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It's embarrassing, that's why I never mentioned it. The nurse was on the job training. After that nothing will be going up there as I have learnt my lesson but it was not a home made botch job, it was a shop bought fetish sounding rod. I am thankful for all your replies and support, even if it may be self inflicted but hopefully I get sorted soon good luck with your training.

Symptoms weren't as bad this morning and I could feel my bladder and surrounding muscles. Felt good to exercise them abit Went to the doctors. He thinks it's overactive bladder. He is referring me to a urologist for exams to be carried out. Test all came back fine; no infections, UTIs or stds. He said the reason why I couldn't feel my bladder etc yesterday was because of bladder and urethral spasms which caused urge incontinence. He thinks this is down to an accident I had previously, a few days before all this started. Kind of embarrassing but here it goes. My partner and I are always exploring new things in the sex department. We tried sounding. I have played with catheters before so I didn't see it as a big risk or anything. Unfortunately, the rod got stuck and I couldn't remove it. Felt like pressure was keeping it inside me anytime I tried to pull at it. Ended up in a&e and a nurse just yanked it out. Although there was no blood or anything and I peed fine in the hospital before leaving, the doctors thinks it might be down to this. Not going to lie, face was beetroot but such a relief to get it out and the nurse got a wee giggle too but I told her it's better than having someone dieing in front of you, trying to see the funny side to it. I'll let you all know what happens at the urologist appointment. Pilot

I'm baffeled by it all too. Have done periods before of 24/7 on and off. Have I messed by bladder up? Who knows but I'm sure I'll find out what's going on tomorrow and I'll keep you all updated. It sounds like I have a catheter in but I don't. It's hard to describe the feelings. It's like my bladder has disappeared along with the muscles. When I try and squeeze my muscles closed nothing happens? Because of this and the bladder spasms pee dribbles out all of the time. Whenever I am standing or walking I can't feel my bladder fullness and I can't feel the pee coming through the pipes, more so just the heat in the diaper. I have tried googling but no results have returned which match my symptoms. I'm finding out tomorrow anyway so I'll let you all know what it is. I only meant that last comment incase someone tried to say im bluffing. I didn't directly aim it at yourselves Pilot

That might seem like some kind of fantasy crap but I can tell you all now.. It's not.

I don't want to hijack this thread but I thought I would give an update. I decided I would continue wearing diapers. I now have urge in continence. I have not been diagnosed but I'm going to the doctors tomorrow. Basically, my bladder feels like it is spasming all the time, has been all day today and I am constantly leaking small dribbles. Then when I don't expect it I flood my diaper. I have now got no feeling of my bladder and what is even worse is when I try to stop the flow of pee nothing happens. It's like my brain is trying to communicate with a dead sphincter muscle. The only time I seem to have control is when I am sitting down. And then when I stand up my diaper feels warm. Don't get me wrong I don't mind it but it will take a while for me to adjust to possibly having to wear diapers all the time. I actually feel kind of afraid now when I'm not padded. I don't have any UTIs, infections or STDs as far as I am aware. Does this seem familiar to anyone else who went 24/7? Pilot

Just a quick question Spargano. I'm off work this week and again im diapered up. For the last 4 days I have just let loose in my diaper. Anyway, I was peeing and thought I would see if I could stop it/weaken the flow even more and when I tried to clench my external sphincter it hurt. It hurt that much I bent over in pain and grabbed my abdominal area until it automatically unclenched itself. The pee flow was restricted for less than a second. Have you any experience with this or anyone else? One other thing. I was changing my clothes and diaper when I coughed and I ended up peeing a little, maybe about 1oz without any control or being able to stop it. I never felt it coming either and didn't have an urge to pee. I'm guessing it's stress incontinence but from the above does it sound like my pelvic floor muscles are weakening? At this stage I don't know whether to continue or stop. Pilot

Thought I would add my 2 cents into this discussion. I'm a healthy 23yo male with a very clean medical history, apart from bedwetting when I was younger that stretched a few years but I outgrew that. My bladder I feel at times can be made of steel and I can go for a very long time without peeing. Anyway, recently, I had time off work and both my partner and I decided I would just wear nappies for the time I was off work. That brought some interesting consequences. Within 2 weeks of wearing and using nappies (i used abri form x-plus) I found I developed what seemed like urge continence. I got severe cramps everytime I needed to pee, almost like my bladder/abdominal area was on fire. Because of the pain I couldn't hold it any longer and peed. One particular instance I was in the car driving home and got the burning sensation and cramps and knew I needed to pee. I managed to hold my pee in until I got out of the car but as soon as I stood up out of the car, I peed myself without any control and couldn't stop it. Bedwetting also came back and I bedwet within 2 weeks too. So, in my opinion, yes, I think this does work and for some it might take longer than 12 months and for others, might take less. Pilot

