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Marcuss
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have not tried the standard night time diaper. They do take a long time to dry. Often we run them thrue a dryer cycle and hang them either inside or outside as our back yard is fairly private and we just dont care what others think. Yes i do have to use "high back" plastic pants but that is because the size i ordered comes up to just over my belly button. They are very thick and after 10 washes or so when fully shrunk are over an inch thick. I have not measured but i will when i get home tomorrow but i would guess they are somewhere between 1 1/4 and 1 1/2 thick laying flat on the bed clean un-squished. With 1-2 toddler prefolds in them when the mood is right you can not help but waddle which my girl thinks is cute :0). If you are going to go that thick and walk around you should use a onesie or when it starts to get wet the sag will be insane.
Ill update in the next day or two with actual size...if im in the mood maybe even pics heh.
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the protex i linked was for 2 of them so its only 22$ each...not the cheepest but somewhat translucent and honestly i like them a lot very comfortable and have not leaked yet less i was asking for it. My default plastic pant for most times. Very soft and quite thick feeling. Personally i wish they were louder but thats just me :0)
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Nice site some constructive observation however. you do not say what you use in your diapers as a core fore absorbancy. Ie flannel cotton hemp terry cloth etc. and layers and such. Just trying to help :0)
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I need to remove my pubic hair for sanitary reasons it just holds too much bacteria. I hate shaving its totally annoying and does not last long enough. If you dont want hair somewhere ever i see no problem making yourself more the way you want to be after all its your body. On a related note i just bought this it has good reviews and should arive tuesday...ill make a post if it works or not in time for those interested. I dont think i could pay to have my junk zapped.. Its not cheep but if it works i think it will be worth it.
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Start out with a real full relationship over all. Diapers are not the only or even primary factor in compatibility even if you were fully incontinent 24/7 you would not stay with someone just because they accepted your diapers but had nothing els in common. Do not lie and do not deceive and do not hide. But build a real relationship slowly. Hopefully by the time your abdl really reaches a head there is enough of a love so that even if she is not encouraging or even supportive she will at least be acceptable of you even if she does not understand.
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Parents with toddlers know what diapers sound like and so do the kids. Most of the time it is not quiet enough even if they are next to you but if it is they will know what it is. Btw i love crinkle but youll only hear it when you try
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i ordered some custom cloth diapers from adultclothdiaper.com 10 layers thick with terry in the center. Terry is not the softest but it is very absorbent and adds to the unforgettable fact that you are thickly diapered.
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Try these. They have a high back and the elastic is extra wide so it does not cut into your skin so much which i hate even buying a not so snug fit size. This site also has some "retro" styles from the 50's or so they say as i have never seen the real ones that old. Fast shipping btw...
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on the cheep side you may try just buying side rails to a bunk bed and attach them to a twin bed it would be like a crib. If on one side you put hinges to fold down it might work with some creativity.... dont ask me where you can just buy side rails for bunk beds... but they are for kids and kids break stuff they have to have them. Maby home depo or lows ? Should be twin size beds anyhow..
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It has all been said before but i feel there is a difference to using 24/7 and total incontinence more than just the option. There is a surrender and submission to your self when you are really incontinent by choice or just act that way by choice. Its like dressing and acting like a women when you were born a man or getting a sex change. Other than the image of yourself naked pre and post op there is no difference (not a perfect analogy but bear with me). It is the permanence and social/emotional distinction to having your body parts the way you want them that is important not just the life style. If it was no more than a lifestyle decision there would be no such thing as transsexuals just "legal cross-dressers" because the surgery would be unnecessary and to "drastic/ill-thought".
I dont want anyone to do anything to harm their self or cause permanent changes with out thinking long and hard about all aspects of those decisions and then thinking again...and again. And if it is still what they want more power too them. In all honesty with out self mutilation there is really no way a person can make them self incontinent over night and by the time these things become even partially permanent those uncomfortable situations will arise. Maby they will be well on their way before the first time they have a sudden urgent sensation for explosive bowels wile standing in line at best buy 3 days before Christmas (true story and no i did not make it...or a purchase) they can still hold it long enough... and maby not. Either way there will be times before irreversible success that with be the most inconvenient and poorly timed episodes...several episodes; church, child's birthday parties, extended work meetings on short notice etc. Either way when they go home they will have a hard time NOT thinking about their choices and if it is really what they want and still be to the point they can with some work ... go back. Most posts i read on this site are from smart kind well thought people with opinions i agree and dis-agree with. But for some reason the "tone" is be them pro or against that it is a switch that happens over night or in a couple weeks. The guy that wrote the 12 month plan was not totally obviously incontinent at the end and honestly i think to some extent over stated his success... He still could go back and probably in half the time it took him to get that way less perhaps bed wetting. My guess is that even after 3+ years a person would not be obviously incontinent. Possibly one or several times a day they did not realize they started but not all the time every time. A persons retraining will most likely plateau and remain at that level for a long time before no possible way to go back to socially functional admittedly with some side effects possibly for a long time. The only way you could be irreversibly trained to be incontinent is if you managed to learn to ignore not just the urge to need to go and the urge to start/stop but the perception that it has even happened. It is not possible to willingly atrophy your sphincters or consciously sever nerves with just the power of your mind and with out those things happening it will never truly be permanent. People have woken from coma after 5+ years and regained total continence and their muscles did atrophy. It will just get very hard to recontinise yourself.
