[Which product has wider wings? Tena Slip Maxi M vs Rearz Safari M?]

6 minutes ago, dyperbole said:

Your best bet is to buy a sample of each.  You can also read up on Fruitkitty's diaper reviews on Adisc and look up the specs that he found.  Here's the one for the Safari. And here's the one for the Abena Abri-Form.

Thank you very much. My only problem is that the shipping Itself almost costs as much as a full pack of diapers.... theoretically the Tena Slip Maxi M has  27 cm wide wings and the Safari Reaz M has 32.9 cm wide wings from the center to the end of the wing of the diaper

[Which product has wider wings? Tena Slip Maxi M vs Rearz Safari M?]

I'd like to purcase some packs of Rearz Safari diapers but I don't know which size to choose. I'm wearing Abri Form L x-Plus and that is a little bit big for me. I bought some size M tena slip Maxi diapers today and they are a little small for me (i can fasten the tapes but they are almost on the edges of the sides of the diaper) but only at the wings. i don't know if the safari Rearz has wider wings than tena and if it does how much bigger? please help me i really want those nappies :3

[Does your home smell like baby powder and diapers? How can you know if it does?]

If you use AB/DL products on a daily basis, then you are definitely used to the smell and can't feel it. How can you tell if your home smells like a nursery?

I use diapers and baby lotions and oil every night and sometimes on the weekends and I just can't feel the smell anymore. I'm used to it and I just can't tell how my home smells. How can I know? 

 

[where can i buy adult sized velcro shoes?]

I would like to have a cute velcro shoe with cute patterns. but I can't find anything like that.

[What do you think about this forum? If i ask anything they will answer with anger and hate... its not an abdl related topic!]

There is a foreign forum which is similar to Yahoo answers. This is not an English forum. ( so, if you are a grammar nazi please leave now! 'cause it's not my first language) 
I asked a normal question about breeding. I want to become a cat breeder and I already have 2 Bengal kittens. They are healthy they have a pedigree and got all of their vaccinations. They also have passports.... just to say...

So, my problem is that I just got my female kitten a few days ago and they don't get along at all. My male kitten attacks her and she is so scared. My question was about this and what I can do about it. I also stated that I love my kittens. I don't keep them in cages and they are members of the family. My answers were that I am some kind of evil. I am a multiplier, not a breeder. They are sure my cats don't have their pedigree nor their vaccinations or anything else. I didn't get any answers for my question but some kind of heat speech. 

This mentality is very common on this forum. Any question where someone needs help gets these kinds of answers. The admins are the same if someone asks something which is not against the rules of the forum but a lot of people don't like to talk about it or just hate it ( like questions about homosexuality or child abuse) will be removed and the user banned. 
This is a Hungarian site with the same purpose of 'YA' (Theoretically).

There were cases where Children asked for help because they were beaten by their parents and they didn't know which organization they should go to. These questions usually get answers like: They deserved it probably and should accept it cause when they (the answerer) were young it was normal and they are still alive.... of course these answers come from pure evil and If the "questioner" tries to save him/herself the question will be removed soon. 
Hungary is a member of the Europan Union and any form of child abuse is banned here... theoretically...

So, what do you think about it? This is the only forum in my region which is similar to yahoo answers. Should I leave them and try to get help on international forums?  I know there are heaters here too but the number of them is way below.  

For example, I got a total answer of 7 for that question without any helping purpose. These answers were pure heat speech against me and the admins don't do a thing.

[what was the craziest thing you have ever done in public?]

2 hours ago, NotToBigForDiapers said:

Csution I do not recommend this. I was stupid! So I had found this out of the way park in this "town". Kind of a strange little place as it only has like 5 houses a, church, a closed up store, and one business delivering something. So not sure why they have a bigger park like that. Anyway I was in a toddler mood. (I am mostly a dl) I came back in the evening later. When I am like that I like to play and this seemed like a place I could do it and not bother others. It was nice out but cloudy. I was alone and I went on the swings and stuff. Slides are my favorite. No one was around at all and I was very comfortable. It started raining just a little. I got super brave. I had saw a real toddler go down a slide in just a plastic diaper and he slid super fast. I had a thinner cloth diaper on  with a plastic disposal on over the top. With that toddler in mind I slipped my shorts just off my butt  some and went down the metal slide quickly pulling them up as I got off. It kind of worked. So now raining more and still being very alone. Not even a passing car. I got braver. I went back up, but this time, for some strange reason, I took my shorts off completely just before I went down. Whoosh! I went down like crazy between the wet slide and the plastic diapers! It was awesome. Oops my shorts were still on top. I ran up quickly to get them. This time climbing up fully exposed. Looked around just making sure I was still alone! Still nobody. Now suddenly I was feeling safe. I calmly slid down again with shorts in my hand this time and focusing on the fun. Awesome! Well almost. The slide was facing the road and a semi truck was going past giving me an odd stare. He had seen me going down the slide.I was so into it I didn't see him until I stood up fully with my diapers fully exposed. Stopping frozen for a second. I eventually ran behind a tree and put my shorts on and drove away fast. Embarrassed as heck. Not sure what gave me the idea it was ok to remove my shorts, but I did. I would have been embarrassed with my shorts on much less a bulky diapers exposed. I know he saw as he made eye contact. It was way fun on the slide, but not again. Wish I could find some place to do it again without being seen. So stupid.

