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DAQ

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  1. Ya, Bambino is pretty much ONLY worth it when they are on some sort of sale. Feels like Kohls now. Can only buy on "sale". What is more crazy to me about Bambino is their diapers are still "only" 5000 ml. That was amazing when they were released years ago but that is almost bottom of the barrel when it comes to premium diapers now at and around their case pricing.

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  2. 1 hour ago, danieltiger said:

    You had the surgery in Mexico at that place?  I would love to hear more about it.  Did they perform on just the external sphincter?  How do they do it?  Was it successful and permanent?  My fear is regaining continence somehow.  I want them to take it all out so I can never regain continence.  I would love to hear any info you have.  Unless something comes up to change my mind, I will do it as soon as I can (this year hopefully).

    I was looking on their website. I am am doing the same. Currently overweight (max BMI Of 35) so making that a goal and saving up my PTO to be able to take off.

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  3. Without passing a value judgment on anyone who consumes porn, I'll leave this here. Internet porn is more available, more quantity, and more tailored than ever before. Occasional porn use can be OK but porn addiction is a real thing and has actual health consequences. 

    and another one that can help illuminate the situation 

     

  4. This is my first time moving while diapered full time and also having significant quantities of littles gear. Ugh, what a pain. Wanting to keep things stashed away while needing to simultaneously keep everything readily available. But then also wanting to delittle my room before the movers get here.

    On the plus side, I am so freaking excited about having my own space/place for the first time in six years. Going to be wearing my littles gear I am sure for the forseable future, assuming I wear pants at all. That prospect also sounds amazing.

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  5. 7 hours ago, Hannah YMS said:

    So the TENS/EMS unit really did help you with relaxing your pelvic floor? Which unit did you buy (link please?) and how are you positioning the leads to relax your pelvic floor?

    To answer your question. Yes it has helped, but I don't want to sell it as some sort of silver bullet or panacea. I have been doing so many other things in the last 6 weeks that it is hard to tell which one is helping where. At worst I think that applying electro-stimulation to the various muscle groups in and around the pelvic floor and bladder has helped me create a stronger mind/muscle connection. Which leads into the body mindfulness exercises I have been doing lately. I will sit and meditate on the sensations of my body while keeping everything as relaxed as possible and try to feel every muscle and nerve. It sounds ironic to want that but, it has helped me be able to relax better. Conversely at best the TENS/EMS feels like a deep tissue message in and around muscles that I don't think you would want someone poking at or completely unable because of how deep they are. But the message I think has actually loosened up the muscles. As to the unit, I ended up with the following:

    Base setup

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07Q32KX3J?ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details&th=1

    Pelvic floor specific probe

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0768VFV5D?ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details&th=1

    And required adapter

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0759B5339?ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details&th=1

    And shocky shocky gel for better contact and less pain for pads and probe

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0837LN9X9?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details

     

    The probe placement is self explanatory I hope. I did, and still use the external pads either separately or in conjunction for different spots. I have used them on my lower back and hips to loosen up tension and stress that I store there and other times directly to areas in and around the pelvic floor. Some experimentation is probably best. I don't know how far they will travel but everything in between and usually the shallower muscles get stimulated the most.

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  6. So I just recently bought a TENS/EMS. I guess in theory you could get it to contract the bladder but hopelessly impractical. It would require surgical precision, literally. The leads would have to be implanted. I have tried with a lead on my perineum and another near the tail bone, and another time over the pubic mound. This didn't cause incontinence, but the message settings made relaxing my pelvic floor MUCH easier for a time. 

  7. 33 minutes ago, Loveable_guy said:

    A tens unit is the great for relaxing muscles. A tens unit will  normally force an involuntary orgasm for most males and with the right inserts females too.  But if you are looking for next level check out a real E-Stim Box. The Coyote from DG Labs (currently in redesign) will knock your socks off every time. Pricing for the Coyote kit was selling for about $130.00 USD. Yes I have one of each and use these often, more so the Coyote while using the Xtoys.app to control it. Lots of 'designed for it patterns' on Xtoys.

