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Wet Knight
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6 hours ago, DiaperboyEddie12 said:
@Wet Knight Abi no longer with us.
I believe she said Tommy’s husband was in contact with Abi and he’s the one who said Tommy passedI liked Abi, she grew up only a mile from my prep-school. I wonder how much else I have missed in 9 months ?
I hadn't thought that Tommy's husband might be real.
I got cross with Tommy, because he said he wanted to see my Lotus sports car but never came up with a post code for the sat nav, which made me wonder why, as he seemed so keen.
Some of what he told me was real because he knew that, someone that I knew who was a gay Doctor at a Bristol mental hospital, used to look after a mute, bedwetting boy at week-ends.
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On 12/29/2024 at 12:44 PM, Abi said:
Tommybubbles was my friends.
No, that's not a typo. He was definitely my friends, plural.
Tommybubbles was not the man we were told he was. He did not suffer a traumatic brain injury 7 years before he joined the site. But he did suffer from periodic bouts of depression and self-harming for most of his life. And he died of an overdose on 26 December 2024. Whether that overdose was accidental or deliberate will probably never be known.
Nearly everything we learned about Tommy in the 2 years he was a member of the site was pure fantasy. Invention. The family and friends who surrounded him were pure invention. But what invention! ALL of his friends and family who joined the site were pure invention ... they were Tommy, posting from multiple devices. So they have all died with him. Who were they all? I am not sure if I have the full list, but those I know for certain were:
Jackie1 (Jackie)
TOMC1 (Tom)
HAPPY (George)
Goat (Matt)
Mouse (Jonathon)
RIZZO (Sam)
Freak (Gladys)
Hat (Bev)
Ladybird (Rach)
Oscar (Oscar)
DANCING ALPACA (Hannah)
Superted (Teddy)
Dragonman (Phillip)
Katie (Katie - whom we banned for being underage ... but it seems we were wrong about that)
I interacted online with all of them ... and had no idea that they were just invented characters in Tommy's fantasy world. Other characters in his fantasy world, of whose reality I was equally convinced, included (in no particular order) Beth, Jill, two more Katies, another Hannah, Bill, Sid, Mark the son of Gladys, Mark the solicitor, Ted the retired driving instructor, Alice the old lady who died of cancer, Marie, Jim, Sue, Ryan, Simon, Graham, Patrick, Eve, Charlotte, "the Krays" (Jack and Henry), Willow, Lily, Harper, Nat, Ivy, the triplets (Arthur, Holly and Oscar), Leo, April, Bob, Cailtin (Tommy's daughter), Rick, "Shark" and Susan ... and a whole host of minor characters.
Tommy arrived on the DD scene at a low point in my life. The loss of an eye was bringing my teaching career to an end and before long I was signed off work with stress and depression. My sick leave lasted for 6 months, and culminated with my taking early retirement. For most of this time I wasn't able to do much except lie alone on my bed, interacting with online friends through the medium of the internet. It was mostly Tommy's invented characters that I interacted with, and they gave me hope and purpose in life. Advising them, helping them through their problems, and mentoring 13 year old "Beth" who aspired to be a barrister in legal thinking and skills. It would be easy to say it was all a hollow sham because none of them existed and their problems were not real. But that would not be a fair reflection. They gave me hope and purpose and something to get up for in the morning. For that I shall always be grateful, and I shall never forget them.
Tommy's characters were also all about cars ... especially classic cars, about which they were very knowledgeable. It had been a lifelong ambition of mine to own a classic car ... an ambition that I never thought I should realise because I lacked the necessary skills and knowledge. Tommy's characters persuaded me to believe in myself ... and to go out and realise my ambition, so that now I own two classic cars. One of them is even named Marie, in honour of a person who never existed ... "Jill's mum" who had MS, and died at the beginning of December. Only she didn't, because she never existed.
So what should we make of Tommy, a larger-then-life character who broke all the rules and filled the site with his alter egos? He was clearly a tortured soul, finding his outlet in fantasy, and I was drawn into his fantasy world in a way that some would say was utterly unhealthy. And yet ... it gave me hope and purpose in life at a time when all seemed lost. Will I miss him, and them? You bet I will! Am I grieving for him, and them? Unquestionably! Am I grateful that he came into my life, when he did, in the way that he did? Absolutely!
So goodbye Tommy. I shall miss you, and your creations, more than words can ever express.
Thank you for the memories.
Thank you, my friends!
How did Tommy tell you, that he had died ?
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I'd launch "Golden Diapers" as a brand, and get trump to endorse them.
