Same here. Honestly life really is too short to always worry what others think. Just recently I've given up even trying to be discreet at my job and wear the baby print diapees there, sometimes for practical reasons because of the breaks being wayy too far apart for such bladders like mine (and sometimes bowels even). I wear them and I know people can hear the tapes being adjusted in the men's room when i put them on. I do get a kick out of it, because like the punk rock attitude I also believe in, It shakes them up some...and thats soo much fun For the record Bambinos are the best at this.