Vamp, first I would like to say congratulation if you are becoming a new father. Parenthood is like anything in life, it has its ups and downs, however as a father of 5 I wouldn't trade it for the world. My first child came as a surprise and at a time that I would say that I wasn't ready for her, however things always work out when you put forth the effort to make them work. As for your diapers, you will just have to become discreet about them like so many others have had too. Having a child doesn't mean you have to give them up, it just means you can't be as free and open about them. Best of luck and again congrats to you and your wife!