quicktip

I very much appreciate the response and the long thought out descriptions. Five years is a lot more than I imagined it would take. It's hard to get a feeling for what is truthful over the internet where some claim a few weeks to a few months to a year or two etc. You really have no way of telling if they are honest or even wearing diapers as they claim to be. My experience is not the same as yours at the moment when it comes to sitting down to pee or in public. But so far I have yet to have any sort of accidents. Moreso just quick urges which I try to release as quickly as I can. I sometimes still get an scared bladder around others but I feel it's getting easier. Walking while wetting is impossible sadly. Night wetting is hard as I feel I wake up with a full bladder during the night so I'm not making progress there yet. Messing though has become a lot easier than the first month or two. But nothing reflex like, more like a big urge and I have to choose to go. Thanks for the input!

That's pretty neat I'm on my third and close to starting my fourth month 24/7. I'm amazed it took 5 years for you to experience what the 12 month program suggested would occur. Everyone is different for sure. I think mine lines up with the program so far, but I have yet to have automatic bowel experiences etc. Out of curiosity do you recall what it was like during the first year , second and so on? Like what sort of gradual changes you can remember? Would be neat to learn what I can expect to perhaps experience. I would of just read your previous comments but due to the forums losing a lot of data I have nothing to read but broken sentences.

Thank you fore the reply I only started down the same path last week. Was very hard to wet at work >.> Total mental game for me. And I find it impossible to wet while moving. Even sitting while wetting can be a challenge. Glad to hear of your success, but i'm surprised it took that long I read the 12 month guide and assumed it was much faster. Oh well, it's a life time thing anyway and I'm not stopping. Also, did you retain bowel control or is that gone as well? If you lost it, can you describe the feeling? And how has that affected you? Thanks! PS.. Any tips for a newbie?

How's progress going ? Sorry if you already posted about it. But it appears your thread comments were roved or missing.

Hey Mahleedl,

For those that have gone #2 either occasionally or frequently have you ever found a working internal deoderizer ? I eat clean drink plenty of water while enjoying an occasional cheat meal or day but I have never been able to find something to completely destroy the infernal odors my body produces. I've tried nullo, activated charcoal , spirulina , and a mixture of them over a brief period of a few weeks and have found everything to still be terrible although slightly less pungent . I'm curious if anyone has ever found anything which actually removed the odors completely or come very close to it withiut having to sacrifice meat. ( I say sacrifice meat as I read that a vegan diet removes the smell a lot more )

Hey Guys,

@mahleedl how are they absorbancy wise? Do they handle heavy wettings?

Just curious, if you wear in public how do you conceal the buldge or rear ? I find any sort of compression seems to effect the ability of the diaper to hold anything during a wetting. Thoughts ?

I guess a few..

Hey MDL,

Hi Mahleedl,

Hey Blake,

Hi Mahleedl,

Hey mahleedl,

Congratulations on your progress, I am happy that things are moving towards your goal. Question, are you experiencing involuntary release frequently or is it still completely voluntary ?

Hello Everyone,

Hello everyone,

Mate, Are you sure this is what you want in life? Think about A Wife and Kids? Think of a honeymoon, think of trips around the world. Think of all the amazing people you can meet. It's your life, I'm not telling you what to do. But as your brother I would want to love on ya mate because I do not believe the future is one to have. Do not let the fantasy become reality eh? You have you whole life ahead of you, are you positive it needs to be in diapers? You are Loved~ God bless!

Hello, I am currently looking for suggestions on good odor control products, like sprays or drops that you can use to better manage urine smells. I need something that does the job, but would not make you smell out of the ordinary to somebody else. Cheers, Quicktip

Hello Everyone, Title really has the question, I'm investing in a few cloth diapers and wondering if they make or have disposable diaper liners for cloth diapers. Similar to http://www.amazon.com/Kushies-Flushable-Biodegradable-Diaper-Liners/dp/B000V0QTMC Thanks

Hello All, I recently moved to Australia from the USA and have been looking for a good Diaper supplier online. I have yet to find one from just googling that has quality brands and decent prices. One I found only sells by the pack instead of cases. Looking for Abena/Molicaire/Dry 24/7 . Thanks (PS: I reside in WA)

Would that not defeat the purpose of becoming incontinent? Your supposed to go as soon as you get the urge, holding it is something that would be the exact opposite. Anyway, it's been a good read, wish you would post more frequently or open a blog. I would suggest purchasing some terry lined plastic pants, it will help you in the situations where your urine leaks from the diaper, no chance of it coming into your pants. http://www.babykins.com/Merchant2/merchant.mvc?Screen=PROD&Store_Code=B&Product_Code=21300TV6M&Category_Code=KTLWP (as an example) On the opposite note: You have the ability to do anything you set your mind to in life, whatever it may be. Your young and have a full life infront of you. Are you sure you want one day be stuck in diapers for the rest of your life? let me say that again. YOU CAN DO ANYTHING YOU WANT IN LIFE AND HAVE THE MEANS TO. Are you sure it's becoming incontinent that you want? You could be a world class hiker, sell hiking tours, do so much and more.. Free will brother, don't think I am telling you off either. Just love and respect. Hope you do what you truly feel is right. Love/God Bless On a side note, at one point in time I had decided to become incontinent for both bowels/bladder. I wore 24/7 for a full six months before I decided that I did not want to do this anymore. It took around a full month to retrain my bladder to hold it, and I felt like I was running to the restroom every 10-15 minutes (I was actually). I would seep urine into my boxers every so often, not a lot but enough to feel a wetness (this still happens every so often, to a lesser extent) Night time I would wake up 3-4 times in a single night and would have to rush to the restroom from a small amount of urine that felt like I was about to burst. It's been around a year since that time period and I have a reduced bladder capacity as you soon will if you keep going down this route. Do I regret my choices? Yes and No. I regret not putting enough thought into it, and should of waited till I was out of my twenties and more financially secure / having a full tile career before planning anything like this. Were at a young age where anything can happen, is it really worth doing this?

I would love to find some decent form fitting jeans/pants that are fitting for somebody who wears diapers. I have the fact that when I wear an Abena, it looks like I have a gigantic "Package". I know most people do not notice, but you cannot tell me people are not perceptive. It's sad that If I want something that works well with my clothing it has to be a lesser absorbent product. If you know of a website that sells clothing that helps "mask the buldge" and it's not designed for a grandfather over the age of 60, please let me know.

Starting last week I had a strange feeling while walking around, it felt as if my anus stretched or loose. Even while sitting I have a strange sensation down there like a hole is open. Obviously this is something that I have never experienced before and I'm wondering what it is. Is this a sign of me losing muscle mass down there? or has my body became so used to going whenever that it just stopped keeping it closed? I'm not really sure what is going on.