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I am a Bedwetter, so I have a "Wet Night".
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On 5/3/2025 at 7:47 PM, Jay8787 said:
Every night now. Doesn't even wake me most of the time anymore.
How long has night time been like that ?
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I would have put "Other" because of the inconvenience when going on vacation.
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On 8/9/2017 at 8:57 PM, rubbersheetmike said:
I'm good with it as long as I put on a diaper the night before and theres little or no leakage. Otherwise I think of the laundry and the hassle that creates.
Surely, a wet bedpad is as easy to launder as a wet terry nappy.
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On 6/17/2024 at 10:08 PM, rubbersheetmike said:
My father wouldn't let my older brother or me wear diapers at night as we got older. He felt it encouraged bedwetting and that waking up in a cold wet bed discouraged it.
"Waking up in a cold, wet bed" was probably widely taught at Medical Schools or possibly referred to in Paediatric articles of the Medical press, in the first half of the 20th century, because I remember a hospital consultant, our family doctor and the school doctor all recommending that it would help me to "Grow out of it".
This must have suppressed demand, as from seeing and later hearing and reading about homemade rubber pants, it would seem that well into the 1950s, toddler and child sized babypants were not easily available.
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Information is still sparse, but as it accumulates there is growing evidence that around 40% of Autistic children are bedwetters.
This seems to drop of to 20% at puberty, but in UK, adolescent paediatric care ceases at 18 and those still bedwetting drop out of the system and have to cope as best they can.
Thankfully, they have probably been able to squeeze into the largest size of Huggies until they can afford to buy adult bedwetting protection.
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On 5/27/2021 at 6:32 AM, Little BabyDoll Christine said:
From the 1963 (that I know of) to the 1980's, Kleinert's made adult size rubber panties. They were like baby panties but they were fairly close fitting. The origianls were made of smooth white material. Some time in the late '60's or1970s these were replaced by grainy milky white material that were fuller cut. They were sold in the Womens' Department of places like Shepards in Providence and later Edgar's in malls and shopping centers. Also, there was Salk Sain-Patn that were a regular looking panty made of rayon that was lined with polyurethane and used some kind of throw-away liner that had an akhesive to hold them to the panty that I frst saw in c1963
In 1962 I bought myself two pairs of white Kleinerts adult sized rubber pants from a rather seedy "Surgical" shop, somewhere near Acton in north-west London. One was Directoire style that came down my thighs, half way to my knees and the other Babypant style.
Both pairs had several 1/4" holes punched either side at the hip, advertised as 'for ventilation', but conveniently stopped the squeaking when sitting down, and neither of them had tight enough elastic at the legs, so I used to add an elastic band.
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How can a country be called civilised, if the trial is determined by whether the Judge has the same political views as the defendant ?
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15 hours ago, wetguy13579 said:
Sure, happy to answer.
1. I wouldn’t say I’ve had regrets, however as I said there are side effects of the surgery that I am openly not happy with and those have definitely bothered me. If I can get rid of those side effects, I’ll be perfectly happy.
2. I would say it’s about what you expect. It’s crazy how quick and drastic of a change it is. I remember standing up the first time my catheter was removed, and my bladder emptying without being able to stop it. Ever since then, that’s been the norm. At a certain point you do get used to it though and it really feels like the new normal.
3. Mostly travel. Going places requires planning and usually extra supplies. The longer, the more preparation. I sometimes I might even use a penis clamp if I can’t be bringing a ton of diapers somewhere, which lets me get by pretty well with a pad in my underwear until I can unclamp it.
4. Not much actually. For some reason wearing pull ups tends to give me a bit of confidence, but besides that I don’t notice too much of a difference. Of course you have to be careful about leaks and stuff around other people, but after a while it becomes pretty simple to know when you need to change.
5. I’m sleeping well. I usually do pee in my sleep, but most of it happens when I stand after waking up.
6. I would say it has increased my happiness. Unfortunately some bad things happened in my life right at the same time I had the surgery, and I couldn’t really focus on the incontinence as there were some serious things going on that were affecting me a lot. That mixed with the burning pain that has been on and off in my urethra has been bothersome. But overall, the surgery itself has had a positive impact on my life.
I like pull ups mainly for the discretion, but also just because something about them appeals to me. It’s like “trying” to wear underwear when you can’t. Not sure if that makes sense.
When I go anywhere for an extended period of time, I usually bring small disposable bags that I can put the pull ups in before throwing them out. Nobody can see what’s in it and it doesn’t smell. At home I have a diaper pail, because you really need it when you are going through so many incontinence products per day.Presumably you can still use a cath and bag in circumstances that might flood your nappy ?