Hey all, Just wanted to spread the word as the media aren't doing a very good job. The northern lights may be viewable in the UK tonight and tomorrow night. The more northern you are the better your chance of seeing it. It's down to the recent high activity of solar weather and the recent outburst of solar flames from the sun. Anyone else keeping their eyes peeled on the sky tonight? I just hope the weather doesn't ruin it. We all know what the UK weather is like. Pilot

How dare you jump ontop of other people's back like that without doing any proper research. That comment had angered me. I for one and such will not and never come onto a board and pretend something to enhance my "fantasies". If you really want to I can get my partner on here to bust your little theory as he is living proof. I shouldn't have to explain myself to you anyway but since you appear to be ignorant and I want to bust your little bubble, I will! After some careful research which I completed myself I have found the cause to be coffee. The bedwetting was only happening on nights on and off and the nights that it happened I had a cup of coffee before bed. The caffeine must irritate my bladder and because I sleep like a rock, causes me to bedwet. So, toddler junior, before coming on here and jumping on people's back ranting sayings it impossible and is a fantasy, go and do some proper research first but since you appear to know all already you should know that everyone's body is different and everyone will have different results upon what they do. Just because you haven't had any results, don't go and start shoving crap down other people's throats because you're jealous. You honestly don't understand how infuriated I am and I will probably get told off by a mod for this post but I had to say it. Regards, pilot

Thanks for the replies. Well I have studied over the past few nights and noticed that it occurred to me twice, overnight between 21/22 and overnight between 22/23 but overnight between 23/24 it didn't occur. Strange.

It is such a great feeling when you achieve something that you want forced to wet. I know that myself too. I can't remember waking up though so I must have just peed in my sleep. I wonder if my childhood bedwetting has came back to haunt me?

When I sleep I'm out cold until the morning and even my alarm clock finds it hard to wake me up, the way my body works, I don't know if anyone is similar is; go to sleep, need to pee while sleeping, hold it, wake up in morning, pee. Sometimes I think my bladder is made of metal the amount it holds at night. But last night was strange considering I wet while I was sleeping. I had heard rumours that wearing absorbent products can delay the progress made in achieving a dry bed but never thought it was true but if your doc says it's true, it must be. I'm confused. I haven't lost any control during the day, although I find that I am peeing more frequently in smaller amounts and the urine flow is weaker. When I feel I need to pee I usually only have about 2-3 minutes before it comes out. Pilot

Hey all, It's me again. So, having got myself sorted from the last time I was 24/7, I decided that I would go again to not only keep myself happy but to please my partner. Now, I have been 24/7 for just over a week and have been only doing #1 in nappies, not #2. Those resealable tapes come in handy! anyway, I'm having a ball and so is my partner. I'm using abri form xplus nappies and they are excellent, would recommend. I only need to change them in the morning, at some stage during the day and at night before bed. Anyone else like this brand? Any questions on this brand feel free to ask as I have been wearing them everywhere, around family, out and about etc. Anyway, I'm rambling on but I just wanted to refer to the topic, can wearing 24/7 lead to bedwetting? Some background. I was a regular bed wetter until the age of 7/8 I think, and from then on in was dry at night, however, I wet the bed last night. When I woke up this morning I noticed my nappy felt abit squishy than usual and low and behold it was soaked. Usually I awake in the morning, have breakfast and then I get an urge to pee and I let go before getting changed. I was kind of shocked tbh. I examined the nappy in the mirror and seen that the seat, or the back, was dry but the front and the crotch was soaked. I can only presume that I was lying on my stomach when it happened although I have been puzzled all day as I can't remember waking up during the night and peeing and my partner confirmed that I didn't sleep walk to the bathroom, not that I wake at night anyway (I'm a heavy sleeper). So, if anyone has any experience on this and/or advice feel Free to reply. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind it, neither does my partner, in fact he loved the fact it happened as long as my health isn't bad, which it shouldn't be having received a check up a month back. I believe it's known as SNE (secondary nocturnal enuresis) as I was a previous bed wetter. Some additional information: No UTIs Not Diabetic Frequent urination during the day Water intake is normal Blood pressure is fine BMI is 21 (doc wants me to put on weight) I very rarely drink alcohol No urinary problems (stones etc) So I can only presume this has happened because I am wearing 24/7 and was just looking to know if anyone else has had this happen. Thanks for your replies Pilot

I don't want to lose control permanently. I like having control and will always want control. Hats off to those who have to deal with it - I personally don't think I could do it.

