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  1. So I have a quick question,

    Is it fair to compromise to have him wear alone? I have no problem with it when it's not done with me, is it fair to ask that he respects me and does it on his own time?

    I think that depends on the person and the relationship. Your boyfriend might be quite willing to compromise and he might think that's very fair. Personally I wouldn't like that proposition but that's because for me it's solely a bedroom thing and that's really the only time I partake. When I was younger I wore a lot more now it's really rare and I prefer it for bedroom activity. I suggest you ask your boyfriend what he thinks and keep the communication lines open. I think some questions you have for people on here are also appropriate to ask your boyfriend. You two seem like you have a good relationship and you seem like a very good, understanding individual. I wish you the best.

  2. One thing that I learned a long time ago is that in the overall scheme of things, nobody really cares. If someone does make an issue of something,(ie: wearing diapers) the public has a short memory and they soon go back to not caring. Think about the high profile cases of accusations of diaper wearing and/or Adult baby play such as the senator who allegedly frequented hookers who claimed to have put him in diapers, but won re-election the next time around. Either his constituents didn't remember, or they didn't care. If they don't care about a senator, do you think they really care what you are wearing as underwear? As long as you are not blantantly, in-your-face, force feeding your fetish to your neighbors, they really don't care.

    So relax, enjoy what you do, keep a low profile, and don't worry about what everyone thinks, because they really don't think, and don't care.

    lol @ David Vitter. I'm not sure if he was actually put in diapers by a hooker I have a hunch that was just a rumor. Regardless that was a bad scandal and he's lucky that Louisiana is so used to having corrupt public officials he was able to get re-elected. Otherwise you're right it doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things what anyone does in their own private lives even if some fruit loops that make headlines and make places like this look bad. The worst thing about it is if you're trying to meet someone to share your life with and getting them to accommodate this part of you. If they read anything about these creeps that keep going to jail it never helps.

  3. Thanks for the perspectives and ideas to those who contributed good advice. I have been able to get to know this girl and just talking to her and getting to know her better. I think things will go more smoothly this time since we'll be more comfortable and we'll know each other better. I'm also abstaining from all sex activities for a few days it will be worth it when the time comes to go back to the bedroom.

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  4. Last weekend I was fortunate enough to meet up with a girl that I met on the internet who is a mommy. She babied me,mommied me, cleaned me up, diapered me,etc. I got everything I wanted that in the past has turned me on. It should have been a time where I was completely satisfied as all of my sexual fantasies were taken care of. The catch is that it wasn't. I basically had no libido, she tried even tried to give me a hand but nothing happened. I felt like an old man that should have been in a viagra commercial. I had fun but I wasn't feeling anything. As a result I'm afraid I've developed a complex in my mind which is now causing anxiety and now I don't know what to do because I need this to stop. I'm also trying to wean myself off of SSRI's which could also be a culprit and I think that will help. My question is has anyone been through this kind of anxiety before and if so how do you make it go away?

  5. My former boss has three children, two daughters and one son. The son is the middle child and also the last one out of diapers. My ex-boss never punished his son or humiliated him or made an example of him for still wearing diapers. His son was diapered both day and night up to the age of four and a half. His son was ready then and grew out of his need to be diapered. He is now a perfectly well adjusted kid of ten years, active in sports and getting good grades. It sure sounds like a better success story than trying to force a child to conform, now doesn't it?

    I think that's how parents should be handling the process in my opinion. Although I was treated the exact same way and eventually I grew out of physically needing to wear diapers but emotionally I was not. I still remember when I was about five and I no longer wet the bed and toilet trained not too long before that. I still remember not long after I was out of them fulltime asking my mom to buy me pullups. She never said no but she never bought them, ignored the request from what I imagine. I clearly remember being hurt and disappointed so I didn't make that up years later but I never voiced my opinion on the matter at the time either out of shame. For some reason although I was really late for a kid toilet training I was never emotionally ready to leave diapers and I guess I'm still not and I doubt I will ever know why that is the case for me.

  6. How old is this ad? I sure would've loved to have been one of these little girls still wearing diapers or at least for a print ad anyway. There are daycare/preschools that don't require the children to be potty trained in order to attend. Some will help you potty train your child. We have one 4 year old at church that was put in with the toddlers because he's not potty trained yet. It turns out that he's autistic and he's not very verbal. He never tells you if he wet his diaper or pull ups. I never changed him because he was too heavy for me to lift up to the changing table and two he'd be too big for it anyway. They let him join other kids his age down the street upon condition that his mom comes to change him if he messes his diaper or pull ups. They're strictly no diapers down the street at children's church. I feel a school or daycare telling a parent no diapers then this discriminates against children with disabilities who aren't potty trained yet or may never be able to be potty trained.

    I wonder how old this ad is myself since this little girl looks quite old to have still been diapered. She looks to be around 4 or 5 and the sizes that pampers was advertising looked to be for kids that were that age at least. I was toilet trained at that age myself and I wonder if that was the average age that kids trained at. It may be possible if the kids trained at later ages maybe they would have been nicer to the boy you described?

