[Overactive bladder, I love conditioning myself into it.]

When I'm wearing my Nappy all I feel is that I'm wetting. There is no sign that it's about to happen. No sign of my bladder filling up. I don't even feel it running down the urethra. I just feel it exiting. But when I'm not wearing everything is fine. 

Only time I have to be conscious is when I have been wearing 24/7 and have to be out of my nappies for whatever reason for the first day or so. Then everything is fine. 

I'm always amazed no matter how long I am out of my nappies and put one on. It just happens. 

 

[balancing abdl desires.wearing when having kids]

I am a married man with two kids. It's was 2015 when I told my wife. My kids are now 19 and 16. You can work out their age in 2015. I have been wearing nappies around the house since then. I often go 24/7. It's not impossible to do. The big thing for me was thst my wife was okay with it. My kids as far as I know don't know anything about me wearing nappies out of choice. I won't say need because it not a medical need. You just have to take precautions. Make sure your nappies are to noisy. Wear cloths that conceal more. Don't act any different when wear to what you would when not wearing. Be observant of your cloths. For instance, I wear all my shirts untucked. Now if had to start using a onesie as my shirt. It's now my shirt tucked in. That raises questions. I don't own onesies for that very reason. I could wear one under my normal shirt. But the climate I live in is extremely hot. So having what would effectively be two shirts on is a no, no.

Basically, don't flaunt it. Make sure your partner is happy. Make sure you address any of their concerns. Be considerate and responsible and you will be fine. 

[Cloth Pocket Nappy]

So I have started the transition from disposable nappies to cloth pocket nappies. 

There are a few reasons for this.

One cost.

Two in South Africa getting abdl nappies is seriously expensive. More on the import duties. Often duties cost more than the purchase.

Three I have found I can get printed cloth nappies on Temu. The prints aren't as cute as abdl nappies but they are so much better than the plain medical nappies we get here. 

I tell you I am loving cloth nappies. The last a long time. With the correct setup that is. I use two bamboo 4 layer inserts. They never feel wet. They are soon comfy. 

It does take a while and I'm still learning when I need to change. I put one on this morning because I didn't have any clean undies. I'm still in the same one. I have been constantly wetting it. My vody has learned over the years to let's say dribble often. I never flood unless I have been holding it and then putting a nappy on and then letting go. 

I haven't slept in one yet. But I'm working up to it. I'm still testing the capacity. 

But as I have said already. Cloth pocket nappies are amazing. 

[Telling my Wife I Appriciate her]

8 hours ago, Thetlus said:

It's good to see you're making positive progress on this. If I were to add a recommendation, if your wife does/takes part in something you don't or have been hesitant to do(and would appreciate your involvement), try it out (balance things out). If there's nothing like that then don't worry about it. Just a cautionary reminder: even though things are going well, don't outright expect her direct/extensive involvement even if you intend to be patient for it.

No my wife doesn't have a kink part of her. However I do support her in many other ways. As far as I know, she doesn't realize that it's due to me wearing nappies. If that makes sense.

But, outside of my nappies, I'll do pretty much anything for her out of how much I love her. We have been married nearly 25 years now. 

[Telling my Wife I Appriciate her]

It is something I have spoken to her about for a very long time and in several. So she knows it's something I want one day. If I remember correctly I told my wife about me wearing nappies about 10 years ago. It's been a long very bumpy and rough road. But the one thing that has never wavered is our love for each other.  I have posted about it on here and people have scolded me about it. But i think a majority of us who have SO's have wanted them to change our nappies and be very involved. But we cannot force them to do it. As much as we want them to. So it's come from absolutely not wanting anything to do with it and at some points despising me over it. To allowing me wear around the house completely covered of course. To e wearing and letting her know I'm wearing and her being happy I told her. To openly wearing in front of her in the bedroom. To her saying it's fine for me to put on or change my nappy in front of her. To what's happened now. 

In one of our last conversations we had she said she is trying. She has done her own research etc. Sadly the research she came across majority was negative stuff as it would be if you didn't k ow exactly what to look for. The point is that she has been actively trying to understand the situation. At.least one positive thing that has come out of her research is that she understands that wearing is part of what makes me. That was in no way influenced by me. And one doesn't just come to that conclusion without researching and reading up about it. 

My wife putting me in and or changing my nappies will come. But it will come in time. I do suspect sooner rather than later as her comments and tolerance has sped up a bit. 

