[North Shore Booster Pads]

I use both the north shore and the abena booster pads.

[The baby/diaper equvalence theorem]

Keep up the good work!

[Most crinkly plastic pants]

I have a pair of the suprima crystal from b4ns

[The baby/diaper equvalence theorem]

DillPickle

I have often thought about the same thing,

[Why do partners not like diapers or AB things?]

I think the majority of spouses/partners, especially the older ones, are working their way thru several stages.

Much like survivors of horrific accidents, etc.

ABDL is not very mainstream, it is quite the unknown to most people.

if the spouse/partner is pretty "vanilla" or from a morally conservative upbringing, it will cause additional anxiety

For my spouse we have been thru Shock at the initial disclosure, Compassion for a brief while.

then Anger and Fear,

Which is where we are today, sort of a truce,

[The desire for Authenticity]

Interesting article

Thank you for sharing

[help please]

you are not alone with your wife,

[Wives who don't want to know.]

Its nice to know others are in the same boat.

[Wives who don't want to know.]

Yes it would be nice when the stress levels etc are high to be able to wear,

[Wives who don't want to know.]

My wife knows, but doesn't want anything to do with it. I don't wear around her so it makes it hard to satisfy the urges. I take advantage of any opportunity I have to wear.

Yes it really raises the stress levels.

[A/B what you want to C clothing]

As mentioned above simple sizing,

["Baby in my bed"]

Rosalie, don't loose faith, you have been a big help.

["Baby in my bed"]

gimme.gimme.gimme

[ETSY]

Any experience with pinksatin out of florida?

[ETSY]

Anyone have any experience with purchasing from ETSY

[Crinkle/Noise]

Attends with waistbands are very noisy,

[An Unusual Baby Panty]

I think they are intended to work like

[An Unusual Baby Panty]

I

[An Unusual Baby Panty]

The Suprima brand of pants are the best quality I have ever found. They last and stay soft.

[An Unusual Baby Panty]

B4NS has a suprima pant like that. I have a pair.

http://www.b4ns.com/index.php?PageType=Product&Supplier=Suprima&ProductLine=VinylPants&Product=S1209

[When You Told Your Spouse...]

Since my spouse discovered my situation..

[Does Life Stress have an effect on How often you Wear?]

YEs,

[Rubber Sheets: Babykins]

I saw protective sheets at target

[A Must Read Theres A Baby In My Bed]

I found out about the book from the thread "so my husband is a abdl"

Have been echatting with rosalie, been very informative.

check out the book.

[A Must Read Theres A Baby In My Bed]

I just finished reading "Theres a baby in my bed" by Rosalie Bent. This is a must read for all of us. While the main focus of the book is on building a parent/child relationship there are many parts that are applicable to any AB/DL etc. She covers virtually every aspect from why or what causes this behaviour, to what each partner can expect to how to grow the relationship. Its nice to have something that is not 'clinical" in its presentation. I purchased a ebook copy for under $8 at diesel books. I highly recommend it.