AlliR

Adult sized bibs would replace napkins in all the restaurants........ and I would love it!

I have to agree with PackRat's thinking. Putting out a picture that someone can recognize could be risky. I have a couple but like most people...no faces. If your personality isn't scoring friendships, I doubt your looks would change the situation much.

Day Of The Wanna-Bees But once a year, a day arrives where adults can (and often do) come out of their closet. People who wouldn’t dare expose themselves on any level to the public eye are suddenly transformed in their secret wish. For just this one day you see them commuting, working and socializing all in costume. Yes, gang. The Halloween train is coming down the track and will pull into the station right on schedule on October 31st. Things have sure changed. In the olden days, kids made their own costumes and blasted around the neighborhood collecting candy. Now, there are a bizillion stores including thrift shops selling costumes with their largest clients being adults. Over the last 10 years I have seen adults wearing things that would be publicly unacceptable anytime day or night but most accepted on Halloween. It is the day of the Wanna-Bees. <br class="Apple-interchange-newline">

Please accept a warm sunny welcome from California. Sharing and caring is what it's all about.

Hey pt, (Oops!) Guess you know about this board............ Great story. Keeps you wanting more of what's to come........ Cheers!

A long stroll always starts with the first step. WELCOME. I think your in the right place. I hope you feel that way too.

The very best spreader I ever saw is made by Bestfixsystems. It's in Germany and he has quite an assortment. Here's the rub. They are expensive but they really look good and can be locked on if desired. Good hunting.

I have used a different method for self bondage and it really works. I put myself either in a crib or a high chair. I am locked in so as not to be able to stand up or get out. The keys to my confinement were attached to a nylon cord and then placed in a plastic cup and secured to an electric rotissere motor shaft directly above me but out of reach. The open top of the cup facing upward. The motor was then plugged into an electric timer and I set whatever time I wanted the motor to start operating. When the motor gets the power, the shaft rotates slowly because it is a geared shaft. As the cup turns 180 degrees, the keys and cord fall out directly over me. The looped cord assures that the key is easily reachable even if the key drops away a bit. If your diapers are covered by overalls or a panty girdle or anything that requires you to get those off before you can get to your diapers, then only the arrival of the key will allow you release. In fairness, you also have to be aware of some possible issues. If the electricity gets interrupted, you will be on hold longer. Because it's self bondage if there is no one close by, you need to consider fires and earthquakes and severe weather as possible hazards. Safety first and then apply what you are comfortable with.

This is a real neat topic. Everybody has their favorite thing. Mine is locking leather hoods and bondage furniture. It's one thing to use but quite another to abuse. Any kind of pain is not on my radar when feeding my fetish.

jeremy12312 is right on target. You reap what you sew. Sharing is caring.

I think the segufix system is great but it is pricey. When I went to their sight and put all the stuff together I wanted (incl. euro conversion & shipping) it scared me off. I do however currently use a form of the ratchet straps that someone mentioned on here earlier. They are very versatile and work perfectly. I couple them with some of the Humane Restraint stuff.

The other posts are pretty accurate. I would only add that if you meet someone nice and are unsure as to their understanding of your fetish. Apply the information in small doses so that she can digest a little bit at a time. (Too much too soon turns out to shock and scare them.) Then you have to trust to luck that it is someone who can make the trip with you. Alli

I guess I'm the new kid on the block around here. I'm in Campbell. Am looking forward to joining the Bridge group in Oct. for their pizza munch. Alli

Wow! who could ask for more encouragement then this. Thank you for your input and suggestions. I will start getting around this site as best as I can. Again...many thanks. Alli

Hi Huggie, I will look for your posts and I'm sure I'll get back to you with sharing some of my own thoughts and experiences. I'm not sure I'm doing the e-mail correctly on this site yet. If it turns out that this is a public post instead of a private e-mail to you directly........I guess that means I need some help in that department. But I do want to say thank you for writing back a newbie like myself. I'm sure I'll get the hang of this site as I have the two others I'm part of. In regard to what I just mentioned, an hour ago I sent an e-mail saying I was in Northern California. I thought I was sending that one to you. Perhaps you did receive it but in getting around this site, I can't find a copy of what I wrote and to who anywhere. Sorry if I sound confused. Hope your having a great day. Alli

Hi There, Thanks for your warm greeting. My purpose getting on sites like this is to be able to make e-mail friends and share common interests. If it turns out to be a better friendship then that, it becomes a plus but not something I count on till it happens. I have a few questions that you might be able to help guide me with. As you are an administrator, I'm sure you know this site and others like it. I became a member of RUpadded and Diapermates. Reached out simply to say hello and start e-mail sharing. Nothing heavy. Just pretty common stuff with enough interest in asking these people about their opinions and experiences etc. After about 3-4 return mails, their side just drops off. I need to know if this is me. Perhaps I'm doing something wrong here. There is no chat traffic. Are these sites really being used only as an avenue for face to face meetings and sex? Is it my age or the fact that I'm not gay?. I was a member of DPF (way back when) and met many in the gay community. It was fine. Nice guys. I enjoyed their company. Through DPF I even met a nice guy with similar tastes to my own. He died from some respiratory illness. A shame. I'd like to meet others like him but so far from the other sites, it seems a dead end. As I wish to "fit in" with the membership, perhaps you can tell me from the inside what I should do and expect. Thanks for the "soft shoulder" Alli

I'm 61 years old. I've been into the D/L & B/D scene since I was 8 but didn't understand why I was loving this world until many years later. It really had me thinking I was the only one in the world who liked this sort of stuff because no one ever spoke about anything like that. That included family and friends alike. It wasn't till I was able to get into the adult bookstores that my love of diapers, baby stuff & furniture and bondage all started to make some sense but most important that I was NOT the only one in the world like that. In my humble beginnings with this fetish, there was no internet. Things have sure improved. I'm glad to be here and a part of this website.