[Do you worry about people noticing you wear nappies?]

I don’t worry if anyone sees, honestly. There’s a few people in my life that know I wear, but it’s a out-of-sight-out-of-mind thing, and even then, I don’t wear around most of them. If I’m ever out and I’m diapered, I don’t worry at all, being the odds of me coming into contact with a stranger again is highly unlikely. Even if I waddle a bit or it’s obvious I’m padded, doesn’t bother me.

[Diaper tab extensions]

It’d be nice if companies would take a page out of Bambino’s book and start using elastic wings on at least some of their products. It’d make diapers fit better and allow for them to move with your body. Plus, they’d get closer to true baby diapers that way.

[Wearing cloth over disposable]

I have a few AIOs in my stash along with all of my disposables. Sometimes I’ll use a AIO shell as a diaper cover, though I think I might add some legit diaper covers to my stash. I can’t say for me at least, that it provides any benefit one way or another apart from a little extra support.

[Your Magic Diaper Scenario]

I’m not sure how many folks are familiar with it, but there’s a ABDL story out there from about 10 years or so ago called “Magic Diapers.” Link’s here if you aren’t familiar with it: https://abdlstoryforum.info/forum/stories/board-member-stories/completed-stories/669-magic-diapers

The basic premise is a young woman goes on vacation and stumbles onto an old package of Pampers, diapers she wore as a kid, while at the store, and later they turn out to be magic, able to transform the user to whatever age they wished, as well as the diapers themselves to the appropriate corresponding size.

It got me thinking, if you were in that situation, how would you play it? For example: what brand or model would your personal “magic diapers” manifest themselves as? What age would you choose? What other details would you include if you were in this situation?

Just a fun little thought, that’s all. I know how I’d do it, but I’ll leave my idea for a little later.

[What was your most embarrsing moment when you were caught in diapers and rubber, plastic pants]

Just a thought, but isn’t this a little too specific? I’m getting an odd vibe on this one.

[IS ABDL changing? Help online issues?]

What I think they’re trying to say is you need to read and get a feel for the room before you contribute. Like others have said, just because it might seem related, doesn’t mean it actually is, or at least to the extent you may think it is. Your best bet from this point forward would be to try and pick up on how the others you’re chatting with are and go from there.

[I have a binge purge cycle and I have no idea how to break the binge purge cycle]

First thing I would suggest is instead of throwing it all away, box everything up and just put it away somewhere. It gets it out of the way, but you don’t end up losing it all.

The big thing with the binge-purge cycle is it just takes time to get over and get used to being ABDL. It’s not an easy thing by any means, but it gets easier over time.

[Duration for wearing for sexual wearers.]

I’m a mix when it comes to this topic. There are times where I’ll wear a diaper just to rub one out, then take it off. There’s times I’ll put one on, rub one out, and just keep it on. There are times where I’ll put one on without being initially aroused and become aroused at a later time, especially after I’ve wet or the very rare mess, and rub one out and either change out and put on a fresh one, change out into underwear, or stay in the soiled diaper I’m in. It all depends on what I’m feeling.

[Welcome to.....]

I think, for one, a tongue-in-cheek name for the business would work best. Something not too obvious to the regular public, but something any ABDL or similar person could identify. Changing Times Diaper Company kind of has that concept with it’s name. If it were my business, I’d name it something like A(BDL)-To-Z, either hiding the BDL or emphasizing the A-To-Z portion of the name on the sign.

The logo itself wouldn’t be a dead giveaway either. I wouldn’t put anything clip art or symbols in it, but maybe something more like ABU’s logo. Something where ABDLs know what it is and what it means, but to anyone outside of the lifestyle, it doesn’t give anything away.

As far as what type of building, I wouldn’t go the warehouse route. I can understand the privacy element, but a warehouse doesn’t seem like the most inviting environment to host an ABDL establishment. I’d rather opt for something more like a closed department store or grocery store like an old Sears or Kmart. The open floor plan would be perfect for different fitouts and renovations, plus more foot traffic and a more accessible location. I’d opt for strip mall department stores or grocery stores, preferably ones with few other tenants, and preferably either a multi-story layout, or a building set far back.

