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  1. This has been a very interesting read, thank you dimolicares.  It has brought to mind a sort of friend from many years ago.

    Back in the late 80's, I met a mid 50's guy who up to then had been half wanting to become a bedwetter for years, but was afraid that he wouldn't be able to cope with it.

    It was long before the internet, so communication was letters, no phone because he was on a "Party Line", and the occasional meeting. and it became obvious to me, that he needed to be made to live as an incontinent, to make up his mind.

    After some careful planning on my part and having told him what I intended to do, one New Year's eve we went out in nappies where I got him very drunk and with difficulty, got him home to bed.

    I had remained sober enough to catheterize him and strap on 'belly bag' that I had sabotaged with pin-pricks on the underside, before getting him into an Attends that of course was easily flooded before morning by the leaking belly bag.

    I was quite surprised that he stuck it for a week, but even more surprised when that autumn, he told me that he had tried it again 3 months earlier, and was managing.

    I think it was two, but might have been three years later, that he wrote and told me how strange it felt to need to pee in the day, and how essential his nappy still was because it was so easy to know that it was ok if he let it flow, but also, that almost every morning, he woke with a wet bed.

     

     

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  2. On 9/12/2023 at 3:16 AM, babykeiff said:

    The history of diapers is inexotrably linked to what medical science call secondary noturnal enuresis - or more commonly known as bed wetting past a time where one would expect a child to be toilet trained, but it is a lot more hidden and misunderstood.

    It is all to do with human behavior and the subtle training employed.

    Prior to the widespread usage of diapers, neither diaper rash and or bed wetting existed in the world. The simple reason is that a baby was normally naked or placed on towelling material, and would be potted after every meal.  This teaches a baby that everytime it wets, it will be cold and uncomfortable. The baby gets used to the feeling and crys as soon as it is wet, and then eventually crys before it wets.

    The next key step in the story is where diapers were pinned onto the baby... and all diapers were at that time was a mobile absorbant pad to reduce the number of spills on a floor.

    The behaviour of parents / careers at that time would be to lift the baby out of the puddle, wipe up the wet (similar one does for a house living puppy), and then change the wet diaper with a dry one.

    In the corner of the room where the baby was was a potty and a diaper bin, so when the baby learned to be mobile, it would move to the potty and therefore self train what little skills that were required for toilet training. This normally occured daytime around the time the baby reached its first birthday, and shortly follows suit overnight.

    Due to the fact that the child is self trained so early, if said child starts bed wetting later, the medical definition of secondary nocturnal enuresis is apt, but this child does not start bed wetting since it is correctly toilet trained. The child will wake as soon as it wets as it is an alarm system that the child has been dealing with since birth.

    Now, we come to the status where a baby is diapered, and the diaper is covered with a waterproof material etc. - the child learns to ignore the feeling of sitting in its own wet and mess. This continues even past toilet training to such an extent that when it is supposedly toilet trained and the physics of bladder size would not allow it to last the 6-8 hours asleep, since wetting itself was never an alarm, the child continues to sleep as it wets.

    One may percieve that bed wetting is inheritory, but since it is a taught behaviour (to ignore the alarm of wetting) due to parental teaching, and parental teaching is copied by their offspring, it is a link that exists that is based on false presumptions.

    Bed wetting, diaper rash, late toilet training, stress bladder & bowel issues, over active bladder, bladder & bowel weakness in later life etc are all engineered / created problems based on the training said person recieved in the first years of their life. It is not an inherited problem, but an issue that the modern world has created. With the super absorbant diapers looking and feeling like underwear, this issue is destined to grow to such an extent that actual toilet use will become rarer and rarer

    - and we can attribute this to people like Marion Donavan (1940 disposable diaper + diaper covers), Victor Mills (1956 pin on disposable diaper with plastic backing), Charles Marie de La Condamine (1736 rubber) and Henri Fabre (1894 rubber baby pants)

    When one looks at the actual timeline, one can easily see that most people alive today has not escaped the indignity of, as a baby, sitting in their own wet and mess for a time, and considering that a babies skin is extremely thin, this filth would be reabsorbed into the babies systems creating more damage. There is a phrase, 'you are what you eat'... but it is more correct to state that you are made up of everything you consume.

