Red Littlebottom

Hello! I'm a gay man; currently 49 years old. I'm a professional musician. I play pipe organ for churches, piano, and sing 2nd tenor. I compose, arrange, record and teach as well. I am an avid computer enthusiast and will be attending college for the fourth time in Fall 2017 to complete a Certificate in Help Desk Technician. I play online games in my spare time on my PC (I'm currently playing Elder Scrolls Online). I'm a non-smoker and a non-drinker. I'm a lot more into quiet times spent at home with close friends than I am into parties. I have multiple disabilities that include Asperger's Syndrome, Bipolar I, and Diabetes II. However, I am very intelligent, and I have a lot of coping skills, so I have learned to overcome these challenges and limitations. I was diagnosed with incontinence in 2014, due to diabetic neuropathy that affected my bladder. I wear adult diapers daily because of this condition, though I also enjoy wearing them very much as well. I identify as a Little more than an AB. I am mostly a submissive bottom, though I am also a bit versatile. I am a "bear type," though not excessively hairy or overweight. I am currently seeking a nice, mature, older man as a Daddy for me for a long-term relationship. I live in a nice studio apartment in the city with my constant companion, my cat, Ebony

I possess a great, though slightly eccentric, sense of humor. I've been through a lot in my life: good, bad, and indifferent, but I'm a survivor, and I've learned to keep up a positive attitude, and simply live one day at a time. Right now, I think I'm the happiest that I have ever been. I have a half-way decent job, I'm reasonably financially stable (though I do struggle with my budget on occasion), and I have a close, small circle of friends that support and encourage me.

I think it's time that I start actively looking for a life partner; someone that can be my best friend, as well as my lover and constant companion. I think it would be best at this point if I list some things about me, as well as my likes and dislikes. So, here goes:

WHO I AM:

1) Disabilities. I am a person with disabilities that include diabetes, sleep apnea, bipolar disorder, and a form of autism known as Asperger's Syndrome. Despite these limitations, I'm very capable, self-sufficient, and independent. I tend to get frustrated at times, and I don't always understand things like body language and social cues. Just because I don't always make eye contact does not mean I cannot be trusted. It's simply part and parcel of my disabilities, but I've learned to cope with it, and if I trust someone, I'm usually better able to look at that person.

2) Trust and respect. I believe very strongly that trust and respect are key elements to any successful relationship. I value trust and respect above any other qualities. If I cannot trust someone, and they don't respect me as a whole person, with all my positives, quirks, and limitations, then I cannot, in good faith, view them as a true friend. I believe that a solid friendship based on mutual trust is paramount to any relationship that has any hope of becoming romantic or long-term.

3) Awareness of loss and change. I was adopted against my birth mother's will when I was only two years old. Then, I survived abuse at the hands of my adoptive parent. When I was 18, my adoptive father died of emphysema. So, I have experienced significant loss and change in my life. As a direct result, I have been matured beyond my chronological age. I am also acutely aware and sensitive to the needs of others, and what life-changing events have affected them, positively or negatively. The events that have occurred in my life have made me a very compassionate person that always seeks to help others and reach out to them in times of need and crisis.

LIKES:

music (currently producing my 2nd CD)
computers
pet care
PC video gaming (especially MMORPG's)
console gaming
science fiction (big Star Trek fan)
quiet times shared with friends
intelligent conversations
cartoons
good food (especially lasagna)

DISLIKES:

smoking
excessive drinking
drugs
attitudes
control freaks
loud parties
bar scenes
politics & religion
disloyalty & disrespect
lying & deception

OK, well there's me in a nutshell. Please feel free to reply to this post if you're interested, and you think we might be a good match for one another. There's a lot more to say, but I'll leave that for later. If we hit it off, we could go for coffee and chat, then see where it goes from there. Thank you for reading my post. Have a great day, be safe, and take care!