I agree that being a sissy is more then just pretty panties and diapers. i have found with my husband that it is about being submissive for him and his accepting the role of a young child that needs to be cared for and includes his being controled by me and that involves his not having any choice in what he is dressed in for bed and now during the day as well. Humiliation is a large part of his enjoyment as well and it is fun for me to take care of him and find myself to feel lucky to have taken the chance of marrying a guy that was 22 and still wetting his bed most nights.