Look at the causes of medical incontinence. We can and do talk to people with almost every medical cause for incontinence on this site. There are only 2 root causes, Nerve damage and muscle damage. Damage in lots of different ways but fundamentally in one way or another damage. Even lesser forms of incontinence such as over active bladder and enlarged prostate not to make lite of those issues are forms of damage to the system that can not be caused by willpower alone. The most a person with all things working as intended can hope to achieve is week retention muscles due to lack of use and the willingness to allow them to get weaker and after time the willingness to ignore nerve messages alerting you to your body. No damage. And with out damage i just cant accept it as permanent. There will be people responding to this post saying "no i did it i cant go back". Even some that say they want to go back and cant. I say they cant easily go back and perhaps cant do it alone with out physical therapy...it wont be easy to loose that much control and there will be a point where it will be even harder to get back than it was to loose but possible.
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Unless it is your only option i would stay away. the side effects are a nasty and extraction seems frightful. Also these need to be monitored for years after insertion. Even 3 years later well after your body has grown around it they can migrate. The main reason i would stay away is for where they need to put it they need to use a long one i believe 3 or 5 mm. And pass your sphincter by at least .5mm each side. Both types have been known to unravel and this can cause bleeding and other very unpleasant things. Honestly if i were to the point that a doctor was considering this for long term (5+ years) i would just go with the sphincteroectomy. At least then once healed you dont need by annual checkups and the risk of bleeding and migration. Also as a side note if your thinking kids later might want to put a couple ice cubes in the fridge so to speak less you regret it later.
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ok i voted cloth because i like the feel better but 95% of the time i use disposable because out side of the house cloth is not particle for more than a couple hours less your so thick its crazy and you become a scene.
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In a relationship and she cant help but know as i use 24/7. Would be married but i dont believe in that. ...Although the tax incentives are appealing...
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When i am at home and not going anywhere or at night i use custom diapers from adulclothdiaper.com . They are expensive initially but worth it. Often ill even put some toddler prefolds in them as a booster ... usually 2 for the extra thickness when i am in the mood for a more submissive helplessness mood. Cloth feel totally different than disposable. To me when in cloth it is undeniable you are diapered and i like that. But to match the absorbency of disposables the thickness needs to be twice that of a disposable... so unless you only need a light diaper going out in public with cloth is asking for intentional exposure... and that is not cool.
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Good for you. I dont want to be normal. Normal sucks! What is with normal people anyway...."Hi im normal" so boring... Be unique be special be happy and be yourself.
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cancer killed my mother. And wile nobody deserves to die like that trying to shelter yourself from all things that are "bad for you" is imposable. You are giving up on living for longevity. And imo not worth it. Like new york for example... as of this spring they are banning smoking in out door public places. That is just insane. The difference in health risk from second hand smoke is only slightly... ever so slightly worse for you than breathing second hand air. I really hope they ban all that nasty second hand air its killing my fish.
I love giving oral sex. If it kills me than i guess ill die with more than a smile on my face
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only a doc can help you it could be just you being "hyper sensitive" or a simple urinary tract infection. Or an enlarged prostate or several other things. Wile this may not be comforting its probably not cancer but really go to a doc or youll never know.
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you can also buy locking plastic pants
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I hope you would notice the cold on your kibble before it froze. Unless your work (and sounds like the case) will both include long term exposure with limited chance to change i would not worry too much. Now if when you feel you should change you know you might not be able to for a long time. Then you could have a problem because shortly after you feel the cold you will go numb...
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makeup put on too heavy
doll
bib and baby food
Thats all i can think of off hand.
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perhaps try one made for adults you can find them several places. They say sleeping with one can stop snoring. But like others have said i would not do it all the time every night. On the other hand... it makes sense that it would mess up babies and toddlers teeth a lot more than an adult as their teeth are still growing.
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Paranoid? Maybe, but maybe they are out to get you! I hope not. I wish there was something we could do.
Just because you are paranoid does not mean they are not after you.
But to the op. Sorry to hear your sleep is so bad i hope your pain dies down soon. Sleep imo is one of the few pleasures in life you can get for free.
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Welcome Just relax and be kind and you will receive like in return. No need to elaborate yourself more than you feel you want too :0)