I give ALL the credit to CDB for the term and its meaning, but I have been thinking about it a lot lately and it is time to unify and properly identify the community we have. I will try to get his post referenced in here in a couple of days, but until then here is the low down and then my suggestion.
DAPI - Stands for Diapers, Age Play, Incontinence
It covers all who are in our community.
My suggestion would be to name it DIAPI "pronounced DYE-PEE"
Diapers, Infantilism, Age Play, Incontinence
The name would sound more like diaper instead of like dapper or "day-pee" or "day-pie"