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woooow I would like to try that xD would be fun. you really have those guts dude! I'm your opposite btw. I'm very much a little and an age-player but sometimes I am also in DL mode. hafta admit it feels good anyway. I would like to go out to a playground in a cute overall ( with or without diapers on it doesn't matter) and play. I like playgrounds but I'm just too scared to do it. you should give me some of your guts ;) Maybe when its night time I can go but alone it's still not that much fun. 

[Should I change from Abena x-plus to Cuddlz All Over Printed Diapers for night time usage?]

So, I could try these diapers and they are very uncomfortable. They are cute and everything else but the plastic irritates my skin. I have very sensitive skin and the plastic backing doesn't feel good on it. I guess these diapers are not designed for everyday usage but for fun. I think I will get some thinner diapers like abri form M1 or M2 for daytime usage. they are thin enough and still has the soft and comfortable breathable outer. I won't use them all the time just when I have to. At home, of course, I'm diapered and I use them but I don't really want to become diaper dependent all the time.  I thought about it and found out that even if I wanted I could not stop wearing to bed cause I'm so used to them by now. They are so soft and comfy and I just can't get up in the night anymore...

[what was the craziest thing you have ever done in public?]

except wearing diapers under your clothes

[Should I change from Abena x-plus to Cuddlz All Over Printed Diapers for night time usage?]

1 hour ago, rusty pins said:

Here is my take on it.  I too wake up to pee between 3 (rare) and as often as 8 times a night to pee, 6 times being average.  I do not wear diapers to bed because I can never fall asleep when I have a diaper on (even though I wore diapers to bed until I was 6 years old because I wet the bed).  In your situation, if you have no problems sleeping in diapers and sometimes do wet without waking up, I say continue to wear whatever diaper works for you and avoid disturbing your sleep by getting up over and over to use the bathroom.  Nothing wrong with using diapers as an aid or appliance to help you with a situation of having to pee so many times each night.  Having a better nights sleep is more important that wearing diapers to keep from getting out of bed all the time.

As far as diapers:  have the Abena's been working well for you?  Do they leak at all?  Are they comfortable or uncomfortable?  Do you have any problems with the fit, tapes holding, defects, sizing or absorbtion?  If not and they have been working well for you, I don't know why you would want to spend that much more for a different brand of diaper, especially if your not sure how well it will work if you have never tried them before.  On the other hand, you may find out that they are more comfortable than the Abena's (I don't know as I never tried them).  Maybe they will fit better and absorb more.  Maybe not.  The only way you will know is by trying them, and I say that applies to all brands of diapers.  Trial and error is how people find what they like and what works best for them.  Try starting with a pack of 10.  That way if you don't like them or figure they aren't worth the extra cost compared to the Abena's, you haven't spent a lot of extra money on a whole case.  If you really like them, then you can order a whole case of them if you want. Again, when trying any new brand of diaper you may have seen or heard about from word of mouth, take it slow with one bag to start with.  You can always get more.  Like the buffet.  Take small amounts of each thing and if there's something you don't like, you are not leaving a whole plate of it to be thrown away.  If you do like it, you can always go back for more.

Convince you to wear diapers in the day.  Ok.  First, you seem on the fence about it.  On one hand you have that small bladder and while an accident when out is rare, you say it's painful to hold it until you find a bathroom.  On the other hand, it seems most times when you say your going to wear a diaper when you go somewhere, you chicken out so to speak.  I can understand that.  Many possible reasons for everything.  First, you may use diapers for a valid reason even though not incontinent, but I think you are a DL as well.  You think of the thrill of being out wearing a diaper under your clothes and peeing in it.  It's part of being a DL.  On the other hand, you may chicken out at the last minute for several reasons.  You may be afraid people will notice you and realize you are wearing diapers, or may even laugh at you, ridicule you or say something to you about wearing diapers.  First, that won't happen unless you flaunt it and make it obvious you are wearing diapers.  For example, wearing a diaper under jeans with a long shirt is totally unnoticeable.  Wearing 2 or 3 super thick diapers at the same time with thin skimpy shorts with a Winny-The-Pooh shirt and a pacifier around your neck will get you noticed in a hurry!  You just have to build up the confidence to wear diapers out among people.  Start slow if you are nervous about it.  Go to a park with few people about.  Walk around.  Then work up to maybe walking around town out in the open without a lot of people but with some.  Eventually you will realize no one is taking any notice of you (don't walk around acting nervous like something is wrong) and that is positive reinforcement.  Soon you will be totally comfortable walking around WalMart in your diapers and wetting when you nee to, because even then people will not know you have diapers on and will not take notice of you!

