Lil_Hatchling

Indirectly, she's doing something she enjoys, because you enjoy it! Seeing my partner smiling and beaming means most to me, so participating in his activities, while I'm not 100 % at ease with them, just makes it all worth it. Accept that your joy, your pleasure, is hers as well. ^^

This requires an honest relationship with your partner. It needs to be clear from the get-go that if she (or he) does not feel comfortable with the changing, they need to voice it. As much as it is pleasant to, well, please your partner, it should never be done forcefully. If your partner is showing interest, and you've made things clear, then trust them! Giving is wonderful, and seeing your lit up faces and your smiles makes it all worthwhile. Now, just gotta convince someone to let me join... *Eyes him-who-knows*

I think it also helps the members of the community that partners can be accepting towards unorthodox changes or fantasies. While it is still surprising at first, a lot of us still have a head on our shoulders afterwards to make our own opinions. Not all of us will fully embrace it, but we can at least try to accept it as much as we can.

Hey there! I thought I'd give a little peek and a greeting, seeing how our situation is very much alike! I am also in the "curious" section, since it is my boyfriend who is the DL. I've been getting to know people who are into AB/DL as well and gathering more and more knowledge about the whole thing. I also assist him when it comes to shopping, and so far I've watched him changed- but I have yet to assist in the changing. We have our moments that could maybe be considered more "maternal", but nothing quite role specific yet. We're comfortable that way =) Glad to have you on board, and if you ever have the need to chat, I'm a PM away!

Thanks! We're already off to a good start, and I can only hope it keeps going that way. =) Feel free to PM or hit me up if you've got concerns!

Hey there, I thought you might like my feedback on this =) I am not one who is into ABDL, but my boyfriend is. In a sense, I am in your girlfriends' shoes. From my point of view, I see my boyfriend as the expert on the subject and I aim to please him in this new adventure we're sharing. While I haven't changed him as of yet, I would not think it an insult or something negative if he gave me feedback on my diaper-changing skills. In fact, I hope he'd give me feedback. Why? Because my first and foremost goal is to make him happy, and if I can get better at that, why would it be negative? Also, learning implies making "mistakes" and learning from them. Your girlfriend is probably no expert on adult diapering, so learning new things is not a negative aspect. I hope this helps you! Of course, communication is key and the tone you will take will affect the conversation... But from what I could read, your last wish is to upset her- and so I think that will also show through your words. Good luck!