Hehe I was going to say, the same thing but stork beat me to it.
Guys the reason that there are so few women that post here is because of this stuff. I mean it seams that as soon as a girl in her 20s comes to one of these sites and says she might be looking for some one, or even if she doesn’t. She gets spammed and hounded with guys who just want to take the easy way out, witch is this.
If you really want to go and get a mate go out, ask a nice girl out (scary, I know, but you can do it). And on the first or second date come right out and say, if there’s ever going to be something between us this is who I am and what I like. Trust me this is a lot better then posting like this.
I have done this with all my past girlfriends. and for the most part it worked out fine after a little bit of talking, and it gets easier to tell them after you do it one or two times. I say past also because I really can’t stand the idea of settling down with anyone.