The other situation you may be feeling about not wearing diapers in the day when you go out someplace is you might feel it will cause you actual loss of control or bladder incontinence. especially with your small bladder, the pain you have holding it and having to pee 6 times a night.  I wouldn't want to ever be incontinent myself and this all depends on your feeling about it.  Do you want to wear diapers more and more, go 24/7 and end up losing your control, or do you just want to wear in the day now and then for convienience of not having the pain of always holding it or trying to find a bathroom?  You still have your control and you can keep it and maintain it by holding your pee and not just letting it out whenever you feel the slightest urge.  For example, I'm sitting here now in my diaper and I'm peeing small amounts every few minutes.  When I take off my diaper I will  easily go 4 or 5 hours before I head for the bathroom.  I can pee small amounts every few minutes when I'm in a diaper, but when not in a diaper I have full control.  I have been doing this for more years than you have been alive.  At some future point you may end up incontinent when your old, but not from wearing diapers if you choose to hold it and not always let loose at the slightest urge.  your chance of becoming incontinent would be more due to your small bladder over time as you get older, and even that will probably never happen. 

To sum it up, if you are afraid people will notice you are wearing diapers under your clothes and that's why you decide at the last minute not to wear diapers when going out, forget about that!  No one will know, believe me, and you just have to do it and build up your confidence in wearing diapers out in public.  If you are worried about becoming diaper dependent if you wear diapers in the day when you go out, just make sure that you still hold it and excersize bladder control so that won't happen.  Remember, just because you decide one day to wear diapers for convienience and not have the pain of having to hold it until you can find a bathroom doesn't mean that you have to always wear diapers when you go out.  Depending on where you are going, what you are doing, how long you will be gone and how close a bathroom is available, you may decide this may be a good time to wear a diaper for the convienience, while another time it's not really necessary.  You can also keep in mind that you don't have to wear a thick premium night time diaper in the day that may be more bulky.  Wear a thinner diaper and if you are close to a restroom, use that.  If you aren't close to a restroom, use your diaper instead.  Just because you are wearing a diaper doesn't mean you can't still use a restroom when one is close by!  Look at day diapers as an option you have that you can use but don't have to if you don't need to.  Better to have and not need that need and not have.  Another way to look at it is a person walking with a cane or wearing glasses.  The guy can probably walk without his cane but it aids him and makes it easier for him and less likely he will fall and have an ACCIDENT.  A guy can see without glasses but not clearly.  Glasses help so he can see clearly and not run into something and have an ACCIDENT.  Wearing a diaper will make it less likely you will have an ACCIDENT in your pants that people will notice. 

Thank you for the help  Yes, I'm a diaper lover but I label myself as a Little cause it's just the diapers which are slightly sexual for me. Being a little and doing childish things like wearing a cute t-shirt with my favorite anime or cartoon characters is not a kink for me. Abena is a good diaper but it can leak when I drink lots of water. this diaper brand is very comfortable and I like it so much but I have some problems with the sizing. The front of the diaper is too long for me and I have to fold it back or cut it off. But it's not a big problem. anyways thank you for your long and helping answer

[Should I change from Abena x-plus to Cuddlz All Over Printed Diapers for night time usage?]

First of all, I want to tell you that I wear diapers every night. I can wake up and go to the bathroom ( or at least I used to be able :D) but I have to go at least 6 times a night and now I'm used to wearing it and I can sleep over the night happily. (happily, if I don't leak :D)
I would change from Abri-Form (Abena) X-Plus. It would cost a little more but not too much. Now I pay about £60 for 2 months and it contains 72 diapers. With everything else including the shipping price. The Cuddlz would cost me  £100 for 80 diapers. It's a very good price I guess. these are just my night time diapers.  I wear sometimes for the day when I feel like. ( actually I "should" wear them when I go out 'cause it's hard for me to hold back. My bladder capacity is small. I don't have accidents -Ok I just had one a few weeks ago LOL :D- but it can be very painfull. Every time I feel this I promise myself that I will wear a diaper for the day next time then I change my mind somehow...  Convince me to wear if you can ;)! My problem is what if someone finds out and I like to dress in stretchy clothes. )
So my main question is: Should I change? Or it's better to just order a pack of 10 and see how they work? I'm actually used to breathable outers. I don't know how the plastic would feel like. 

