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    A Very Sad Movie

    in Links and Announcements

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    I have viewed the film several times and it still captivates me like it did the very first time. I was abused as a child in a similar way, i lost my mother at a young age, was sexualy assualted and left to the tender mercies of the social care system. Many of you have asked as to why the older girl still wears nappies or dont understand it, well i can explain a few things having been there myself. Months and years of the kind on forced regression abuse leaves its mark. If you are a young and small person, as i was, when the abuse started, then you have no real option but to do as the abuser wants. After a while the treatment becomes engrained into you, it becomes a part of you and who you are. You also begin to accept it as a way of life you, it becomes a routine until one day you begin to take it as normal. Somtimes abused childeren dont realise they are being abused because they think its normal behaviour from their parents, "Grandma did it mom and now mom is doing it to me, so it ok" kinda attitude.

    For most people the wearing of a nappy makes them feel safe, secure and comfortable, it makes them feel protected. At the end of the film we see the older girl wearing, having a bottle and using a paci. I personaly have done this aswell, its because of a very complex deep rooted psycological need to feel comforted. "But how can a abuse become somthing of comfort" i hear you cry, well, if somthing is repeated often enough, it doesnt become a abuse to the victims mind, it becomes a state of normality. I can remember as a child after my 3rd month of enforced babying/abuse that i began to enjoy the nappy changes, because i finaly accepted that it was a part of my life now, and i couldnt change it. I now use it as a reference point in my life, i have learnt from my expeirience and turned somthing that was dreadful into somthing that i can live with. Abuse doesnt have to rule your life if you manage it properly. My wearing as a adult is my effort of trying to make up some kind of childhood that i should of had, trying to make the best i can from a bad situation and deal with my personal demons of the past.

    So, she wears, id imagine, for the same reasons i did. Because its a part of her and myself, we cant get away from that. It also offers a sort of comfort that is hard to explain, in that a nappy in itself offers comfort, protection etc. That no matter how hard we try, our pasts can never leave us and we have to accept who we are to be able to continue our lives.

    No doubt some of you will disagree or pull my analogy to pieces, but i will add this, this is how i feel about my life aswell as the girl/womans and we have had a very similar existence. Many of you know me and i have been about for many years, this is the first time i have been open like this, so please respect my views. Comments welcome and my PM box is always open.

    Adam

    P.s I no longer wear and have been a AB daddy for a few years, but my past is still the same and my explinations stand

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    in Newbie Nursery

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    Hi angel, welcome to DD. Making up rules is good, however this site belongs to Daily Di. He is the one who makes the rules up here.

    Hi! I Am Very New!

    in Newbie Nursery

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    Hi and Welcome to DD. I am a Daddy to a AB girl. Can i ask are you a AB couple or a DL couple? The reason i ask is that you have asked for help and guidance, and you wouldnt want AB advice if your DL's and vice versa. If you'd like to talk 'Parent', do drop me a line.

    :)

    Hey! Im A Newbie :d

    in Newbie Nursery

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    First of all a big hello and welcome to the site. I am a Daddy to a AB girl and know all to well about punishments for mischievious lil ones. The most important thing i would say is to find out what his bounderies are. If he is dead against somthing like spanking for example, if he was abused as a child, then he would have very bad reactions.

    Have a look at this www.adultbabyworld.net/diaper.html it might help

    Here is another that you might want to view. www.care4baby.net/html/modules.php?name=News&file=article&sid=7

    It is a Daddy/Babygirl subject, but you can use the principles to a Mother/Babyboy relationship.

    Hope this helps in some way

    Adam

    Are The Mods A Waist Of Time?

    in DailyDiapers Tech Support

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    Personaly speaking from som1 who has his own chatroom, i know that problems do occur and people will fall out and so on. However i do also feel that DailyDi's almost non appearance is contributing to the problems. To run a succesful site/chatroom you need a Admin who is there, available and answers his Emails. I have sent him a few and have never had a reply, and i know i am not alone. As for the modship in here, i know and appreciate what Rosie does, but she is only one mod and as far as i have seen, the only mod. Despite numerous emails from people to DailyDi about becoming a mod, no1 has been appointed, even when he asked for people to apply. Yes i do agree with Rosie that people do need to excersice a certain amount of maturity, but people are needed in the chatroom with powers, to remove the idiots that make our lives not pleasent. Yes we do have the ignore button, but there are ways around this, constant logging in and out of the chatroom for one. So, in closing we need more mods, i feel. But until we get more mods or somthing drastic happens, remember that there is a Adult in Adult Baby. Try and be mature and dont throw your teddy out of the pram.

    oh, and just as a footnote to diapergirl80, he is never busy enought to add new pictures to the board and tune the board up, but he never makes time to talk to people or answer his emails. Without the visitors to the board and site, it would fail. Members are the key, not pictures.

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