cousabdl

I am in Indianapolis myself...

I am amazed by all the diverse jobs that people have...so here is mine to add to the list. I am currently the director of information systems for a large insurance company as well as consulting work on the side.

I think there are many "diaper girls" out there that are basically "in the closet" because they have to deal with what you mentioned on a daily basis... Even though I am guy, If that happened to me I would be the exact same and not talk to others about it. I would still be involved with it as I am sure many girls are, but I would not be online as much because of the stupid comments and emails.

Willow, I couldn't agree with you more. I personally came to these forums to learn how people live and react with others regarding diapers. It bothers me that some people are so caught up in the sexual aspect that is all they will focus on and not having a solid relationship or conversation. I have noticed this not just with diapers, but many other aspects of dating as well. I am happily engaged and my fiancé and I decided to take sex out of our relationship until marriage for a few reasons. We are religious and that does play part, even though we did when we first started dating, which brings me into my second part... I used to be (5-6 years ago) the same person that people are talking about in this thread wanting sex with my fetishes driving people away because of them. Respect others and good things will happen. I am not saying that the other person will have a desire for diapers but something really good may come out of it. If they want to participate great...who knows they may end up liking it, but if not, just respect the person for who they are and don't try to change them (no pun intended) If meeting another DL, don't just assume sex, sex, sex... Many wear diapers without any ounce of sexual pleasure involved...more for comfort and security. It all comes down to respecting others and putting personal urges or desires aside.

Nice...saw that the other day...you beat me to posting it

First I wanted to say hi to everyone...just signed up and it is great to have others experience the same as me. On to my question... My fiance and I have been dating for almost 3 years and I have recently started wearing diapers again. I have always liked them since I was little and used to tape 2 baby diapers together to make one bigger one... She however doesn't know about them, even though I wear them to bed at night. How I can I break it to her that I like to wear them? There is nothing sexual involved with them as I do it for comfort mostly. I can't say hey lets try some unusual sexual stuff so-to-speak as we agreed not to have sex until after we are married, as both of us are pretty religious. We decided to grow our relationship emotionally more than physical so bring the sexual aspect of diapers into this probably won't work as I said before for me they are nothing sexual. Has anyone else gone through this with much success? She is a pretty open and outgoing person, but I guess I am quite nervous...