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This has been a very interesting read, thank you dimolicares. It has brought to mind a sort of friend from many years ago.
Back in the late 80's, I met a mid 50's guy who up to then had been half wanting to become a bedwetter for years, but was afraid that he wouldn't be able to cope with it.
It was long before the internet, so communication was letters, no phone because he was on a "Party Line", and the occasional meeting. and it became obvious to me, that he needed to be made to live as an incontinent, to make up his mind.
After some careful planning on my part and having told him what I intended to do, one New Year's eve we went out in nappies where I got him very drunk and with difficulty, got him home to bed.
I had remained sober enough to catheterize him and strap on 'belly bag' that I had sabotaged with pin-pricks on the underside, before getting him into an Attends that of course was easily flooded before morning by the leaking belly bag.
I was quite surprised that he stuck it for a week, but even more surprised when that autumn, he told me that he had tried it again 3 months earlier, and was managing.
I think it was two, but might have been three years later, that he wrote and told me how strange it felt to need to pee in the day, and how essential his nappy still was because it was so easy to know that it was ok if he let it flow, but also, that almost every morning, he woke with a wet bed.
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When I, as a civilian, got seconded to "RAF Communications", Where ever I got posted, the Quartermaster had a rubber sheet for me, so I don't think that I can have been the only bedwetter in the service.
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That is well written with good use of paragraphs.
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Taking everything that might be needed, on vacation, is more than annoying.
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2 hours ago, QuickChe said:
I wet every night and I am quite the heavy bedwetter. Dry nights are very rare!
You have my sympathy. Bedwetting is an unwanted problem when away from home.
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On 10/27/2023 at 9:33 PM, rubbersheetmike said:
Wetting the bed makes me feel like a naughty boy when I wake up soaked in the morning.
Mmm. Even after all these years, wetting the bed is deliciously naughty; admittedly, wetting a nappy in bed is more convenient.
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On 9/12/2023 at 3:16 AM, babykeiff said:
The history of diapers is inexotrably linked to what medical science call secondary noturnal enuresis - or more commonly known as bed wetting past a time where one would expect a child to be toilet trained, but it is a lot more hidden and misunderstood.
It is all to do with human behavior and the subtle training employed.
Prior to the widespread usage of diapers, neither diaper rash and or bed wetting existed in the world. The simple reason is that a baby was normally naked or placed on towelling material, and would be potted after every meal. This teaches a baby that everytime it wets, it will be cold and uncomfortable. The baby gets used to the feeling and crys as soon as it is wet, and then eventually crys before it wets.
The next key step in the story is where diapers were pinned onto the baby... and all diapers were at that time was a mobile absorbant pad to reduce the number of spills on a floor.
The behaviour of parents / careers at that time would be to lift the baby out of the puddle, wipe up the wet (similar one does for a house living puppy), and then change the wet diaper with a dry one.
In the corner of the room where the baby was was a potty and a diaper bin, so when the baby learned to be mobile, it would move to the potty and therefore self train what little skills that were required for toilet training. This normally occured daytime around the time the baby reached its first birthday, and shortly follows suit overnight.
Due to the fact that the child is self trained so early, if said child starts bed wetting later, the medical definition of secondary nocturnal enuresis is apt, but this child does not start bed wetting since it is correctly toilet trained. The child will wake as soon as it wets as it is an alarm system that the child has been dealing with since birth.
Now, we come to the status where a baby is diapered, and the diaper is covered with a waterproof material etc. - the child learns to ignore the feeling of sitting in its own wet and mess. This continues even past toilet training to such an extent that when it is supposedly toilet trained and the physics of bladder size would not allow it to last the 6-8 hours asleep, since wetting itself was never an alarm, the child continues to sleep as it wets.
One may percieve that bed wetting is inheritory, but since it is a taught behaviour (to ignore the alarm of wetting) due to parental teaching, and parental teaching is copied by their offspring, it is a link that exists that is based on false presumptions.
Bed wetting, diaper rash, late toilet training, stress bladder & bowel issues, over active bladder, bladder & bowel weakness in later life etc are all engineered / created problems based on the training said person recieved in the first years of their life. It is not an inherited problem, but an issue that the modern world has created. With the super absorbant diapers looking and feeling like underwear, this issue is destined to grow to such an extent that actual toilet use will become rarer and rarer
- and we can attribute this to people like Marion Donavan (1940 disposable diaper + diaper covers), Victor Mills (1956 pin on disposable diaper with plastic backing), Charles Marie de La Condamine (1736 rubber) and Henri Fabre (1894 rubber baby pants)
When one looks at the actual timeline, one can easily see that most people alive today has not escaped the indignity of, as a baby, sitting in their own wet and mess for a time, and considering that a babies skin is extremely thin, this filth would be reabsorbed into the babies systems creating more damage. There is a phrase, 'you are what you eat'... but it is more correct to state that you are made up of everything you consume.