 

[Telling my Wife I Appriciate her]

I had posted on this forum the other day of my titled frustrations. I'm not going to go into it now. But as the posts of support came through, one poster asked me if I have ever thanked my Wife. 

That got me thinking for as far back as I could to try and remember if I had in fact ever thanked my wife. I came up blank. 

So I sat for a bit and thought of how to word it. Because this subject can be a bit of a problem to talk about. Put it this way.  I would say 70% of the time we talk it gets heated. So I decided to message her. This has worked better in the past. 
The message went something like this and the message from my wife followed. 

ME

"Love. 

It occurred to me the other day and I have not found the right time or place to say this to you. I'd rather tell you this in this format rather than face to face because I'll probably screw it up.😜

I want to thank you and tell you how much I appreciate you for tolerating me in nappies. It means the world  to me. 

Thank you my Love."

WIFE

I love you too.
And I know it is part of who you are. I am trying to work on my part of it but not there yet... One day..

ME

Thank you for working on your part. 
I look forward to it one day. 
Just know that they make me content and comfort.

That's where it ended. I wasn't going to say anything more. For a change it was nice and simple. There was no need to complicate it. 

This morning I was changing out of my night time nappy and into a fresh nappy. My wife calls out from the bathroom and says. Please be careful with the heat of today. It can cause you to have a nappy rash. 

She has never said anything of the sort. 

Things are changing. Slow that it may be. But they are changing. 

[Frustration]

Thank you for your response. Makes sense. 

 

[Frustration]

Thank you for your response. 

I think that is my problem with the word fetish and the relation to DL and ABDL. That it's always related or assumed that it's sexual in nature. Hence me not wanting to associate what gives me relief and whatever else it does to a fetish. 

I don't think it's bothersome to me. I think I just get into a stupid head space and want to know why. Maybe it has something to do with me being ADD amd always wantingnto know more. I derstand more. There is also the faxt that Im married and my wife knows about it. She isn't involved in it but I can go about wearing a nappy around her. Obviously covered completely when we are in the rest of the house. I can change in front of her, which I feel embarrassed about. But that type of thing. But she won't allow anything else such as giving my butt a pat. Etc. So there is some sort of acceptance there. But I also think, part of the difficulty that I have already spoken about is that, as much as my wife says she accepts me as I am. Or as she puts it. I must do what I must do. I don't feel on an emotional level that she has accepted me for who I am or have become. But before anyone jumps on the band wagen, I have not forced anything onto my wife. No matter how much I want her to be more involved. We have however spoken about it on many occasions with no change. 

This is helping me a lot guys. Thank you. I haven't been able to talk to anyone about this and not be judged or get an honest answer. Keep it coming.

[Frustration]

I actually and honestly I dont like calling it a fetish. For me it's just something I do and find great comfort in. But I don't know how to name it if it's not a fetish to me. Well at least in my mind. 

That feeling I get putting a nappy on for the first time in a long time. It's undiscribable. Feelling the nappy on me and as it gradually gets wet. It's the nicest sensation. But I can't quick figure out the exact feelings I get. I think this is what I'm battling with. I can't name it. It just so nice and works for me. 

But when I come back to it. Be it a year, a month, a week, I fully submerge myself into it. What I mean is that I'm constantly on different sites and forums. Constantly researching. I then get information exhausted and stop if I haven't masturbated and start feeling guilty. 

[Frustration]

So I have been a DL for a long time now. 
With all the literature out there about this subject, I would estimate about 90% say that a DL wears nappies for serial pleasure. I have to disagree with this but at the same time agree. This is my frustration. I personally can go months if not a year without wanting a nappy on. Then I get this deep desire that comes from deep inside me that I need my nappies again. Then in some instances I can't go a week with out needing my nappies. 
I then start wearing in the afternoons. Then it progresses to afternoon and evening then the need increases. But most of the time it's not for sexual pleasure. Then other times it is. Put it this way. When my need comes up for my nappies, it's not driven by the sexual side of it. But at times I end up masturbating in them. Then i have the good old guilt and not wanting to wear. But at the same time I want to carry on wearing. 
See my frustration. 

HELP....

[What to Do]

Hello my like minded People.

A good long while ago I decided that I couldnt wear nappies as my wife wasn't supportive. Well when I say not supportive. She knew about it but refused to have anything to do with it. It eventually got to a point that I had to make a choice. Marriage or nappies. I chose my marriage. A lot of people here will be totally against this decision for many reasons which I get. But at the time I had to do what I had to do. 