Ideally, my idea wouldn’t be just a retail store, it would be an entire experience. I’d install fogged glass at the entrance to provide privacy for the customers inside. As you walk in, there’d be an open reception area, with the entrance to the retail portion on one side, and the entrance to the experience portion on the other side.

The retail portion would offer a complete range of ABDL products, broken up into departments. The diapering department would feature free samples of various products, as well as staffed changing tables to help you find the right diaper and even change you into it for the perfect fit. Products would include:

• Cloth Diapers
• Disposable Diapers
• Diapering Essentials
• Diaper Pails
• Training Pants
• Training Potties
• Potty Training Essentials
• Plastic Pants

The clothing department would feature fittings rooms and include regular apparel and specialty apparel and accessories, for casual use both with and without diapers. That would include:

• Standard and Specialized Onesies (think Tykables range of onesies)
• Rompers
• Shortalls, Overalls, Skirtalls, etc
• Pajamas and Sleepers
• Dresses and Skirts
• Tutus and Leotards
• T-shirts
• Hoodies
• Jeans
• Cargo Pants and Shorts
• And so on and so forth

There’d be a food section, stocked with each and every food item an ABDL or ageplayer could imagine. In addition, housewares, health and hygiene, and the biggest toy section imaginable would all be available.

Finally for the retail side, a generous furniture section, complete with design consultation, to help you create the nursery, bedroom, or living space of your dreams. Any piece of furniture you could imagine would be available, as well as accessories galore to go with them.

Basically, a one stop ABDL retail location.

The experience side would cater more towards activity and socializing. The key feature would be an enormous playroom, complete with a huge playground and filled with toys and stuffies of all kind. A refreshment stand will be available, in case your bottle or silly cup needs topped off with your beverage of choice, or if you need a snack. Staff will be on hand at all times, ready to change you when the need arises. Any services provided are easy to opt out of, so you can tailor your visit how you’d like it. Changing rooms would be provided so you can just come in and hang out if you want.

I have a ton of other ideas to include, but I feel like I’ve written a ton already.

[Do you regularly wear diapers out of the house?]

I wouldn’t say I do on a regular basis, but on occasion, I will wear when I go out, mainly because it’s already on and I don’t see a need to take it off.

[Too lazy to diaper?]

I get this a lot, especially if I’ve had a long day or just aren’t in the mood to put a diaper on. I have a few pairs of SuperUndies that I’ll throw on just to simulate the bulk, but it’s not quite the same feeling.

[Most Enjoyable Point of the Diaper Change]

I’d have to say right when you’re getting taped back up and the finished product. That feeling of being all powdered up and sealing the deal with the tapes. It’s heavenly ❤️

[What diapers did you use when you were a baby?]

Per my folks, I started in cloth right out of the womb. I don’t know how long after, but eventually they switched me to Huggies, and I grew up in their diapers, Pull Ups, and Goodnites. I can’t specifically remember which ones, but I was a Huggies kid for sure.

[Babysitter/Mother/Grandmother]

Honestly, I think either babysitter or mother would be my picks.

Just a side note, this seems like a topic that would be better suited in the AB section, not diaper lovers. I guess it depends on what your definition of caregiver is though.

[Where will you NOT wear a diaper?]

I won’t wear:

• At work
• On dates
• At doctor’s appointments
• Out with non-ABDL friends

Otherwise, it’s pretty much fair game. For the most part, I end up wearing underneath clothing, but if I’m home alone, it’s just a t-shirt and diaper usually.

 

[Pampers Easy Ups - Looking To Buy]

On 2/27/2019 at 12:19 PM, Little Misty said:

i have Huggies size 4t-5t

I have a bunch of those. I’m looking specifically, like I said, for the Easy Ups before they switched to the 360° waistband. I might’ve lucked out with a local seller, but I’m still looking. I appreciate the tip, though.