  7. I personally would rather be on the receiving end but I would change a girl if she wanted me to. The OP is right for some reason and I don't know why I find the monthly cycle to be more gross, most likely because as a male I don't have to deal with it. Nonetheless I would deal with it if I were with a lady that scratched my back so to speak.

  8. ok how is being aroused by diapers etc... a sexual problem? are people who are only aroused when dominated suffering from a sexual problem? are people who are just not into receiving oral sex suffering from a sexual problem? EVERYONE has sexual preferences.... yours relate to diapers... thats not a sexual problem.

    not sure why something traumatic had to obviously happen for you to want to wear diapers... perhaps you just remember the feelings of being cared for? or the fact that even toddlers can feel pleasure when their genitals are touched? no they don't get hardons or orgasm... but its still pleasurable.. maybe you remember this pleasure and associated it with the diapers.... it doesn't always have to be something traumatic.

    diapermates.com, fetlife.com, diaperspace.com, alt.com, all places where women who like to wear diapers, or who like men in diapers.. can be found.

    Thank You Sarah you have enlightened me once again with your wisdom. I would love to meet someone online that has this in common with me but there aren't many where I live. I may have to move to a place with more people but hopefully someday I'll meet someone like you and others here.

  9. I'm just wondering if anyone has ever become emotionally overwhelmed by their diaper fetish? I myself rarely ever wear diapers anymore. I used to when I was younger but to me it's so old now because I'm alone when I do it and that is no fun for me. However even though the fetish is not a lifestyle for me and never will be I don't think it is very much a part of me as it has been since I was younger. It is purely a sexual kink of mine. I have a lot of trouble orgasiming without thinking about or seeing women in diapers and using them or myself when I was younger. This overwhelms me because in a way it not only disgusts me but it makes me depressed because I fear about what will happen if I meet a girl I really like that I may want to marry. Who would want to marry someone with a sexual problem like I do is what I think?

    I've hooked up with other women before but to me it is very vanilla and ultimately not as memorable as I'd like it to be. I'm considering seeing a professional to deal with this problem. I was old for a child around 4 or 5 when I originally got out of diapers and I remember wearing and ultimately getting out of them. Something traumatic obviously happened to me in that regard even though I had a great childhood and had good parents. I had and have a great relationship with my mom and perhaps it is possible something happened that caused a maladaptive relationship with her and when I finally had to give up diapers I don't remember being too upset although I'm a bit hazy since it was so many years ago. I asked for her to get me more not too long after I stopped bedwetting but she never did. Maybe this was what caused trauma or some sort of feeling of being touched that leaked into my subconscious?

    I really don't know and I'm not sure if I ever will. All I know is that I got the desire to wear them again when I was 8 and I went out and bought them and that was that. It's odd to me that I was never able to let go of that stage of childhood because I remember using a pacifier as well and then it just disappeared and I never cared at all and still don't. I don't understand that aspect. Anyway I was wondering if anyone else ever went through the something similar and if anyone saw a professional about it? I'm just curious because it would honestly be nice to be able to put this whole thing behind me and not have to rely on this for sexual gratification anymore or find a girl that is into this but I find that unlikely.

  10. I've never worn them so I can't hate them. When I was little I was in disposables and when I bought my own they were disposable. I didn't have the luxury of washing them when growing up because I had to hide them so I just decided it would be better if I could just throw them away.

  11. Grow it. Tax it. Enjoy it. Save billions on law enforcement.

    It is a win-win situation!

    Yes California has the right idea and so do you. This is a wonderful example in our great country of the idea of Federalism and true conservative libertarianism taking place. The idea that the government can prohibit you from putting a type of food or substance into your own body to me sounds incredibly intrusive and immoral. Not only that but it's impossible to enforce and it's a drain on the budget of the country or state. That's my opinion and I'm sticking with it lol. Legalize Marijuana!

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  12. hahah nair!!! dude whatever you do NEVER EVER EVER USE NAIR IN YOUR PUBIC REGION!!!

    i mean seriously not only does it say it right there... but its basically a chemical burn... you essentially you would be BURNING YOUR GENITALS!!! just don't do it...

    This is most definitely true. I'm just glad I've never had a nair experience in the wrong areas.

  13. There aren't enough women on here for this to be a dating site. In fact I've talked to a few women on here that were actually put off by the aspect of wearing diapers for fun or a fetish. They were here for incontinence support because they or their husbands suffered from it. What's funny is they generally still chose to continue posting in the main sections of the site lol.

  14. a moon up is litterally a half moon like cup that u put in your vag to collect your blood.... ew!

    i knew this girl who used to paint with her menstral blood... i never accepted any artwork from her...

    OMG this has to be the nastiest two sentences I've ever read! Lol kind of funny but more or less disturbing.

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