Fast forward a bit and the urges come back. I tell my wife what was happening with me and that I need to be padded again for a while. If I remember correctly she didn't really say anything. So I went out and got what I needed and proceeded. This went on for a while and the need went away. This then lasted fora good probably 6 months. Then the urge came back same thing. But this time I got an okay. But this time i wrote a letter to my wife. With something that I hoped would help. In the letter I gave her three stages of involvement. Stage one was checking to see if I was in a nappy by doing a bum pat. If I wasnt in one she needed to tell me to go out one on. 

Stage two was a little more involved. It was stage one but this time taking a nappy out for me and telling me to put it on or leave it in the bed when I went for a shower. Ot also included putting me in a clean nappy.

Stage three was all of the above but changing my nappies every now and then. 

Basically I was giving her the control of when and where I could wear a nappy. 

But this got no reaction. In fact all the times I spoke to her by a message because I cannot speak tocher face to face as we have had massive fights over this in the past. She has just ignored my messages.

I would say about 2 months ago. I thought I was finally over being a DL with slight AB tendencies. I threw everything out. 

But just recently my life has become extremely stressful. So the need for nappies came back with a bang. 

I messaged her and explained to her that I need nappies again and the reasons for it. This time o got a message back saying I need to do what I need to do to help me get through what I am going through. 

So I have been wearing my nappies on and off. On front of her and on bed on the odd occasion. It's helped me a lot. 

But, I have never been able to get over that I have never been able to accept myself fully because my wife hasn't accepted me fully. Or even where I stand with my wife.

I don't know how to take things from here. Any suggestions. 

 

[On and off]

Hello my like minded People.

A good long while ago I decided that I couldnt wear nappies as my wife wasn't supportive. Well when I say not supportive. She knew about it but refused to have anything to do with it. It eventually got to a point that I had to make a choice. Marriage or nappies. I chose my marriage. A lot of people here will be totally against this decision for many reasons which I get. But at the time I had to do what I had to do. 

Fast forward a bit and the urges come back. I tell my wife what was happening with me and that I need to be padded again for a while. If I remember correctly she didn't really say anything. So I went out and got what I needed and proceeded. This went on for a while and the need went away. This then lasted fora good probably 6 months. Then the urge came back same thing. But this time I got an okay. But this time i wrote a letter to my wife. With something that I hoped would help. In the letter I gave her three stages of involvement. Stage one was checking to see if I was in a nappy by doing a bum pat. If I wasnt in one she needed to tell me to go out one on. 

Stage two was a little more involved. It was stage one but this time taking a nappy out for me and telling me to put it on or leave it in the bed when I went for a shower. Ot also included putting me in a clean nappy.

Stage three was all of the above but changing my nappies every now and then. 

Basically I was giving her the control of when and where I could wear a nappy. 

But this got no reaction. In fact all the times I spoke to her by a message because I cannot speak tocher face to face as we have had massive fights over this in the past. She has just ignored my messages.

I would say about 2 months ago. I thought I was finally over being a DL with slight AB tendencies. I threw everything out. 

But just recently my life has become extremely stressful. So the need for nappies came back with a bang. 

I messaged her and explained to her that I need nappies again and the reasons for it. This time o got a message back saying I need to do what I need to do to help me get through what I am going through. 

So I have been wearing my nappies on and off. On front of her and on bed on the odd occasion. It's helped me a lot. 

But, I have never been able to get over that I have never been able to accept myself fully because my wife hasn't accepted me fully. Or even where I stand with my wife.

I don't know how to take things from here. Any suggestions. 

 

[Plastic AB Nappies Noise Reduction]

Thanks all for your replies. 

I will work on something to lessen the noise. 

My wife who knows I wear, can hear my nappies even the quite ones. She is aways concerned about our kids hearing them. So she is very sensitive to it. I have worn Clemens nappies which have a cloth lined plastic backing. They crinkle a little. My wife picked it up. 

I think I need to talk to her to get some me time sometime soon. I think that's the best thing for now. 

 

[Plastic AB Nappies Noise Reduction]

Hi. All

I need some advise. 

I got myself for the first time ever some LFB nappies.  But the problem i discovered is that they are seriously noisy.   Which means I can't wear them around my family like I can with the boring medical nappies I can get where I live. 

For those who where noisy nappies be it the AB type or medical type and have constant family or friends around and I mean all the time besides working during the day. How do you wear them with out your nappy making noise and that no one finds out. 