Prior to the widespread usage of diapers, neither diaper rash and or bed wetting existed in the world. The simple reason is that a baby was normally naked or placed on towelling material, and would be potted after every meal. This teaches a baby that everytime it wets, it will be cold and uncomfortable. The baby gets used to the feeling and crys as soon as it is wet, and then eventually crys before it wets.
Are you sure ?
Baby's big uncluttered brain can learn very quickly, in three days something can become a habit. As they sleep for much of the time in the womb, and in the later part of pregnancy, urinate, they are born with no inhibition about wetting, even in their sleep.
Babies weren't normally naked.
In winter, in much of the world they would have died, and in the 1950s, in the tropics, I saw babies wrapped until they could run around, to stop them being pestered by flies.
Breast milk take time to be digested, so potting a baby after a feed would be 'pot luck' that an earlier feed was caught.
For their first three months, babies sleep most of the time, so there is little opportunity to know when it is wetting, or, in the tropics, to learn that every time it wets, it would be cold.
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48 minutes ago, Little BabyDoll Christine said:
They are called "rubber" enough so that in many, if not most, of the ebay listings of plastic pants, "rubber" is in the lheader. And when they were in common use, they were mostly called "rubber" except in technical or commercial descriptions. In the 19teens, they were called "rubber diaper" and, according to the Urban Dictionary plastic pants are called "rubber diaper". enough to be notied, That would not be the case if the term they were derived from, the "root word", did not include "rubber". Can anyone think of a root term that would fit this other than "rubber pant(ie)s"? It would have been coined by our grandparents, used by our parents, then by baby boomers and transferred to Gen X by those of us still using cloth diapers on our children because that is what we heard for the most part. When I was in the nursing home after surgery, back in 2021, in a discussion with a 25 year old nurse, she mentioned something invoving apatient getting fecal matter on their hand and rubbing their eye and as a solution I said "rubber pants" and she broke up saying that she had not heard that term in ages. Born in about '06, that she heard it at all is a testament to its staying power
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=rubber diaper
And in England I am told they are called "rubbers"
Usage of vulgate language for something no longer in its prime would favor the term that was in use when an item was in its most common use
Just to add to the confusion, "a rubber" is a close ended tube, very often worn on the penis by young males, when enjoying fornication.
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On 10/18/2023 at 10:27 AM, stevewet said:
I wear drylife plastic pants or Mylesta nylon pants over my nappies to save leaks being noticeable.
Do Mylesta make a nylon night-time waterproof pant as opposed to a day-time brief ?
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Once aroused, what ever by, sexual gratification is about cumming. Does it really matter whether it is in your hand, in a woman or in a man ?
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On 9/21/2023 at 2:24 AM, foreverdl said:
I have seen soo many diapered women's butts that look just like it, so don't worry about it.
I'm trying to think, where would you have seen "Soo many diapered women's butts" ?
On 9/24/2023 at 1:31 AM, Clr224 said:It isn’t so much the hip size, but the ratio of waist size to hip size. Females, in general, have a smaller waist to hip ratio than males. I don’t remember what the numbers are, but you could probably google the information.
The numbers were "36-24-36".
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5 hours ago, tigercub59 said:
I'm going to London next week with family and was wondering what the restroom facilities were like? I have urge incontinence and wonder if I should wear briefs while out visiting the many historical and family type places that my daughter-in-law has planned for the family to see? We are not staying in the same place overnight so I can wear them without being discovered as they would have caused questions from my two young granddaughters. Thank you for your answers in advance.
P.S. We will be taking public transportation to get around.
Don't drink tea at breakfast. Make use of all the opportunities for a pee. You can probably wear an Anorak most of the time that you are out, which doesn't draw the eye to the good quality nappy that you wear, just in-case.
Re-hydrate in the evening and take good bed protection.
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Tommybubbles, his family and friends
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To tell you the truth @Wet Knight Do we really know anything that anyone says on this website? Like we are very secretive on here. and keep to ourselves. So really how do we know the truth from the false.
@Eddie12. As a lifelong bedwetter, DL is a coping mechanism, but I've never really thought, that for a deliberately wetting AB, it must all be fantasy.