LilKidPants

I thoroughly disagree with that type of advice on the use of pads. I'm not incon, but I know people who are, I lurk on incon support sites but don't post out of respect (I doubt incon people would appreciate DL's invading their sites) and from what I can tell, a lot of people don't find successful treatments. Drugs have low success rates in that they often can reduce people's symptoms but not eliminate them. What good is it to go from having lots of accidents to half as many accidents? You'd still need a diaper, no? Of course any incon person should go get checked out, but from what I see, a lot of people eventually get sick and tired of never ending doctors appointments that subject them to humiliating and invasive tests. A huge percentage of urge incon from OAB, a cause cannot even be determined. Even when drugs work, they often have very bad side effects that a lot of people can't tolerate. I think a lot of medical sites and doctors try to discourage people from using diapers because of the stigma. But, if the patient has come to accept their condition and effectively manage it with diapers and they accept their need for diapers it seems to me that this type of advice only serves to make incon people feel even worse about themselves. It seems they directly contribute to the stigma. If i was incon, i'd try meds, wear protection while looking for a cure, but I wouldn't subject myself to invasive test after invasive test year in and year out just to please a doctor. If diapers work for someone and they are ok with wearing them, then that's all that matters, IMO. my 2 cents fwiw.

ya i love it. not just because I can wear diapers without anyone around but also because I can get so much done. No office distractions so I can blast through my work and then have more time to do chores errands etc around the house. I think I probably get more done in a day at home than in the office. Once a week is enough for me though as I like my co workers and socializing at work. I usually try to do the telecommute on monday's but I was on vaca last week so I didn't want to push it with wfh on the day i'm supposed to be back.

I agree with you there. I've noticed though that the longer i've been into this, the faster I get over the dislike of diapers after "you know what"....Sometimes I just put one on right after and within 5 minutes of fixing the last tape, I'm glad i'm back in a diaper. This set of desires (fetish, kink, lifestyle whatever you want to call it) is so damn weird, isn't it? Not weird in a bad way but just interesting i guess.

both for me. There's definately a sexual component, but it's also just that I love diapers. On days like today where I'm working from home, I'll wear a diaper all day and it's not sexual. To me, it just feels good to wear a diaper. I feel right when I'm in a diaper. Comfort security etc. I'd really like to go 24/7 permanently, but it's not really practical for me right now. I live with my brother and it's too hard to hide, plus I don't want to lie to my family and say i'm incontinent. I don't think it's fair to put them through that kind of worrying and concern over a lie. At some point though, I think I will end up in diapers on a permanent basis. I just enjoy wearing them too much. When/if I go 24/7 permanently, I may try to achieve some loss of bladder control but not to the extent that I'm truly diaper dependent and while i like to mess my diapers, i have absolutely no interest in losing bowel control. There's also the convenience factor. Stuck in traffic and have to go? No prob I'm if I'm wearing my toilet. Long bathroom lines? HA not for me I'll go in my pants thank you very much.... Also, I wet the bed due to wearing diapers to bed every night for over 2 years, so I actually have a need for them at night now. If I don't wear to bed, there's probably a 75% chance I'll wake up in a wet bed. If I go a few weeks without diapers I become 99% dry at night. I keep it on the cusp of truly losing night time control.

Do any of you guys have any kind of flex work schedule? I can telecommute one day a week, and this week, it's today. Guess who's wearing their abena x plus with an abri-let maxi booster all day? Yup this guy! I think I'll run some errands all thickly diapered as well. And no, I don't go pushing my fetish onto others. I keep my diapers covered but I'm pretty sure anyone could tell if they're looking when i'm rockin the abriform with the thick booster. Today is going to be a good day!