     

     

    Prior to the widespread usage of diapers, neither diaper rash and or bed wetting existed in the world. The simple reason is that a baby was normally naked or placed on towelling material, and would be potted after every meal.  This teaches a baby that everytime it wets, it will be cold and uncomfortable. The baby gets used to the feeling and crys as soon as it is wet, and then eventually crys before it wets.

    Are you sure ?

    Baby's big uncluttered brain can learn very quickly, in three days something can become a habit.  As they sleep for much of the time in the womb, and in the later part of pregnancy, urinate, they are born with no inhibition about wetting, even in their sleep.

    Babies weren't normally naked.

    In winter, in much of the world they would have died, and in the 1950s, in the tropics, I saw babies wrapped until they could run around, to stop them being pestered by flies.

    Breast milk take time to be digested, so potting a baby after a feed would be 'pot luck' that an earlier feed was caught.

    For their first three months, babies sleep most of the time, so there is little opportunity to know when it is wetting, or, in the tropics, to learn that every time it wets, it would be cold.

     

  3. 1 hour ago, Little Sherri said:

    I wore diapers to bed until I was 10 1/2 roughly. I wore them in the car on long trips as well, drives to the cottage, drives across the country, and when we were getting home, or to our destination, late - anytime where it was likely that I'd fall asleep in the car, basically, but that ended earlier than wearing them to bed - maybe when I was 8 or so. I remember a trip to the East coast when I'd have been about 10 where I had to wear a diaper in the hotel beds, but I did not have one on in the car - I'd waged and won a campaign to be allowed to prove that I could stay dry if I snoozed in the car. 

    Which is funny, because now I sort of regret my efforts to get out of diapers... if "today me" were able to go back in time, I would have flagrantly peed my pants right away, and then eagerly agreed to be diapered for the whole trip, but at the time I had a lot of anxiety about wearing them anywhere other than at home. 

    Like you, on long car journeys, I was made to wear rubber pants, (rather crudely made from a discarded rubber bed sheet), over 2 or 3 pairs of 'double-bottomed' cotton underpants, but unlike you, even if I didn't sleep, I deliberately wet.

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  4. 48 minutes ago, Little BabyDoll Christine said:

    They are called "rubber" enough so that in many, if not most, of the ebay listings of plastic pants, "rubber" is in the lheader. And when they were in common use, they were mostly called "rubber" except in technical or commercial descriptions. In the 19teens, they were called "rubber diaper" and, according to the Urban Dictionary plastic pants are called "rubber diaper". enough to be notied, That would not be the case if the term they were derived from, the "root word", did not include "rubber". Can anyone think of a root term that would fit this other than "rubber pant(ie)s"? It would have been coined by our grandparents, used by our parents, then by baby boomers and transferred to Gen X by those of us still using cloth diapers on  our children because that is what we heard for the most part. When I was in the nursing home after surgery, back in 2021, in a discussion with a 25 year old nurse, she mentioned something invoving apatient getting fecal matter on their hand and rubbing their eye and as a solution I said "rubber pants" and she broke up saying that she had not heard that term in ages. Born in about '06, that she heard it at all is a testament to its staying power

    https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=rubber diaper

    And in England I am told they are called "rubbers"

    Usage of vulgate language for something no longer in its prime would favor the term that was in use when an item was in its most common use

    Just to add to the confusion, "a rubber"  is a close ended tube, very often worn on the penis by young males, when enjoying fornication.

  5. On 9/21/2023 at 2:24 AM, foreverdl said:

    I have seen soo many diapered women's butts that look just like it, so don't worry about it. 