[Impluse buying]

I do, especially with ABU and how tough it can be to gauge when they restock next. I think it’s better to have too many diapers than not enough.

[Telling a friend?]

1 hour ago, rusty pins said:

I say no.  Just because he told you about putting a diaper on a girl is no reason you should tell him that you also like to wear diapers.  You wearing diapers really has nothing to do with him putting diapers on a girl he picked up at her request. 

I second this. Outing yourself has nothing to do with his fling. You’re better off keeping it to yourself.

I do find it interesting that he had a girl asked to be diapered though. Not exactly something you see everyday out of the blue like that.

[Onesie Companies?]

14 hours ago, FunTime said:

Any ABU sizing issues?  The lengths seem short to me, even the "Tall" (which a lot are sold out, which tells me other people are worried too).

I think I ordered the white sizer, so we will see what happens.

Honestly, I went by my measurements and got it right on the first try. I’m 6’0” and 170 pounds or so, and a XS Tall fits me perfectly. I normally need the length from a L or XL in a t-shirt, but not the width. Having the taller sizes for slimmer people like myself works out great.

[Onesie Companies?]

Personally, I’m a ABU fan. Their onesies are super soft and supportive, and they offer a ton of sizes for every body style. I like how they aren’t styled like a typical baby onesie and are more like a long t-shirt with snaps at the crotch. The elastic around the legs are great too.

[Hi there]

Welcome! I hope you have a great time here. There are plenty of resources and folks here full of tips to get the most out of our lifestyle.

I wish you the best of luck, and hope to see you around. ?

[What started you on wearing diapers?]

Honestly, I think because I potty trained late (4 1/2-5 years old), they kind of always gave me the underlying desire of wanting to be in them for the rest of my life. After potty training, though, it never really catalyzed until middle school, when I was first exploring sexuality and “acquired” some Goodnites.

When I first rediscovered them, it was an addicting feeling. I felt like at the time it was wrong, but they just felt so good, and I couldn’t help but keep going back for more. I got caught a number of times doing it by my folks, and I ended up getting sent to therapy to try and fix it, but ultimately, I just couldn’t stay away from diapers.

I do have days where I wish I didn’t have an interest in them, and that my sexual pleasures were a little more normal, but most days I can’t imagine living without them. They’ve become a huge part of who I am, and I enjoy every moment I can being diapered. It’s more than just a material object and it’s more than just a fetish. It’s a part of my life, one I’m proud to have.

[Pampers Easy Ups - Looking To Buy]

I collect vintage and out-of-production baby diapers and training pants. I’m having a tough time finding the Pampers Easy Ups made before they switched to the current 360° waistband. eBay and Amazon are hit and miss. If anyone has any boys or girls Easy Ups either size 6 or 4T-5T and are willing to sell them, I’m looking to buy. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

[My first pack of lil monsters arrived]

For one, they have a nice smell to them. It’s not overpowering, but very babyish. The plastic is very noisy and crinkly, so get ready to crinkle and pop with every move you make.

They absorb well, and do a decent job wicking, plus have footprint wetness indicators printed on them.

Depending on where you got them from, you might have some from the bad tape batch they had a while ago. I have a pack I got from Amazon that had the same issues. Just be careful pulling on the tapes themselves when you go to put it on. You’d be better off pulling the wing as tight as you can and trying to get the tape right on the first try.

[Diaper capacity]

It could also be the way you tape the diaper on. Depending on which way the bottom tapes are angled, the seal around your legs will be looser or tighter. Generally, angling the bottom tapes up towards the middle of the landing zone helps seal up around the legs better.

The other thing that may help is folding the diaper lengthways if you don’t already. It helps create a channel to allow liquid to travel and wick farther back, spreading out more.

I’ve had this happen to me every now and then, and part of the reason it simply happens is the male anatomy. Because of how we’re setup, the fronts of diapers we wear will always get soaked before the back starts to get wet. The liquid tends to pool in the middle, between your legs, and that’s where the vast majority end up leaking. It doesn’t sound to me like you have the wrong size diapers, just that you need to make a few adjustments.