I am very good at hiding my cloth backed nappies. Because they are clotch backed and thin. But I have no idea how to hide my new AB Nappies.  

I really,, really want to wear them. 

 

[DIY baby formula for adults?]

I have had baby formula in the past and liked it as well. 

I haven't had it for years now. But my thoughts would be. Have baby formula but have it as a supplement to your normal food. 

Otherwise, the other thing I have is warm milk with some honey in it. Absolutely delish. 

 

[I have started cuddling a teddy at night]

I have been sleeping with a teddy. I'm a side sleeper. He lays right up against me with his head just under my chin. I love the fluffy feeling under my chin. I also love the soft fluffy feeling on my chest when I sleep with no shirt on. I also usually fall asleep holding his one arm and the over my arm. Almost like he is cuddling my arm. Unfortunately he is not allow off the bed unless my family is put and about for a few hours l. Then he comes upstairs with me. He then sits in my lap and we watch TV. The other day I had a sucker I was sucking on and he just had to have some too. Hehehe. 

[Adult baby men with beards]

Thanks Guys for the replies. 

I have decided to shave mine off. I can always grow it back. 

For me it just doesn't feel the same. I don't call myself AB but more DL but have some AB tendencies. So when those tendencies come round I want it to be as good as I can make it. Having a beard just doesn't fit in. 

[Adult baby men with beards]

To all the AB men. 

Do you have a beard? 

If you do, how does it effect your AB side. Does. It interfere with getting into little space? 

Does it hinder you going into little space? 

Did you shave your beard when you discovered you are AB? 

Have you ever grown your beard back? 

Why I ask this is that I have never grown a beard. But a fewinths back I decided to to grow my beard for the first time since I started shaving. My little space has shown itself for a very long time, but yesterday I needed a bit of little time. So I went to my bedroom and had little time on my own. As always. It was a weird felling having my dummy in and feeling my beard. I wasn't feeling tired but I was laying in my bed sucking my dummy and cuddling my bear, the next thing I know I am being woken by my wife. 

My little side is still around today and just don't know if I want to shave my beard because of my little side or find a way to be little with a adult man's beard. 

Mmmmmmm. 

[This is me]

So it's been a week of 24/7 and finding it so strange that the more I wear the more comfortable I am in a nappy over normal underwear. I have been getting better sleep as I don't have to get up to go to the toilet. Speaking of which, the other night my wife woke me up and told me to go change my nappy because it smells. I mumbled something and went back to sleep. Oops. But then she woke me again about 2 mins later saying not to worry, it was the way she was sleeping. So promptly back to sleep I went. But it did get me thinking, what can I do to reduce the smell in bed to make it better for my wife. So for the rest of the week I have been searching the internet to find a nappy that would control the smell a little better. I also tried to sleep with a nappy cover but that lasted about 10 mins because they feel way to tight around my legs. I need to order some bigger ones. Anyway the search was very frustrating. My thought was a plastic backed nappy would do the trick as I have read a lot on the site as well as other sites how they block the smell. Come the end of the week and I have found absolutely nothing in South Africa that is plastic backed. They have all moved to cloth backed. 

So today I decided while the family is out to go on a mission to try find something and try get hold of some brands I haven't tried yet. I came home with two types of Clemens. The one I am wearing right now is cloth backed but just. It has a crinkle that I have never heard from a nappy before. Which tells me it is mostly plastic backed. So now I'm testing driving it and hopefully it will be my. New night time nappy. My wife will have to just put up with the crinkle noise. Which by the way I am soooo enjoying. I now understand plastic backed nappy wearers what you are talking about the crinkle factor. It really does remind you of what you are wearing. 

So here is to another week of 24/7. 

[Molicare Elastic Slips]

Hi 

Just seen these nappies from Molicare. 

I wanted to find out if anyone has used them before. If you have what are they like? Are they worth it? 

If no one has seen or used them before, I might just get them and try them out and let you know. 

[This is me]

Hi Agent

I wouldn't say my wife isn't happy with the situation. She just doesn't want to be involved 90% of the time.. I test this every now and then. I will get to a  point that I want to wear more often. I will then message my wife and tell her how I feel and what I would or going to do. Then I ask if she would be willing to help me by putting me into a nappy a few times. Normally I don't get a response in any format. The last time I did it, when I got home from work. She said to me I must call her after my shower. That all I got from her. I then went to shower and chickened out. When I got back to the living room my wife was in her office with her door closed. So calling her would have been useless and questionable to my kids as to why I'm calling her to our bed room. 

