I have never entirely stopped wetting my bed. I actually wet less as a child than I do now. I've seen doctors, psychologists, and a urologist and the consensus is that it's psychological. I have had insomnia, anxiety, and night terrors for most of my life and bedwetting is a instinctual "fight or flight" response to the stress and the fear that I have in my head. I don't wear every night, but if I go to bed upset, I will at least put on a pair of pull-ups. I often wake when I'm wetting and I'm unable to stop myself. This can happen multiple times each night, and its often directly timed/tied with dreams that I have. I used to change myself immediately and return to bed, but if I wear a larger diaper or pad I'm able to go back to sleep until I need to wake in the morning. I do wet during the day, but it's a very different, conscious act. I live with my family and they know that I wet, but they mostly respect my privacy. When they haven't, they have been somewhat insensitive about it, asking if there's a better solution. There isn't