Michael R

I've also struggled with relationships and incontinence. No one I've dated has ever come out and said, "That makes me feel uncomfortable," but I think it might prevent the relationship from becoming more serious, which is discouraging for me. Most people find diapers and incontinence gross, so it makes sense that a lot of people wouldn't want to be in a serious relationship with someone who's incontinent. Hopefully one day I'll meet a special someone who can look past it.

I'm not sure I'm quite the person to reply to this, since I think I've had a different experience from most people on here. But I'll throw in my two cents anyway. I've been in diapers my whole life for incontinence. I'm not sure whether I'm a DL because it's not sexual for me, but I've come to accept myself and enjoy the feeling of wearing a diaper a lot more in the past few years. So, this is still sort of new for me, and I wonder if I'll get into ageplay or feel more sexual about diapers in the future. Is it possible that I'm developing a diaper fetish / infantilism at a later age than most people? I'm not sure.

Can't say I have it, though I would be willing to try the AB lifestyle out. I agree with your therapist; I don't think that it's hurting anybody or that it's wrong/immoral. As long as you two are consenting adults, I think it's fine. Anyway, from what I have read, it seems that mommies in the AB/DL community are very rare... I suppose you might find a few more women who share your fantasies, but I wouldn't expect you to find too many. Good luck, though.