Messaging my wife has become sort of my safe way of telling her what I'm upto when it comes to wearing nappies. We have had some bad verbal confrontations in the past. So I either communicate by message or letter. 

Don't get me wrong, our relationship is solid. My wife tolerates my nappies, but that as far as she goes. She has put me in a nappy once or twice. But it wasn't in a caring manner at all. It was lift up, down. Front of the nappy up and tape. I would always have to redo the nappy because she didn't fit it properly. She would then almost sprint out the room. However she now can be in the same room when I'm putting on a fresh nappy. I can sleep in nappies if I want. But it's me that stops myself as I still get embarrassed sometimes or I feel I don't want my wife to feel uncomfortable. At the moment I'm back on with 24/7 and I don't have a problem having a nappy on when going to bed. But I always try get it all done before my wife's gets to the bedroom. I also feel like she delays coming to the bedroom knowing that I am changing my nappy. It's a weird situation. A lot of tiptoeing on my side a lot of precaution taking to ensuring my nappy isn't exposed so my kids don't see it and anyone else for that matter. 

As for the bed wetting incedent, it didn't happen again at all. I didn't wear a nappy for the rest of that week just as a test. But I was having to go to the loo once or twice a night. Really annoying. But as mentioned already I'm back on 24/7 and enjoying it for now. 

I thought well I'm here, I may as well tell you all about how my incontinence training is going. Well not really training as in "I'm training to become incontinent". Rather, I think I have said in the past on this thread, just allowing my body to do as it wants. 

I have always found it fascinating that when I am not wearing nappies that my continence is perfectly fine. But as soon as I have a nappy on its almost like I have always been incontinent. Most of the time all I feel is something happening and then the. Warm feeling. There is no build up, no warning nothing. Just the warm feeling happening in my nappy. Most times I don't feel anything only know my nappy is getting wet. I literally put no effort in to wetting. It just happens whenever it needs to happen. It's really a good feeling and sometimes I ask myself why am I not in nappies permanently. I'm so much more comfortable in a nappy. 

[This is me]

Thought I would update this thread of mine. 

It's been sometime since I posted here. Lock down for me has been interesting. I have been wearing nappies on and off, to the point it's sometimes frustrating. Some days I want to wear but at the same time I don't. I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. 

But lately I have been wearing more often than not. I always have nappies available. 

Now last night something very interesting happened. I have been wearing for over 24 hours. But when I got home from work I decided not to put a fresh nappy on after my shower. When it was bedtime I thought about putting my usual night nappy on but decided against it. At some point during the night (it felt like I had just fallen asleep but can't say for sure) I semi woke to me starting to wet the bed. I can remember feeling it start and thought I have a nappy on but then realized I didn't. I didn't get a fright at all. I just stopped it, lay there for a minute then realized properly what had happened but again didn't get a fright or wasn't worried. I proceeded to get up and went to the loo. I then remember feeling the back of my sleeping shorts just to make sure it was real and sure enough it was. I got a towel and dried the area as best as possible and then jumped back into bed and fell asleep again. I think from there I was semi conscious keep an eye out but at the same time I slept well. 

Now I don't know if I should be worried, happy or excited about this unexpected event. To be honest for a very long time now I have had the mind set of what happens happens and I'll deal with it. I am still of that mind set. But it's almost surreal. Also what do I do tonight. Should I wear my night time nappy or not and see what happens. I also should note that when wearing at night, I normally semi wake up, wet and go back to sleep. I don't wear every night. Only on the odd occasion. Or when I'm feeling brave enough to wear to bed with my wife around. Thats a while other story. My side not My wife's. 

I must say it's an interesting cross roads to be at. 

[DL Incontinence]

6 hours ago, BlakeJordan said:

I would add the phrase of circumstantial/situational conditioning. Just like we are different people in different circumstances and we have our “modes”, the same can be said for conditioning the body and mind to respond in a different/specific way to specific situations, and stimuli.

Think pavlov's dog as a general example. It’s not just the diaper but also the situation, body position, risk to being socially shunned, etc. the mind ignores the vast majority of stimuli that it receives- at least on the conscious level, and reacts to the stimuli it does receive differently in different situations.