    Neither will force incontinence.

    I'll definitely take a look, thanks.

    I assumed that these wouldn't force incontinence but hoping by messaging and loosening the pelvic floor I can at least pee more freely and start seeing some actual progress. I started wearing 4 years ago and feel worse now some days than when I started.

  8. 3 hours ago, Little Sherri said:

    I've never tried one down there, but we own one that my wife uses when she gets a sore back. I've tried it - it's a bit like being tased at low voltage repeatedly in one spot. I don't find it very therapeutic, but, lots of people swear by them. If you're using it in "the area", ratchet the intensity up slowly, would be my advice... 

    I think part of the reason I am making little to no progress is a hypertonic pelvic floor that I have a hard time relaxing. I have found some that swear they have a relax function that I am hoping can make some mechanical headway.

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  9. 7 hours ago, I_am_Groot said:

    Ok, lets do some math 😝

    1 crate of BetterDry costs me 102.8, one such crate contains 4 packs, each pack has 15 diapers.

    But i also use boosters at night (Rearz), 1 pack costs 32.5 and contains 24 boosters.

    Based on a average use of 3 diapers and 1 booster per day comes straight out of my windows calculator:

    ((102.8 / (4 * 15) * 3) + (32.5 / 24 * 1)) * 365.25 / 12 = 197.66619791666666666666666666667 per month

    or 2’371.994375 per year

     

    Ok. But how many grams of cream do you use? How much is that per gram? And an inflationary CPU of 3.5% and your 1% cash back on credit card what is your effective cost/year?

  10. 16 hours ago, Alyeskabird said:

    So, if your looking at market share, probably around 5 percent, maybe a little higher, as there are indicators that a percentage of the incon group are abdl and using incon as a cover. and more incon people are buying into the abdl market, as the product is better.  Heck, the market for abdl style sleepers exploded into the general market a while back, and you had and still have a bunch of companys making footed pjs and even onsies for the general population. Add in the trend thats been going around of the general population starting to wear diapers to events, as finding bathrooms can be imposable, and it skews the numbers even more.

    I think you are in the ballpark. There are several medical companies now that A. Sell ABDL diapers or B. Openly ABDL aware. I imagine they wouldn't do that for any less than a potential 5-10% boost.

  11. I have shared in the past about how much I have struggled to achieve ANY progress in incontinence. I started wearing 24/7 even before COVID and working towards incontinence. In the subsequent three years I feel like I have made zero progress or in some cases maybe even regressed in my ability to relax and pee in a diaper.

    I had some renewed interest in hypnosis recently and in particular self hypnosis. In the past week I have really leaned into self hypnosis and made progress in being able to fall into trance and really embrace suggestions. And with that, I feel like I am making huge, months worth of progress in a few days.

    So what has changed. I think I should start where I was. Prior to the last week there have been nights that I have woken up with my bladder in intense pain from being overfull. I could not pee laying down so I had to get up just to pee and lay back down. There were times that I could not pee sitting down at all would have to stand to get any flow going. Just 9 days ago was a lunch with a friend and had to excuse myself to go to the bathroom.

    Which brings me to what has happened and where I am now. I can actually pee laying down almost all the time. I have been able to let go while sitting at my desk at work. I let go while standing and talking to my therapist. And my pelvic floor feels less tense overall. I think I am actually finding it relaxed more often than tense like it was not that long ago. So, still no incontinence but I think that I maybe able to cross a threshold in the next week if I continue with hypnosis or at least relax enough to start going more often and with less effort.

     

    Since I am sure I have piqued at least some of your interests, this is the video/methodology I have been using:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KauLbsG0_rM&list=PLyYVAE2ohxy2WHwwr-gtfIozwmVJY8H3w&index=7

    I would also like to mention that I was not some sort of super suggestible person in the past and had ZERO luck with hypnosis tapes. I also have ADHD and struggled to stay focused long enough to feel anything like a trance. Honestly I think giving myself suggestions in real time keeps that portion of my mind focused enough to enter trance.


    To anyone who comes down this route, good luck and see you on the other side!

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