Check out this group... Diaper Advocates... their campaigning the major diaper companies to make higher quality diapers, ones people can wear without fear of leaking or plastic pants being required.
http://groups.google.com/group/diaper-advocates
here's the groups mantra...
"Hi, thanks for joining the group! the whole purpose is an organized
plea to the major incontinence companies, Kimberly-Clarke, Tena,
Tranquility, Attends, and others. It's almost impossible to manage
incontinence with the products on the market today, especially the
widely accepted standard brand, Depend.
The way we plan to do this is with a campaign to all the major
companies, using E-mail, phone, and letter campaigns. To do this, we
need to get a database of people to all work together on these
campaigns.
So, E-mail me at barabasmar...@yahoo.com if you're interested in
writing the "official" requests to the companies, or just want to
be an active part in making a change, and to everyone else, please
spread the word. The only way to make change is by working together,
and this is a change that needs to be made. We need to spread the word
that all incontinent people are not elderly, bedridden individual, and
with the right products, we can live healthy, productive lives without
fear or shame."
I hope this works!