    I'm trying to think, where  would you have seen "Soo many diapered women's butts" ?

    On 9/24/2023 at 1:31 AM, Clr224 said:

    It isn’t so much the hip size, but the ratio of waist size to hip size. Females, in general, have a smaller waist to hip ratio than males.  I don’t remember what the numbers are, but you could probably google the information.

    The numbers were "36-24-36".

  6. 5 hours ago, tigercub59 said:

    I'm going to London next week with family and was wondering what the restroom facilities were like? I have urge incontinence and wonder if I should wear briefs while out visiting the many historical and family type places that my daughter-in-law has planned for the family to see? We are not staying in the same place overnight so I can wear them without being discovered as they would have caused questions from my two young granddaughters. Thank you for your answers in advance.

    P.S. We will be taking public transportation to get around.

    Don't drink tea at breakfast.  Make use of all the opportunities for a pee.  You can probably wear an Anorak most of the time that you are out, which doesn't draw the eye to the good quality nappy that you wear, just in-case.

    Re-hydrate in the evening and take good bed protection.

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  7. 14 hours ago, DailyDi said:

    Mom insisted I replace my quilt set as it was badly faded from many wet morning wash cycles, and my pillows were "disgusting" because baby drools sometimes. The new set is definitely for a guy, not a kiddie set, but there's just something comforting about fresh bedding and firm pillows.

    I hope that your new quilt / duvet has a breathable waterproof cover.

  8. Mother's Irish cousin lived with us after the war.  He wet his bed every night, it could have been stress because he had been living in London and was blown into a hedge when his house was damaged by the last V2, but, years later at a family funeral in N. Ireland, I overheard somebody's wife claiming that she should be a saint for all the sheets that she had washed.

  9. On 2/21/2023 at 8:58 AM, Coffee2Sugars said:

    So far I have been wearing nightly for for at least a week and of course still wake regularly when I feel the urge.

     

    Despite lots of efforts and     feeling very confident in my brand of nappies, that they won't leak.    I still have not been unable to go whilst still in bed and laying down. Frustratingly I have to get out of bed and stand up to releive myself.

     

    I would love to the get to point where I can just sleep through the night and wake up In the morning to the feeling of a well used and filled nappy.

     

    Has anyone without any previous issues or experience with bed wetting been able to achieve this?

     

    What advice can you give me.

     

    Thanks.

    That confidence in your nappy, betrays that you have an underlying worry about a wet bed. Nappies do leak, and the bed sometime gets wet, so your confidence needs to be in the protection of your mattress and not to worry about your bed sometimes getting wet.

    As for getting out of bed, you could try getting back into bed as soon as you have got a good gush flowing into your nappy.

  10. On 11/21/2022 at 8:16 AM, Goerge said:

    I think I wrote similar here some years back with my problems with my supported housing manager wanting a Clinical waste bin on our property for my used Nappies. In my county the clinical waste bins are all yellow and you are given clinical waste bags which are also yellow to dispose of your nappies. I wasn't happy with that idea as my house is a terrace house that leads right onto the street and the clinical waste bins are normal height bins but bright yellow so anybody in the know will know they are used for incontinence waste, and my street is quite a busy road. So I told the manager I wasn't happy about the prospect that my IC would be known to other people outside the supported living complex. Also people would assume our house is a care home for the intellectual disabled which it is in a way but it's set for for supported living so independence is the main goal.

    We are lucky that we have 4 normal bins between 5 people but these do get very full and heavy. We never had a complaint of the dustbin collectors about this being heavy but I've seen them struggle with them. Also if you were to use a yellow clinical waste bag in the normal bins they dustbin collectors won't take the bin.

    And my closing statement if you were to have a Clinical waste bin it would quickly spread that you wore nappies, it would become very obvious.

     

     

     

    If, between you there are four bins, how are any of the the members of the public that are interested, going to know that they are your nappies in the Yellow Bin ?

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