boomer2480

I was born with a neurogenic bladder and have always been in diapers for over sixty years. In school I was never bullied because all the kids knew it would end up in a fight but I was constantly made fun of and teased for the diapers. I probably hold the record for suspensions from school as I was always fighting with someone because they made a smart remark or was teasing me. My mom would act as if the world had ended every time I was sent home and she would tell dad to have a talk with me. As soon as she was out of hearing range he would tell me to keep knocking there blocks off if they gave me trouble but not to tell mom he told me that. My parents treated by inco problems and the diapers as though it was no big deal and that supportive home life got me through some tough times. A while back I responded to a posting about bambino and bianco diapers and how so many members would like to have a baby powder scent added to them and I said that I would like to see the biancos left alone because I try to be discreet about having to wear protection and didn't want the odor to draw attention. It seems as a few took offense to that as though I was anti AB/DL. It was not my intention to offend anyone and I have no problems what so ever with the AB/DL crowd and that I wished that I had been one because I believe as it would have made it a heck of lot easier growing up.

I have nothing against ab/dl's, like I said I wish I had been into it as it would have made it much easier growing up as a kid. All I'm asking is to leave the Bianco diapers unscented so they won't draw attention when worn in public, I don't have the choice of when to wear a diaper and I try to be as discreet as possible.

Snug during the day and loose at night

I am a life long urinary incontinent and in my sixties. First lets just say it's a pain in the butt. Imagine the only time you don't have a diaper on is when your sitting on the pot for a number two or in the shower. It's hotter then blue blazes and you dying from heat rash caused from the diapers with the itching and burning driving you nuts but you can't escape or get any relief by going without a diaper for a while. You have to lug a bag with changes in it with you every where you go and dodge the inevitable questions about whats in it. If you use cloth diapers at night like I do there is the constant laundry to do. You only wear black or dark colored pants so that if you spring a leak it won't show as bad and trust me you will have leaks regardless of how careful you are. You go broke buying diapers by the case and at around a seventy to one hundred dollars a pop and with having to change three or four times a day it adds up real fast. At some point you get worn out with the diapers and decide to try caths, After a year or so of constantly cathing every day the scar tissue builds up in your urethra so bad that the pain and bleeding become unbearable not to mention the UTI's that really kick your butt so it's back to diapers. And thats just with bladder control issues, imagine if you have bowel problems also. I your a DL and wish to be inco then think about it some more because it's not going to be like you think it is.

Well the thing is the manufactures say one thing and you get something else. There are some brands that the mediums are not much smaller then the large and others where the difference is huge. I am shipped three cases at a time and like I said I could use a little more room but I don't want to get stuck with three cases of large and find they are way too big. I was just wondering if any one had personnel experience with them and could tell me if the difference is a little or a lot.

Anyone know how much size deffrence there is between medium wings classics and the large size?

Got the 24/7 samples, Here is my take on them. On the plus side they are absolutely noiseless and they have good leak guards plus a good amount of absorbency. They are comfortable except for one thing that I will go into next. They have good tapes. Fit is good and Good plastic backing. On the negative side is they are rather snug fitting, I am a 39 waist and the mediums just do fit. I also ordered large so I will give them a try next. One thing I don't like about them is they tend to form a wad of filler material right were you sit on them and it is somewhat uncomfortable. Over all I would give them a 7 out of 10 score.

You might want to think that through a little more. Do you have any idea what it would be like to decide you don't feel like wearing a diaper today but have no choice? I have never had a diaper free day except for when I have been in the hospital and cathed. Although it's been 61 years and I never give the diapers much thought I would love spend just one day with control of my bladder.