[is anyone from iberia parish in Louisiana]

I’m in Natchitoches parish.  Happily married but always happy to chat and such.  Possibly meet new folks

[Recommend me a diaper]

6 hours ago, Firefly 35 said:

@blitz1027 I'd agree Megamax diapers might be a bit excessive.  They're also fairly bulky, especially when wet.  That being said, they are a great option if you need it.

Thanks for that.  Currently looking at Abena and the mega max diapers.  I’ve used Abena off and on over the years I need to make a decision 

[Recommend me a diaper]

30 minutes ago, ~Brian~ said:

@blitz1027

being IC myself, I recommend the Northshore Megamax in the proper size:  These diapers are TOP Notch, and are comfortable, so you should be able to release as much as you need during the day,  Since you may "dribble" throughout the day, I think that these will be Good for you - I use these as my daily diaper, and I have not been sorry. 

Good Luck!

Brian

 

Thanks so much.  Guess I’ll need to order some and give them a shot

[Recommend me a diaper]

4 hours ago, Little Christine said:

What you need or should want is up to you. I do not know the type of IC you have. Paper diapers, being cheaply made, must be made to meet specific needs, Thus what an AB finds good may not work for you. Therefore, you cannot successfully evade the need to do the evaluation, based on what you need or want and the specialized qualities of what is out there, of matching the two for yourself. For me, none of the paper diapers are any good Also, paper diapers, being one-shot (and given what is going on with plastic bags and straws, may make them subject to restrictive legislation, allowing their use only in medical settings pr wotjtje assostamce of medical personnel to deal with the disposal), cheaply made, therefore, cumulatively expensive, are apt to fail as they are complex items made of several components (backing, SAP, fluff, tapes, elastics, ect), any of which can fail as well as the joinery among them

In the end, it is up to you to figure out what qualities you need or want, and which model from which company meets those needs. Bowel IC is different from urinary IC.. Of unrinary IC flooding is different from drip IC. Of bowel IC, sokid-feces IC would be different fron "the runs" Full IC would be different from either. You have to see what is out there and make those judgements for yourself. What works for me (mon-IC) will not work for you. I know of no source that lists brand and model with their characteristics and what speific categories of IC they are best for. What I can tell you is get some good, appropriate rubber panties, You do NOT what to have a "vlowout" in public without some form of in-place containment. At any rate, this evaluation is a DIY project and , as Tolkien said "Advice is a dangerous gift, even from the wise to the wise, for all may yet go awry"

Thanks for the replies.  I can tell you I am urinary IC and just drip most of the time but have occasionally had instances of flooding.  I also have IBS and while I’m okay most of the time I do sometimes deal with bouts of sudden diarrhea.  So sudden that if I don’t find a restroom within about minutes, it’s going into the diaper.  
 

whatever I go with it’ll probably have to be disposable since a cloth diaper would be much too bulky under my clothes.  

[Recommend me a diaper]

Greetings all, I’m about to start a new job soon and I’m looking for a good diaper recommendation.  This new job will be an 8-10 hour shift with lots of walking, so I need a diaper that’ll hold up to several wettings Throughout the day and not clump up.  
 

so what do you guys think?

[Mommy wants ideas.]

Thanks for the ideas.  She’s thinking about what you guys have posted.  If anyone thinks of anything else please feel free to post

[Mommy wants ideas.]

Hey all.  My wife/mommy is looking for ideas for a potential 3 day weekend I’ll have around my birthday next month.  
 

We are discussing getting out of town for a few days and as such she wanted me to ask other mommies and daddies for some ideas on how to humiliate and potentially embarrass me as her little baby.  To help she wanted me to go ahead and let y’all know that she prefers my diapers to be pink and have girly prints on them 

[Body hair removal]

1 hour ago, Krinklefloof said:

I shave pretty much every other day. I recently purchased a cheapo IPL laser hair remover. Very easy/comfy to use. Will have to see if it actually helps any with reducing hair, though...

We are looking at something like that ourselves.  Can you link to the one you bought and what your experience is?

