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Thanks for all the congratulations. It is pretty funny but I wasn't looking for this at all. I had gotten to a point in my life where I was pretty happy and content alone and then I kind of got swept off my feet, and not at all because I thought she would be accepting of my kinks but just based on a lot of other attractions that we have going on. Honestly I will pass all the congrats on to her. I didn't really have much to do with it, she is just really open minded and loves to try new things across the board. Thanks for the ideas, anyone know anything about the onesies or where the small bambinos may have gone?

I am a long time abdl member/reader and a very occasional poster. I had gotten to the point with this fetish that I was fine with my significant other not being involved in any way. In fact it has been almost a year since I have even messed around with any of it. I had completely let that idea go while looking for a partner when I realized that I had picked someone who was just horrible for me based mostly on how accepting she was of ABDL play. Recently a dating relationship turned serious and so I felt it important to tell her about the diaper fetish (I feel like people deserve to know the full story as soon as possible in relationships so they can decide if it is worth sticking out). Her initial response was something like "oh wow, that is nothing. Thank god it wasn't something serious". Now that she has had a few weeks to mull it over she has come back not only excited and a bit aroused by the idea of playing mommy but also very interested in switching roles, which I have no problem at all doing. So I said all of that to ask a few simple questions. What diapers have the smaller girls found comfortable/functional, she is tiny, maybe 5ft 5 between 110-115 lbs. I remembered bambino having a small size but I couldn't find it on their webpage. Same Question but with onesies and footed pjs. And finally what is a good site (U.S. preferred) with AB pacifiers and bottles? I tried digging around in links for a while but I got lot.

Does anyone know of a good place to order Kendall Supreme Maxi and/or Tena Slip Maxi by the case? I am in the US but international stores is fine. I have been able to find some kendall diapers but not the ones im looking for, this is what the packaging looks like

What kind of diapers are those in that pic?

Hello and welcome.

So after hearing so many ppl talk about it, I logged on to second life yesterday. This is insane. I mean its a game where you ... get a job and buy clothes and buy property and a house. There are brothels and gambling, classified listings for employment, you can take classes on learning how to make money in the game. I cant figure out if its fun or not yet, its mostly overwhelming. Anyone else given it a try?

Something that seems to be a recurring symptom of a lot of ab/dl's is that once they start to get into it/find someone willing to play along, they find that what used to satisfy them doesnt anymore. I could definitely see if someone let their desires go unchecked, they could find themselves desiring more and more of their sig other.

I know the internet is full of people acting out or faking things just begging for attention, but this is honestly eating me up! Why all of this, over and over I tell myself its ok, other people have desires that are different. Your not weird or crazy...but this fetish kills every relationship just a simple g/f or even a marriage!!! it destroys them, they dont understand it, they think you are fucked in the head, even after it seems they accept you, it never happens. people cannot accept something they dont understand and this is hard to understand and that lack of understanding eats relationships alive... all of them, even the ones you really want to work, and I am just so fed up and I am venting... I know this is lame, hopping on some messageboard acting like a 13 yr old who wants attention... but honestly WTF!!! why cant we just wake up tomorrow and be done with it, be done with being so hard on our significant others. Anyone who I get involved with has to bend their mind around a completely different concept of desires and whatever... why cant we just be fixed... where is the antidote, I would give anything for it. -sorry to be a whiny bitch, I just need someone to talk with and I know some of you will relate to how this feels.

I know I am a bit late on this one but I wanted to ring in. I am a straight male, but I find males attractive. Beautiful people are beautiful people, regardless of gender. Doesnt make me gay, one time I actually made out with one of my friends, we were pretty drunk and it was a great night of clubbing behind us, and it was fun! So anyway... It is a lot more common that you think, in fact if most men didnt sometimes fantasize about other men, then there wouldnt be so much hate towards homosexuals in the world. The people who hate them the most usually hate them because they have feelings towards that direction and they hate themselves.

It sounds like I am pretty close to the same place you were before you went to the group SoCal, and I will definitely look into your course of action. I relate to you a lot as well Vic, not to pick on you but that feeling that this desire has been "at the core" or that of all the things I would choose to define myself by, for some reason I would choose diapers, that in my mind mandated some serious investigation. I also remember this going way way back... which most likely applies to the vast majority of us in this community for pretty obvious reasons. It was my first memory as well. In my childhood I am sure I had a lot of amazing experiences, some traumatic ones, but why would my mind choose a longing for diapers to be the first permanent impression in my mind. This choice was made at an age where I didnt have a lot of say in what I felt and today if I felt like this fetish was something that I am actively choosing, then I dont think I would have any hang-ups about it. It isnt the "acceptance" point I am struggling with here. I know a lot of you may see red flags going up all over my post that I have not accepted this about myself, but for the most part I have. What I am unwilling to accept is the amount of control this fetish would or could have over my life if I were to allow it. That is when the signals go off in my head. For me anyway, I think I am starting to see this for what it is and I prefer to manage this as opposed to giving in to it. Thats not to say I will be permanently shelving the diapers by any means, just trying to create a balance. So thanks for the advice, especially SoCal.

I had always known that diapers turned me on, ever since I was little. As an adult I have freely been able to act on these desires, but it seems like these desires keep leading me further into this and I dont know that I am willing to follow... all the way. Let me try to clear that up. When I first started this I had no desire to actually be treated like a baby, I just liked wearing diapers and wetting them... it was a blast, but it is like the feeling or state that I am after keeps drifting further and further away... next came bottles, or binkies... now a bit of roleplay with my wife. It seems that every step I take the feeling seems to take one step further back, and while I am not knocking anyone's choice as to how they want to live their life... doing the full-time baby thing or even fully regressing is just not something that I want to do and more importantly it is not something I want to put my wife through, but it seems that this is where that feeling that used to be so easy to attain, is now residing. I said all of that to ask this, has anyone else experienced a constant push for more with this fetish? After a lot of thought regarding this it seems that... in me atleast, this diaper fetish is showing the signs of an addiction, never satisfied, always asking for more before it grants that state of bliss. It is nowhere near dominating my life, its a few times a week thing at most, the frequency is not what scares me. It is the constant need for more. Anyone else out there feeling or felt a bit like this? EDIT This probably should have gone in general if any mods are willing to move it.

Used to every now and then. Current significant other however, just doesnt get it. Its really irritating and is probably going to cause the demise of the relationship