I suppose everyone is different and things happen to different people at different rates. I have been using nappies for as long as I can remember. I didn't wear or use them all the time, just when I felt like it and for a few weeks at a time but nothing like this happened back then, however, because I do have a supportive partner, I guess I'm wearing them a lot more often now, a day or two at a time or for a week or just when I'm in baby mode. I guess I just want to see my partner happy as he likes it when I wear and use them. Thanks I'm going to get checked out but I'm baffled how I have got one if I do? I don't like the taste of cranberry juice so I'm just drinking water... A lot of it... Which means more trips to the bathroom unless I want wet underwear, the joys! Not :/

Having accidents are a nightmare! Lol. I don't think I have a medical problem although I'm going to go to the doctors to have a UTI test done incase, partners orders. Yeah I'm planning on giving it a break for a while to see what happens.

Hi all, I don't know if this is in the right place as there are several areas it can go but whoever is in charge, feel free to move it if it's in the wrong place. Ok, so I am off on my holidays at the minute. At the start of the two week break from work I thought I would wear nappies 24/7 because of several reasons; they're comfortable and my partner likes me wearing and using them to name a few. Anyway, i thought I would point out that I am not intending to become incontinent, nor do I want to be and also i actually feel sorry for those that have to live with it but anyway. I have been wearing and using them for just over a week and a half with no issues, rashes or anything of the sort, apart from one. I find now that I have gotten used to them, so much so that I find I don't clench my muscles before and after I pee and on occasions like I always used to do. Also, I find that my bladder is voiding more frequently and in less volume. Don't get me wrong, I do still know that I need to pee but this urge can come on very sudden, even if I have only wet a few minutes before hand and the before I know it, it is released into my nappy. It's a strange feeling, I can feel it coming through the pipe work as I should say but it's like an uncontrollable gush of pee escaping. I find it's worse when I have been lying down and then stand up, not to mention that lying down also makes me feel the need to pee very often. I decided that because I was back to work soon, I wanted to incorporate not wearing nappies into baby time and thus be a "big boy". One thing I did notice was even with the nappy off I still had to pee frequently which rules out any psychological issue and when I was trying to hold the pee back it stung and hurt until I released it into the toilet. Because it stung I always made a dash for the toilet when I felt I needed to pee. I have been doing Kegals to help the muscles down there improve although it is still sore to hold my pee back. My partner said I should go and see a doctor incase I have a UTI or something but I highly doubt I have one. So all this got me thinking, there are people out there who try to become incontinent and lose control down there. How comes it takes them months and maybe years whereas I have been receiving the symptoms of urge incontinence (yes, I done a lot of research myself and found only some useful results) in less than 2 weeks. Does age have a play in this I wondered as I am young, 23 to be precise, but it all doesn't make sense to me. So, to conclude, I am now spending the next few days trying to get everything back to normal in terms of the plumbing and my partner is helping and supporting me. I just hope everything goes back to normal before I get back to work! Sorry for the long post, I just wanted a rant and to express my feelings on here. Also if anyone has any tips or experience in what I am going through, feel free to reply. Pilot

Forced to wet: I'm happy for you and that you are able to fulfil your desires. It's nice when you have someone to care for you and look after you, even if that means changing wet nappies Beallucanb: Yeah, it takes two to tango but he gets his time too. We have already openly discussed that baby time needs separated from adult time so we can have the best of both worlds. He is one in a million and I wouldn't change him for the world. He even wants me to encorporate it into our sex life as he thinks in cute and sexy in a nappy and apparently I can play with his "rattle" yes, he is now able to show off his parental side, something which he might not be able to do for a while yet (stupid laws) so at least he can get lots of practice before the real thing

Hey all, I just wanted your thoughts, opinions and experience in an area which is greatly discussed here. I began on this journey of self acceptance and exploration as a DL. I remained one for many years and it was pleasurable at the time. Now I am an AB. Although I liked nappies, I also liked the thought of a dummy which I only really put thought into a few years back. One thing lead to another; bottles, bibs, onesies, prams etc and now I would class myself as an AB and not a DL. Has anyone else ever had this change or change from AB to DL. I would be intrested to see how many people have "changed" or "transformed". Anywho, in the past my partner slowly came around to me using nappies, bottles, dummies etc and now he has fully accepted it, however something happened recently that blew me out of the water when we were talking. He thinks I look cute in a nappy and when I'm lying sucking on my dummy or bottle. So, one thing lead to another and I can now confirm that I won't be feeding, changing, dressing myself anymore. He thinks it's quite cute and sexy at the thought that he is my daddy alongside being my partner. He said that; if he doesn't see me padded up in the house then he will pad me up, he will dress me, change me and if im hungry, he will make me a bottle of warm milk and feed me it and or feed me solid food too alongside cuddles, playtime and rocking me to sleep (he's 6ft and strong) and I'm only 5,5 and just under 9 stone. The thought of all this makes me feel all cosy and safe inside but I'm just wondering if anyone else has a partner that partakes and is their daddy/mummy. I don't know what made him do all this but it sure as hell has made me one happy bunny. When I asked him why he wants to do all this, his reply was, "I want to see you happy and if doing this makes you happy then ill do it and I'm looking forward to it as well". Sorry for the ramble but I thought I would ask for your experiences and opinions on the subject. Pilot