[could anyone stop being an ABDL? I mean there was any case where the adult baby wanted to change and he/she succeded?]

oh, I see.  I feel similar.  the only difference is that I just can't understand these people. This is why I am here and why I am the one who I am right now  If I gave up this lifestyle I would give up a very important part of being me. No, I even go further, in this case, I would deny who I am and why I am the one I am.  sorry, I'm not native I tried so so hard to share my thoughts on this. xD

[could anyone stop being an ABDL? I mean there was any case where the adult baby wanted to change and he/she succeded?]

I'm not planning on giving up my lifestyle this is really who I am and it makes me feel super secure and happy but I wonder if anyone wants to change... is there a chance to change? I'm just curious

[is anyone else of you not into breastfeeding? Well im really not.]

its gr*ss for me  sorry i don't want to insult anyone. I just really don't like it. 

[Why does ageplay and regressing feel so good for you?]

have you ever thought about it? I think for me it's about feeling helpless, having someone to take care of me ( this is something I don't really have) and just let out my real self. I'm a little not just an age player and I am very childish even when I don't ageplay. whats it for you?

[Am i too old to start getting to know other littles? Am i too old to start going to AB/DL play dates? i have just turned 29 :(]

I just turned 29 and i feel very old. I have never been to an AB/DL party and i think im too old to start. I have always had an insterest in diapers and infantilism but i was always afraid to share the furn with others. i have never told anyone about it. This year i realised how lonely i am and i feel like something is missing from my life. and its not about my sexual desires but about something deeper. 

I am a man. I look like one and act like one but inside i feel more like a small child who is really lonely. Im tierd of playing alone. I want to get to know other littles and play with them. I really want to try it but i feel im very old now. i have just turned 29 yesterday and it's less than a year until my 30th birthday!!! that is a big number. I see littles on tumbler and they are always way younger than me and im afraid it is too late for me to make little friends and go to ab/dl parties. I dont want to be the old guy who noone wants to play with. I look younger than my actual age though. What should i do? Should i give up? Am i too old?

 

This is why never tried to meet others:

I feel im ugly and i have always felt it. i don't have a perfect body i think my legs arent nice i think my skin is ugly ( actually i have dry skin) i think i dont look cute in diapers... i have self-esteem problems.

[do you have a safe word? do you actually need a safe word for Adult Baby play at all?]

i know its important for some SM games.... and Spanking of course but is it necessary to have a safe word for Adult Baby play? I mean, what can happen that is dangerous? I think AB play is totally harmless. 

[what do you do with your adult sized crib and toys or your playroom if one of your parents is coming over for a visit?]

10 minutes ago, Glennie said:

I lock the door and pretend like it doesn't exist.. my parents don't need to know about my kinks.. I tell them( if they ask) the room is just storage.

haha good for you. for me my father and i built my house  he knows every corner of it. he is also a carpenter and made all of my furnitures exept the special ones  

[what do you do with your adult sized crib and toys or your playroom if one of your parents is coming over for a visit?]

and what would you do if you had an adult sized crib and toys and a playroom full of toys?

[can you be a greenie little if you use diapers? do you consider yourself as a greenie?]

??

[have you ever been or would you ever go to an AB/DL camp?]

26 minutes ago, ELLIE52 said:

I have very good memories of my childhood, even memories before I knew my age, so I can't claim them.

[have you ever been or would you ever go to an AB/DL camp?]

11 hours ago, iluvmydiapers said:

I would love to go to a ab/dl camp depending on what the main agenda was and what the exspectations where.

If it where just a bunch of adults who enjoyed wearing and using diapers or dressing up as a baby gathered to have a week of camping and fun being an adult baby or just running around in a diaper wetting and messing it if that is your thing to do, than yes I would love to partake in a AB/DL camp.

However if it's just a way to get together and have sex with total strangers, than no .

[when you get a cold don't you feel more little than usual?]

I have been just wondering cause I got a cold and now I'm in total little mode. I don't know why but when I'm

[when you go to work or just go out to the big world do you take anything from your little "world" with you?]

I carry a cute little plush that fits into my pocket or wear a cute

[have you ever been or would you ever go to an AB/DL camp?]

if you have already been to an AB/DL

[does anyone feel that school stole his/her childhood or at least a big part of it?]

If I could find a good I mean a REALLY good English teacher who could teach me