[ABDL Help]

Hehe stuffed doggie - my cuddly pony does it to me bigtime I give him one hug and it calms me down and makes me feel nice and little. And let yourself be yourself, no stifling. If you watch Dora the Explorer, you have to help her which means pointing and saying stuff and singing along - so by the end you are just having fun being yourself. Getting taken care of sure makes you feel little, but that is a little more complicated to make happen than going to Toys R Us ;-) hugs and don't ever change (let someone else do that for you)

[Introducing a psych to my ABDL side.]

Hi winter, left a reply on your blog. Basically, you deserve a therapist who sympathizes and tries to understand first, then the two of you figure out what to do. Good luck & hugs.

[Husband is a DL - Need support/help understanding]

I'm wondering if some sort of couples counseling might help. It seems to me (esp talking from my own personal experience) that he's looking at your (completely understandable) reaction and dialing back the amount of information he's willing to share. Hopefully, counseling might give you and he a safe and constructive place to talk about this.

[Adorable New Prints!]

Wow wow wow, I want the dinos, dey are scaaaarrryyy!!!

[Running an errand for Mom]

My parents put my baby diapers away in the attic and I found them when I was 12. I was alone in the basement, I had a lot of privacy. I loved it!

[new girl here]

Hey welcome. And if you feel like a girl but aren't quite equipped that way, you're a girl to us and we like you that way.

[Counseling & therapy (in a good way)]

Hmmm... you think living near Cambridge Ma, I might not have to waste three weeks explaining why? I'm hoping to find someone who's at least heard of it or likely to be open to a reasonable explanation (in my case, "doesn't everyone want unconditional love?" "when was the last time you were truly unconditionally loved?") meh if those two lines don't do it, try another one on the list.

[Counseling & therapy (in a good way)]

Hope this is the right place to put this. I'm wondering if anyone has ever gone to a therapist to discuss their ABness. I don't want to learn how to get rid of it or how to push it under, it's kind of the opposite - for the first time in my life I found out what it was like to be liked just the way I am. I gots a daddy and I got to be myself around him and it was WONDERFUL.

[ABDL Match]

I got the free membership. I get an incredibly suspicious number of mommies asking me to contact them - with very "I'm not a pro" profiles. You have to join to read the emails, just feels like I'm being lured into joining.

[The Psychology Behind Incontinence Desire]

Lots of good points and it really resonates with me personally. I hate being yelled at, try real hard and hate failing. Growing up, my biggest failure was wet and messy pants and I got yelled at for it and just wished I was expected to be in diapers and allowed to be a baby.

[Dream guy wants to be my daddy!]

Hi Broken Dreams,

I'm sorry this isn't working out for you. I think it may be easier to adjust to being an AB mommy than it is to being a baby - if you're a mommy, you're still an adult and the other way round, oh you're certainly not! I think it's generally a built-in thing that you're proud of being

[Just Got My First Order Of Diapers]

Those are all really good diapers, baby. I think you don't have to worry about leaks with those for at least a few wettings no matter how big a baby you are. Just be yourself and enjoy - you're in diapers now.

[How Do I Make My Ab/dl Boyfriend Feel Little?]

I thought the other poster's idea about making him wet his pants was a really good one. It sounds like your baby is more of a little boy who needs to be in diapers. If he wet his pants (or worse), it would be very embarrassing for him and I think it wouldn't take much to convince him that he really does need to be back in diapers. That whole thing can be very confusing - it's practically the ultimate embarrassment to wet your pants, it's very uncomfortable afterward, it's really nice that "mommy"

[How Do You Like To Poop?]

I love going in my diapers, it makes me feel like such a total baby. I wish that when I was in a safe place to have a messy diaper that I wouldn't be able to control it, alas, it's a conscious decision. Still, it's such a relief and it's fun to do. I bet toddlers like it when it happens, it's just afterwards that's uncomfortable. And that's part of being a toddler, not really considering the consequences before you do something. So you really didn't think so much when you went in your diaper because you were playing and it was convienient and you feel a little whiny and needy now that you're messy. So... um... I like it because it feels authentic and it marks me as being a real baby who needs to be in diapers, not pretend.