[Body hair removal]

24 minutes ago, diaperguy said:

I have used veet. It works great. But DO NOT leave on as long as they say. About 5 mins MAX. Get your skin as soft as you can before using and thourghly wash it off after. Lotion is your friend for awhile. A baby lotion will work. Keep the skin soft makes the hair easier to come through. Reduces ingrown hairs. 

Thanks for the tip.  I’ve used veet before but my wife doesn’t like the smell.

[Body hair removal]

41 minutes ago, sparklezBear said:

The only permanent way to remove the hair is to undergo electrolysis by a hair removal professional. It's costly, tedious, painful and time consuming, although the only effective method.

For other options, laser can dramatically thin the hair temporarily (for some people), and epilating can also thin hair out over time with consistent use.

Personally, as there's nobody to do this for me, I use an electric trimmer on a weekly basis to keep things as short as possible. This works well and only takes a few minutes, and it doesn't matter if I miss the odd hair here and there as it'll be done a week later. 

Thanks for the insight.  I’ve heard of electrolysis but I’ve got a few reservations about that.  First off cost, second would be lying there with my privates exposed while someone does it.  
 

ive tried shaving but it always ends up really itchy by the next day.  Thinner hair would be a step in the right direction as my body hair is incredibly thick.  The immediate concern is hair removal of the diaper area but the ultimate goal is to remove my stomach, chest and back hair as well

[Body hair removal]

Evening all.  Not sure if this is right place to post this or not so if it is the wrong area I apologize.  I am looking for a way to permanently remove body hair, especially in my diaper area.  
My wife wants to keep that area especially smooth to help with clean up and smell.

i have tried searching the forums but haven’t found anything.  So does anyone have any tips or methods?

[Walked in on during change.]

2 hours ago, NappyDave said:

I was walked in on once. I was in the family restroom a a mall. I was sure that i locked the door. I had my jeans of and was about to change a totaly soaked diaper when the door opend and a lady came in with a baby. I looked up just as she blurted out "oh my, he's wearing a diaper". She said it load enough that anyone out in the adjasent waiting area would have heard her. The worst part was that my obviously feminine panties were at my knees and i was wearing a garter belt and nylons. When i was finish and exited the room she was waiting. She looked at me, smiled and winked at me.

Wow, that’s rough.  Fortunately my mother in law didn’t mention it but i could tell there was definitely some questions going through her head.  I’d imagine the first of which would be why my diaper was covered in cute animal prints

[Walked in on during change.]

1 hour ago, lily~nyan said:

Best wishes for a speedy recovery. ❤️ I live next door in SE TX and was grateful not to have been impacted but feel terrible for the folks in SW LA.

You are very blessed.  In all honesty do are we though.  I’m up in north central Louisiana.  We’ve dealt with the dying gasps of hurricanes but never in my memory have we ever had an actual hurricane hit us.  The destruction is unreal.  Our home didn’t get any real damage that I can find but we lost power.  As of right now we are still without so we are now sitting in the house sweating and wishing the power would magically return before I have to go to work tomorrow 

[Walked in on during change.]

Thanks to the recent hurricane my wife and I had to evacuate and go stay at my mother in laws house.  She knows about my bladder issues and that i wear protection but still, it’s not something either of us have openly spoken about.

well, this morning my wife was changing my diaper and as she was putting me in a rearz Safari and to reduce the chances of having to change again for several hours she added a booster to my diaper.  just as my wife had grabbed the first tape to secure my diaper on, my mother in laws labradoodle (who learned how to open lever knob doors) opens the door to our room up and comes barreling inside with my mother in law right behind trying to grab him.  It all happened so fast but we were all red faced and blushing when she saw the sight of my lying on the bed with nothing but a diaper half taped on and my wife standing over me.

She didn’t linger and quickly grabbed the dog and closed the door behind her, apologizing as she left.  We were all embarrassed and other than apologizing again once we were all dressed and we didn’t mention it again.

[Here's it is! The world's first full graphic design for an adult cloth diaper!]

Love it.  You making just for yourself or to sell as well?

