wear a panty girdle or control panties over your diaper to conceal the bulloness. I love wearing tontrol top pantyhose or tights over my diapers. Feels even better when a slow warm leak goes on my inner thigh. Feel like I'm fertilizing.
instead of just blasting loose, try slow keagle spurts. It give diaper time to asorb, you can wear thinner diapers, and pee two or three times in them duriing the day. I love wearing that warm and wet feeling.