When you first wear in public, you will be paranoid, trying to walk properly to hide the bulk and depending on the person sweating etc. In one word you will probably be nervous. Now, there is nothing to be nervous about. Yes, it is all in the head and people might say it is easier to say than do it but you just need to give yourself that small push to do it. When you do do it, it will be exhilarating. You will get a rush of energy through you, more commonly known as adrenaline. A few tips from me: (1) try not to be nervous. People pick up when other people aren't being themselves, ie, when they are nervous. It is easy to spot a nervous person in a crowd. If you are spotted people might ask what is wrong etc which will make you feel even more nervous. So, just try and keep everything calm and relaxed. (2) start small and work big. To start wearing in public start by using goodnights/drynites. These are virtually unnoticeable under clothing. Then as you get comfortable wearing these, move onto adult pull-ups, then onto adult diapers/nappies. It will build your confidence up. (3) the first time you do wear anything in public, don't wet it. It will put your mind into overdrive in regards to being caught. Wait until you are comfortable wearing in public and once you have achieved that, then wet in them, however make sure you know the limits of what you are wearing or you could have a leak. (4) don't try to walk to counteract the bulk. You will end up walking funny, or as some would say, John Wayne style. Walk normally when wearing. Again, if you don't walk normally, people will notice and depending on the person will point it out. (5) if you are wetting, ensure you have clean protection to change into. That's just a simple but basic must for hygiene reasons. I will admit, that the first few times you wear in public will be scary and the voice in your head will be going 90 to the dozen however you just need to reassure yourself. When I first wore in public I freaked out. But after having gotten used to it, it doesn't phase me anymore. Nobody notices at all. People don't walk about staring at your bum trying to work out if you are wearing a diaper/nappy/pull-up. And even if people did glance at your bum, the thought of you wearing a nappy/diaper/pull-up wouldn't even cross their mind. Ill give you an example. I went for a break for three days and two nights with my partner and two friends. We stayed in a caravan. Now, the whole time I was away I wore pull-ups. Not once did my friends know I was wearing. We went into town in several occasions and they still didn't notice, nor did the public. I even wore a pull-up under sweatpants and when I woke up in the morning and stood beside them outside while they were having a smoke and they still didn't notice. My partner did know I was wearing the whole time, but it doesn't bother him. Even he forgot I was wearing them and said to me, he forgot I was wearing them until he seen it poke out from my pj bottoms on the last day. I was wearing tena pull-ups. So folks, if you are wearing in public don't stress too much. Just start small and work your way up to a more bulkier version. When you do it a few times your confidence will grow and grow. Just be careful not to overdo it. After all I do find it disrespectful to throw your fetish in other people's faces, ie, making the nappy/diaper/pull-up buldge obvious and flaunting it. Pilot

Thanks for all the feedback guys. I am just going to put it down to deeply relaxing. I can't explain it any other way. Thanks Pilot

Common factor indeed, however I use my dummy every night and a lot during the day and have only had one instance? So I don't know.

I don't know. Baffles me. I don't think it would be an allergic reaction as the teat is silicone I think which is the same as my dummy and I use my dummy alot with no problems apart from that one time I used it when in bed and felt that weird feeling. I don't have any swelling or rashes or anything? Completely baffled.

Hey all, So, there I was lying in bed with my bottle of warm milk sucking away when I noticed something strange. The more down the bottle I got, the more relaxed state I entered. The room started spinning and I couldn't really feel my body. It got to a point where I couldn't even feel my arms which where holding the bottle. I guess my bottle must just comfort me that much? I don't know? I had a similar experience with my dummy but it doesn't happen anymore. Has anyone ever had a similar experience or if anyone knows any suggestions, ideas, feel free to comment

It's scary Rachel. My heart was going so fast and the adrenaline was high but I don't think anyone saw. One of those face palm moments I would assume.