[Punish me]

Castor oil, double diapers and locking plastic panties.  Before the castor oil kicks in drive at least an hour from home and leave the keys to your Panties at home.  Enjoy being trapped.  
 

 

[Think they’ll ever make a good pull-up?]

I’ve been musing on this for a while now.  Does anyone think there will ever be a good ABDL pull-up?  I applaud Bambino’s attempt at it but in my opinion they just weren’t up to snuff.  I’d love to see a pull-up with an all over print design (multiple prints if possible), with thick and thirsty padding that won’t clump and a design that hugs your body All over.  

Thats the dream at least until someone figures out how to make one.

[Governesses]

My “mommy” does have a dominant side.  She is both loving and strict at the same time and that’s the way I prefer it.  She is currently enforcing diapers at night due to my increase in bedwetting frequency 

[Those who have trouble controlling your bowels, how often do you mess yourself?]

I have IBS and usually deal with almost constant constipation.  I usually have a bowel movement once or twice a week.  On occasion it can be even longer than that.  Sometimes it gets so bad either i or my wife will give me an enema to help give me some relief.  I prefer to void in the toilet as I hate being in a dirty diaper.  

Now all that being said I have on very rare occasions had accidents in my diaper.  Sudden diarrhea or ill squat down and it’ll all come rushing out.  When something like that happens I’m glad I’m in a diaper.

[My grandma put me in a diaper]

That does sound like something straight out of a fantasy.  If it’s true then maybe you should try asking her to let you diaper yourself and then show her you are diapered before bed.  Would that possibly appease her?

[Incontinence getting worse?]

Thanks for the advice.  I feel much better now but I do feel like I’m leaking worse than normal.  As such I am wearing more protection than I normally would.  

[Incontinence getting worse?]

10 hours ago, littleJaina said:

That sounds like it could be a prostate issue.  If it happens again,definitely see a doctor right away¡

I plan on it.  I was finally able to get some relief after a couple hours but wow, it was rough for a while.

[Incontinence getting worse?]

7 minutes ago, Dprczyone said:

I think that would be worth a trip to the doctor. May not be serious but I wouldn't take the chance.

If it continues i will.  The only thing really stopping me at the moment is that i work at the family business and we are short handed due to my mom recently having a major surgery.  So if I have to go to the doctor the store shuts down

[Incontinence getting worse?]

Hey all, i have been having bladder issues for 10+ years with some bowel issues in the form of IBS.  Over the last few months my bedwetting has been getting worse, I have gone from wetting the bed once or twice to a week to wetting almost every single night.  This morning while at work I had a new issue crop up that I don’t think I’ve ever experienced before.  While working with a customer I was hit with an extreme urge to urinate.  It was so bad that I thought i was going to wet myself in front of the customer (I am wearing protection but it’s really light).  Fortunately I held it until the customer left and I made a mad dash to the bathroom.  I sat in the toilet and for more than 5 minutes I sat there trying to pee but could barely get anything to come out.  It was just a small dribble occasionally.  I finally gave up and the urge has subsided but I can still feel it after more than 30 minutes.  

 

[Embarassing Stories? I'll go first]

I have more than a few instances myself but i think one of most recent situations I’ve had was after I got off work I went and did some shopping for some necessities.

  As I’m walking around grabbing the required items a powerful cramp comes over me (I have IBS and can sometimes go nearly a week without going number 2).  So I hurry and try to get the remaining items and get out of the store.  To my dismay I didn’t last long enough to even get to the back of the store before I filled my diaper uncontrollably.  It smelled really bad so I hurried to grab the remaining items and get out of the store before I offended too many people.  I tried avoiding most aisles where people were present as I didn’t want anyone to smell me.

once I got home I quickly got stripped my dirty diaper off and took a warm bath to clean up that disgusting feeling.  

 

There is a silver lining to this though.  Since I went out of my way to avoid other people in the store it took me a little longer to grab what I needed and as such I avoided a terrible wreck that happened only minutes before I arrived.  I gotta believe that if it hadn’t been for my accident I would have been in that wreck.