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Fontaine
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Just curious, at what age did you first penalize that you were an ABDL? Even if you didn't know What it meant at what age did you first realize that you had different feelings then the majority of people around you? My second part of the question is at what age did you come to an acceptance of who you are?
I first realized that I was Different in probably the fourth grade. Not exactly sure how old that would be, probably around 10. I didn't come to an acceptance Of who I am until about a week ago. And right now I am 23 years old.
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Ive been feeling depresed lately, about who i am. I recently found i cant change my feelings about liking being a baby and wearing diapers. I was raised to be “normal“, and still feel theres something wrong with me:( i doubt ill ever get a girl who likes me for who i am as well.
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I did not quote any bible verse nor did I say it was the will of a god of any kind. I'm not particularly religious in any case although religion does play largely into the history of marriage since before recorded history.
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1. Earliest diaper memory
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The Problem with trying to find her likes and dislikes is that it often feels as if she doesn't even know what she wants. I've had countless conversations about diapering in general when it usually comes up and I'm always receptive to her desires but most of the time she doesn't want or need anything except for her life to destress. I can't blame her for that since things have become more stressed lately and she works so much.
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Sometimes it feels as if I'm nagging but I don't think I am. At most I bring it up once every 2 weeks or so. As for taking care of her, I've tried but in general I'm often told there isn't much I can do when I ask if there is something I can do to make her feel better. I guess part of it might be because we lead such hectic lives. Asking her to be responsible for anything extra might just feel like I'm burdening her with extra responsibilities so I end up feeling guilty to even ask her to diaper me (much less ask her to spontaneously change me or ask if it would be ok to change a wet diaper) when she isn't in a good mood which is why I let it slide so many times even though we have agreed to schedule "diaper time" at least once a week.
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So I've been in a mommy/baby relationship with my fiancee for the last 3 years or so but it has never really progressed more then her diapering me once a week and there was a significant stretch of time towards the middle where she didn't change me at all. I admit that part of it was my own fault for not asking her to change me but even still I would ask her but then she would forget a couple minutes later and sometimes it just feels like she doesn't care. But then I start to feel like maybe I'm asking too much and I feel guilty which leads me not to say anything at all.
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You'll excuse me if I don't believe you good sir.
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Not too prevalent considering how many health concerns there are for remaining sedentary for such a long period of time. Most know when it is a good time to get up and do something else but there are always a select few who don't.
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I finally have power back after Sandy took it from me >.>
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I never have accidents when I'm wearing. The worst it ever gets is if I'm holding it in for too long and I just kind of give up and slowly release my bladder into my diaper. In cases of me falling asleep, you hit the nail on the head. Most often I'll just wake up and use my diaper and fall back asleep. It certainly makes things easier
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many different ways you can start but usually like any good story you have to start with establishing your characters and settings. After that the situation the characters get into using the basic 3 act structure works the best. The build up, the climax, the result
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I'm glad things are working out for you
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yeah doesn't help that i'm kinda fat lol. I have to wear an XL most times for it to fit comfy where i need it to be. Also i've seen those pics before but i have nothing to contrast them against except a blue blackground. >_<
Ah well... back to looking.
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Not quite sure if this is where i should be asking this but I just wanted to know people who have worn these opinions about what they think. Mostly looking for comfort and look related things. I've never actually used a cloth diaper before so i'm kinda a newbie in that regard or baby if that is a more convenient word lol. Also does anyone know where I can find some pics of these two? I seem to be having no luck in that department too. Anyway, thanks.
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I told my mom when I was younger as well. Honestly it is probably my biggest regret. While it didn't change anything drastically there were times when i could feel the tension created by it. Not to mention i had to visit a therapist twice because my mom wanted to make sure i was "ok"
In the end i only ended up resenting her for it. It is for the best if you don't.
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anybody else know what diaper she is wearing?
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The inside of the diaper is tearing around the crotch region and releasing all that fluffy stuff. Makes clean ups a pain and my fiancee quite unhappy. Luckily the plastic pants has kept it sealed inside so the clean up is minimal and the bed doesn't get filled with all those things.
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lets try again. maybe 3rd night is the charm?
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yeah i do toss and turn quite a bit :/
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So i've been wearing Bambinos for my diaper wearing at night and in the morning but when im asleep the bambino has been falling apart, Is this a manufacturing problem or do i need to find a diaper that is designed for sleeping in? If the second one does anyone have a suggestion?
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You know looking for acceptance by others is something that as humans we crave. It doesn't shock me that is why when we find or know something about ourselves that seems abnormal that we wish to share it with others. There is nothing freakish about what we do anymore then any other fetish. The only reason why i can think of it being odd in the first place is because it isn't exactly as common as some others (after all you don't see people into BDSM thinking of themselves as abnormal do you?) Still, i can't stress enough that telling a parent is probably not the best or even a good idea. I always wonder what exactly do people want to happen? No matter what a parent's reaction is always liable to come up short. I know this from experience much like many others. I'm sorry that so many have to learn this sort of thing the hard way and it is even more unfortunate that some have SOs who can't even accept that other side of them. I know i couldn't be in a relationship like that. Nonetheless, that is why we (as in people ab/dls and those who support them) are here. The support people need is an inner acceptance that isn't easy to achieve. I wager if as children or teenagers or whatever we told our parents and they responded well, then our level of acceptance on the personal level would be a lot higher. I think my mom did a lot to injure me but despite it she still said she loved me and that it wasn't something that was dangerous so all in all that it was ok (although don't confuse ok with acceptable behavior). So in the end YOU have the keys of acceptance already. You just had to open the door.
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*psst* The holy roman empire, was by in large, Christian. Thus it is holy. It is considered Roman though because of Italy which actually shared most of it's national identity with the Germans. Actually one of the biggest reasons unification took so long was because many people thought it wasn't right to break up Italy and Germany although at that point Germans and Northern Italians were still very similar, the southern Italians had become much more mixed. *runs away*
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Sleep, watch a movie, snuggle. If i'm in a less babyish mood then the best things are the things i normally do lol
although in terms of getting me off, just having my fiancee rub my diaper area is enough. I'm kind of simple that way
What Does Finding A Mommy Mean?
in Our Lifestyle Discussion
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They aren't the same but the rolls tend to blend when you have a good mommy/wife unless you keep the AB part of you entirely separate. They ultimately do a lot of the same things like giving love and being supportave but a mommy tends to do mommyish things if that makes any sense. Meaning they would be more willing to be involved like changing your diaper, giving you a bath or feeding you a bottle.