I'm a big fan or wearing in public. I do it all the time. As far as I can tell no one notices. I'll go out with an abena x plus with an abena maxi booster and i've never been found out as far as I can tell, and if anyone noticed, they never said anything. No strange looks or anything. I'm not incontinent (except at night as a result of a couple years of trained bedwetting), but when I do go out in public wearing a diaper, I kind of just pretend i am incontinent. I wear a thick diaper with a thick booster pad to guarantee against any leaks. I like using my diapers, so I want the maximum in protection against leaks as I think a leak is more embarrassing than someone potentially being able to tell I'm wearing diapers. I definately don't go too far out of my way to hide that I'm wearing, but I definately don't go around flaunting it and forcing it on others. One day a week I'm allowed to work from home, and that is always a diaper day for me. I'll go for my lunch break and coffee breaks in my thick diapers with only khaki style pants over them and I noticed that unless I'm in an extremeley quiet place there's no way anyone can hear the krinkle. The diapers are thick enough that I'm sure if someone was conciously looking to see if I'm wearing a diaper,they could tell, but I just don't think people really go out and try to spot adults wearing diapers. My eventual goal is to go 24/7, and like a truly incontinent person, hiding diapers is not always the easiest thing to do, so as practice now, I go out wearing the same type of diapers I'd wear if I was incontinent/the same kind I'll wear when i do go full 24/7. I try to keep it discreet, but i'm not going to go to extraordinary lenghts to hide it. If you can tell i'm wearing a diaper good for you, if you can't tell then good for me. If anyone ever asked me I'd probably just tell them it's not their business or if I was in a nicer mood I'd tell them i simply need them (which is true, maybe not medically, but I need diapers nontheless). I find diapers in public to be extremely convenient. No dealing with gross public bathrooms, no having to hold it uncomfortably when in line or stuck away from a toilet. The more you do it the more you realize that no one notices or cares, it has great convenience benefits, and you get more satisfaction out of knowing that the toddler in line with his mom ain't the only one in diapers in the room!

If you want to show your support and you're really not totally turned off by it, you could find out what kind of diapers he usually buys, and then buy a bag or case for him, some powder and wrap it all up in nice wrapping paper and leave it on his dresser. Give it to him as a gift. When he opens it he'll probably be immediately embarrassed, but just follow up with a big hug, tell him you accidentally saw his email, and wanted to understand his fetish. Tell him you're ok with it but have some questions of your own. If there's any aspect of it that you are just totally uncomfortable with, this would be the time for each of you to set reasonable boundaries. Remember, if you do show support and you really are genuinely supportive of this, you may be giving him license to wear diapers a lot more and around you. If you're not comfortable with that, you need to be clear about your concerns. You do sound supportive, so It seems like you two should be able to work out some very acceptable compromises. Keep in mind too, that this could really boost your sex life with added role play opportunities. Another benefit is that this will be a huge secret that that two of you share. Strong relationships are built on trust, and nothing demonstrates trust more than keeping an embarassing secret like this. Good luck.

how about those oval stickers people have that have an abbreviation for something. ABDL. keep it simple.

I lived overseas in ireland for 6 months. one no less than 3 seperate occaisions when walking home from the bar I pooped my pants when about a block or so from my flat. Genuine accident and not intentional at all. Each time I remember thinking gee I wish I was wearing a diaper! I don't have fecal incon, but I'd stop at this pizza place for a couple slices of late night drunk food, and I swear to God they must put laxitives or something in their pizza. Cleaning up a mess without a diaper is NOT fun!

I've been wearing to bed for almost 2 years. I became a real bed wetter after like 4 months. It probably won't happen that quick for you. You might have one or two accidents here and there, but as soon as you stop wearing a diaper to bed you'll regain control. Even after 2 years, If I stop wearing diapers for a few weeks, I dry up. I'd bed if I gave up diapers, I'd be completely dry at night within a month. If I stay in diapers, I'll wet 2-4 times a week without waking.

wellness briefs are really absorbent, but the plastic backing is incredibly thin, flimsy and cheap. Plus the green color is gross. But they swell up nice and one brief with no extra liner won't leak for overnight use just like abena xplus. To me, abena is the way to go. The only diaper i'll use.

so your wife is ok with you dropping a hot deuce in your diaper, not not pee? ok.

I live with my brother. He found my dirty diaper in the bottom drawer near my sink. I wear to bed every night and have become a bedwetter more or less. If I stop wearing diapers for long enough I'll wake up dry but I've not missed a night in about 5 month now so i wake up with a wet diaper 3 or more times a week(after taking a few months off but before that I wore without missing a night for over a year.). Anyway, he asked me about it. He said he went into my bathroom to see if I had an extra unused toothbrush for his GF and noticed the diapers. I told him that I've been having bedwetting problems and that i've been to the doctor. He let it go and never brought it up again.