It’s sometimes easy to forget that our bladder control is very different when we have other internal OT external stressors. We don’t activity /constantly perceive the stimuli that diapers create, such as the pressure of the groin, the hugging at the hips, the lack of airflow and constant warmth until our attention is drawn to it and we detect something is different or needs attention. For example going from a wet/warm diaper that “feels” pretty much dry, to a soaked diaper where our attention is drawn to the fact that “this is heavy and feels wet, time to think about getting it changed”.

During the change itself we are now literally exposing our nether regions to air and that has a completely different conditioned response. In incontinence training (rather than diaper training, which is assumed to already be more/less accomplished) the goal is to extend the conditioning already achieved no matter what stimuli or circumstances the body sends to the brain. Effectively the jump is from conditioning to use a diaper, when present, to voiding at all times without conscious effort or distraction;automatically.

Sometimes this occurs due to atrophy, but sometimes it is simply due to a switch in the brain’s default mode to just release at all times. Just like when first starting out, but on the opposite end of the spectrum. Instead of clamping down at the first sign of pressure until we can find an appropriate place to void (the goal of potty training and for most, the default mode of the brain as adults) the default mode of the brain gets switched back to pre potty training days.

Funny thing about the brain is that those neuro patterns that were conditioned from birth to potty training didn’t get overwritten, they still exist but are weak and not the default pattern to use. Diaper and In incontinence training are simply tapping into those patterns or strengthening them, sometimes to the point that the default pattern to use is fully switched, and we once again have the same issues (stimuli/response patterns) we had at the beginning of potty training.

I would call what your experiencing and this experience in general “conditioned incontinence”.

HI Blake

 

I have read some of your other posts on here

You are very insightful and I respect that. Thank you for your comments. 

I wouldn't say my muscles have atrophied, it's more like as you say conditioned incontinence or as another mentioned functional incontinence. I think more so the first instance. 

I think I may have said it already but having that type of conditioning is enjoyable. It's already hard to be Nappy Lover and wearing nappies. Even though I have fully accepted that I am a nappy lover. Now having to put a lot of focus and effort into using nappies for the intended purpose to in a way justify wearing nappies is even harder. Getting to the point where I wet my nappy with either no effort at all or not even noticing the wetting makes it so much better and easier. It sort of makes me think and admit to myself that I am incontinent in some way or the other. 

On a side note. I find that when I am in a nappy I feel more thirsty and drink a lot more. Probably a conditioning as well. 

 

[DL Incontinence]

Thanks all for your responses. 

It sounds to me that it's the natural route that ones body goes through over a long time. 

I haven't actively trained to become nappy dependant. I have been of the opinion that if it happens it happens. I have not wanted to force myself to become nappy dependant in any way. But I will admit the thought has crossed my mind many, many times. When I go 24/7 I really do enjoy it. When I am 24/7 I consider myself incontinent. I suppose thats one of the many reasons as someone put it I'm functionally incontinent. Also when in the 24/7 frame of mind and changing my nappy or going for a shower and I feel the urge I just let it happen. The reason for this is that I feel if I truly want to experience Incontinence then it must be full on. If I'm out of my nappy for what ever reason and the urge happens I must wet myself. No excuses. This will probably overtime become more frequent and end me up in nappies permenantly, but as I said before I am taking things as they come. 

Yes I have had the fantasies all nappy lovers have of being permenantly in nappies. And yes I have wanted it at times but there are other times I don't. This is the reason I have taken the relaxed way of saying whatever happens, happens. Which makes me happy. 

[DL Incontinence]

Not sure if this is the right forum to post this. But I'll soon find out. 

What I wanted to find out from other is this. 

I am a DL I go through 24/7 and then nothing and then on and off. I suppose in a way it's the binge purge cycle in a way. Not that I like to think of it like that. I just have times I enjoy wearing nappies and fantasize going completely 24/7 and then there are times I just want to wear. 

But my point is. I have noticed for a long te now that whenever I have a nappy on its almost like Im Incontinent. Sure I feel the need to go but as I feel it I wet. I don't wet in floods. It's small amounts often. There are other times I only notice I have wet when I feel my nappy is wet and can't remember wetting.  Not often but it happens. 

When Im not wearing everything is normal. 

How would one class this? It not Incontinence of any type as far as I understand. I thought it was functional Incontinence. But it's not that either. 

I would love to hear from you if, 1. You experience the same thing as me and 2. Do you think it's a type of Incontinence? 

For the record at this stage I'm not at all worried about it. In fact it's rather enjoyable not having to put any effort into making myself wet.