinence, but I’m also a diaper lover now too. Sometimes it’s difficult for me to tell where the need for diapers ends and the desire begins. If I try to go without diapers, I have close calls, accidents and misery. If I wear 24/7, many days I’m able to stay dry. I really haven’t tried to go without diapers for probably 20 years. Becoming a diaper lover just came naturally and makes it a lot easier to deal with the downsides of wearing diapers. Those are isolation from women, economic impact, heat and sweat in the summer, occasional rashes and always the risk of embarrassment. But it beats the heck out of the alternatives.

I also love to masturbate in my diaper; that’s how I do it most of the time. I usually make myself cum once in the morning before I go to work and once at night before I go to sleep. I use a massager on the outside of my plastic pants until I ejaculate into my clean cloth diaper. I like to feel my warm semen on my smooth mons before it’s absorbed by the cloth. When I’m not living alone, I prefer regular sex. Several girlfriends have rubbed me off in my diaper though, and I like to remember those times when I get myself off. I’ve pretty much given up on the idea of finding someone who is okay with me having to wear diapers long-term.

Hi All, I wake up about four out of five nights that I wet. I keep a urinal next to my bed because if I try to get up to use the toilet, I flood my diaper anyway. I’m more comfortable sleeping in a dry diaper, so I use the urinal when I can. The rest of the time I just wake up in a wet diaper. I use cloth diapers and plastic pants, and almost never have a leak. This week sucked though. I had a rash and wore an “overnight” pull-on disposable so I wouldn’t get Desitin all over my regular diapers and plastic pants. My diaper leaked all over my clean sheets and mattress pad. Then last night, my urinal tipped over after I had used it, so I had to get up and clean up the mess. Being a bed wetter is such a hassle at times! Maybe the worst part is being so isolated; there are no women near my age in Oregon who wear diapers or are willing to put up with my situation. But then I think of other people who have other afflictions that are so much worse and realize how well-off I am!

I usually try to avoid having to change my diaper in a public place. I wear thick pull-on cloth diapers and plastic pants, and usually can make it to the restroom in time. One of the most common places for me to have a wetting accident is when I’m stuck in traffic or can’t make it to a rest stop. I have a pickup with a shell with tinted windows, so when I find a place to park, I just go in back to change. We have a private restroom at work, so I don’t have a problem there. I carry my jacket with a diaper inside when I go in and come out. I put my diaper in a plastic bag before I come out. When I worked where there were multi-stall restrooms, I used pin-on or Velcro diapers. When I wet myself while shopping, I just wait until I get home to change. My diapers are absorbent enough to hold a couple of wettings.

I just rinse my plastic pants out with a handheld shower and hang them to dry over the tub. I usually don’t let them sit too long with urine in them though. On the rare occasions when my plastic pants have an odor, I hand wash them in the sink with Ivory bath soap and rinse them a couple of times before hanging them up. The kind of plastic in the pants seems to make a difference too; vinyl holds more odor than polyurethane.

I wear pull-on cloth diapers and plastic pants 24/7. My diapers have two layers of terry inside a flannel shell, so they’re not particularly thin. I used to wear Wrangler pro-rodeo jeans, and I occasionally got curious glances because they were too tight. I switched to Wrangler relaxed fit jeans, and they completely conceal my diapers! Since I started wearing them, no one has noticed. I don't leave my shirt out either. I tuck it in, but leave the bottom a little loose to match my pants. When I dress up, I wear pleated slacks, and again, no one has noticed my diaper. I wear polyurethane plastic pants, and they have a reputation for being noisy. I was self conscious when I started wearing them, but I’ve worn them for over five years and no one notices them. If I listen carefully, I can hear them under my jeans, but now the sound is reassuring to me because I know I’m protected. When I wear slacks, I use waterproof nylon or vinyl pants because they are silent. I just don’t worry about people discovering my diapers any more.

I’ve noticed that several stores no longer carry regular adult diapers; all they have is pull-on underwear. They’re offering pull-on underwear that absorbs much more, and many have gussets. They claim that they’re for day and night use. I tried some when I was on vacation, and they worked fine as long as I didn’t lie on my side. First they took away plastic-backed diapers, now it appears that they’re getting rid of diapers completely! I wear cloth diapers and plastic pants day and night, so I don’t have to worry about the changing trends in disposable diapers. But I do feel sorry for people that like reliable disposable protection that they can change easily.

I still have some Sears’s flannel-lined snap-on plastic pants and the snap-in liners that I bought in 1984. The elastic is pretty loose, but the vinyl is still soft. I always liked them and have never had a good reason to get rid of them, even though I hardly ever wear them.

I wear pull-on cloth diapers with two layers of terry in the center and plastic pants, so I don’t have to worry about leaks. I drink plenty of water, keep my diaper area hairless and use cornstarch baby powder, so odor isn’t really a problem. That leaves bulk and noise. I wear polyurethane plastic pants, and they ARE noisy. I used to be very self-conscious about it, but I’ve found that no one hears them but me. I guess if someone did hear them and asked me about the crinkle, I’d just tell them that I have to wear plastic pants. In a way, hearing them has become reassuring, because it makes me aware that I’m wearing them. My diaper bulge is substantial, at least to me. Again, almost no one seems to notice. I have a 34 inch waist and wear 36 inch relaxed fit jeans or 36 inch pleated slacks over my diaper. I can remember three times when people have stared at my crotch. I just ignored them and let them think what they want. That may make me sound brave, but there really wasn’t anything else I could do.

I agree with AutieAB and InDpnds! I feel very vulnerable and insecure if I don’t have my diaper on. If I’m not wearing my diaper, I am distracted by having to CONCENTRATE on maintaining bladder control. I just wear them all the time.

I wear thick pull-on cloth diapers with plastic pants day and night. When I wet, my bladder usually empties. I wear relaxed fit jeans or pleated slacks to conceal my diaper bulge. I’m usually able to change before there’s too much risk of leaking. But that’s why I wear thick diapers in the first place!

I prefer dry diapers because I hate diaper rash, but I don’t mind wearing wet diapers for a while (less than two hours). When I wet my diaper, I love the secure feeling of being protected. It makes me glad that I have my diaper on, and makes up for the hassle of wearing them 24/7. Under the right conditions, a warm wet diaper can be erotic, but I don’t get to choose the conditions very often.

I used to shave my pubic hair, but after several years got tired of having to shave every day and having stubble every night. I tried waxing several times, and it DID hurt, but each time hurt less and was easier. My hair came in much softer and thinner. After waxing for a while, I switched to using an epilator (electric disk tweezers). The epilator barely hurt because my hair was so sparse after waxing. Now I epilate once a week and it feels about like shaving. I love being smooth down there because I can just use a Wet One to clean up when I change my diaper, it’s easier to apply Desitin or baby powder, I hardly ever get diaper rash, my plastic panties don’t pull my hair, I have less odor, and I can feel my soft cloth diapers against my skin better! I’m definitely a fan of keeping it bare down there! I suspect that a lot of adults who wear diapers shave their diaper areas for many reasons.