jeremy12312

I'm not picking a fight. However, nothing is more infuriating than people who tell others how to behave, but then do whatever the hell they want because somehow their case is different. A special snowflake, if you will. Its like pro-life advocates who get abortions. Its justified for them, but only in their special circumstance. And nothing says "douchebag" like being a hypocrite.

From the 'Negative Views' Thread... How exactly are you not violating your own rule #3?

Checking in for California, $31 for license renewals, but I paid $248 for my tags this year. Registration fees are based on the year your car was made. Mine's pretty new, so I get hit hard. Had I bought a '74 Pinto, it would only be $91/yr.

Exposing diapers in public?!?! No wonder the rest of the world thinks we're freaks. The integrity of the community is no more. The self appointed decency officer has transgressed.

3 years ago, I was. California and Armitage, to be exact. Alas, I moved to the other California. I think there are some Chicagoans here, though. I never met anyone, though.

You're thinking of it backwards. Technically, the "backing" of the diaper is the outermost layer, since it's the backbone for all of the components. It's what you feel when you touch the outside of the diaper.

Isn't narcissism a mental defect, too?

No worries, that's what I'm here for.

Is this a real situation, or one of your exaggerations? If it's real, buy a new mattress. If it's fake, balance the mattress on one side during a full moon, and circle it counterclockwise while chanting "Poop be gone." In 2 weeks it will be good as new. That's unfortunate, then, because that's not a pun.

According to the article, the commercial is not showing on CBS.

And how! Now I prefer the mobile site to the full site.

via The Consumerist ABC has refused to air an ad for the new Huggies Jeans diaper, under an objection to the commercial's tag line, "The coolest you'll look pooping your pants." The network will air an edited ad. See the commercial in the link.

That's the issue. You ignore the rules you think are stupid. Yet, you want to cast aside the people who think your rules are stupid.

This was brought up before. Why do you think you are above the rules, and can circumvent the filter to block banned names here? You'll get a lot more support for your cause if you aren't a hypocrite. And besides, that site deletes content that DOESN'T include minors. If you can't see the difference between the two, I vote no confidence in your attempted coup.

Why, yes. Yes I have spent plenty of time with BDSM folk in the dungeon. These rules aren't quite what you think they are. Nobody would ever get ostracized for wearing handcuffs in public, or collars, or publicly submitting to their dominant. People typically get the boot for being an asshole, talking smack about others, inappropriate touching without consent, or interrupting a scene in progress. I personally shun people who ride on their high horses, trying to tell everyone else what to do. :cough: I can't think of a single time that ANYONE thought "What will they think of us?", because we're so far out on the fringe, they will NEVER accept us. A guy I know was fired a couple of weeks ago because someone anonymously sent photos from his Fetlife profile to his HR department. My girlfriend is on the organizing board for a fairly large pro/lifestyle BDSM convention that just wrapped up here in LA last week. If you're worried about how people appear in public, you would have died in that hotel lobby. People coming in on leash, clothing that exactly met legal requirements for "decency", light play in public, etc. And you know what, people collect the disapproving stares of the vanillas with pride. I was working the registration desk, and I heard story after story, laugh after laugh, about how people were reacting. And guess what, every year, the hotel staff tell us how we're the favorite convention they host. Quit worrying about being accepted by the public at large. It's not going to happen. The sooner you realize that, the happier you're going to be.

Just as a point of reference, when Jay refers to his wife Nik in the article, that is Nikki Cox.

Didn't you say in a previous post that you scope your rifle on people who come onto your property? Just because someone has a badge doesn't necessarily make them any less of an intruder. I've never understood why so many of the "USA! USA!" people are the same ones who ignore their Constitutional rights. The Constitution is what this country is. When it comes to my personal liberty and freedom, I have all the time in the world. If they want to see inside my car, I'll wait for them to get the warrant.

You know this board does have an ignore list, right? The OP of this thread has been on my list for a couple of weeks, and it makes things a little nicer. I don't actually know what all the fuss is about on this post

How much money do you have? The rate for Pro Dommes in Los Angeles is typically $200/hr, $400/hr and up with bathroom play, which a diaper change would be.

No.

Stockroom stuff is okay, it tends to run on the lower quality side though. It photographs a hell of a lot better than it is, so while I love the catalog, I typically just get the basics there. Their retail store is down the street from my apt., so I'm lucky in that I get to handle stuff before ordering. You mentioned a canvas straitjacket, but FYI, Mr. S has the best leather straightjacket, hands down. As such, it costs a fortune. I've never seen a pacifier gag at any of the major gear shops, can't help there. You'll want to get medical play stuff from medical supply shops. Buying from the BDSM stores will get you the same things, but with a markup on top.

We use the phrase "fun-time underware" from time to time. But, she's pretty much dropped that and uses "diapers" in most situations now.

In my particular case, I don't think my girlfriend would have participated at all if I was into ageplay. She automatically related anyone who wore diapers with AB's, which was a 100% turnoff for her. As mentioned previously, our relationship has a heavy D/s slant to it. What brought her around was an article floating around the net about diaper domination. The concept just clicked. Things were still a little odd at first, but the more familiar she became with it, the more comfortable it became. We had an understanding that if at anytime she was uncomfortable with what we were doing, it would be done, and that was that. That kept me in check from being really aggressive about anything. For a while it felt like I was walking on eggshells, but now that she's used to it, everything's peaches and cream. The key is slow. There are no wasted opportunities. You lived for this long without including her in your heaviest fantasies, what's a little more time?

The number one thing to realize is that the level she's at currently may be as far as she ever gets. If you accept that, then however deep she goes into it will be a pleasant experience. If you push it on her, and she has made it clear that there are aspects that she's not comfortable with, she'll resent the fetish, and possibly you. Mine is the first girlfriend that I exposed the diapers to, too. I was lucky in that we already had a hardcore BDSM relationship, so we were able to work the diapers into the power exchange. She really wasn't into it at first, but after a while, she came around. She will never, and I mean NEVER, change my diapers, and I accept that. She hates the smell of poop, so I have to change immediately afterwards despite how much I like to wait. I'd love it if she was more into those things, sure, but the fact that she goes for it at all is fantastic. Finally, make sure this isn't the only aspect of your sexuality with her. It's always a relief to tell someone about this, and have them accept it. But, if it's all you ever talk about, or the only way that you have sex, she'll be turned off to the whole idea. So, enjoy what you have in moderation. Best of luck!

Does KCK have a retail storefront? Google Maps makes it look like a warehouse only.