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A couple of notes. 1: Absinthe is overrated. It was illegal in the U.S. for a long time, now it's not. I have tried Absinthe on several different occasions, and tripped none. It just tastes like liquid licorice. If you like licorice, go with Absinthe. If you hate licorice, go drink something else. Drink to get drunk, do a drug to trip. Don't drink a lot of a drink in the hopes of maybe tripping. 2: Before you plan on getting "smashed", you need to first drink a bit so you know about when the different levels of drunk are for you. Even one night of casual drinking is better than never drinking at all. Just make sure you have at least one sober person who will be able to take care of you in the event you decide to get wasted. Sure, plenty of us have good stories about just going out and getting completely smashed on our birthdays our first time drinking. There are also plenty of people who will tell you about how they don't remember their birthday, or spent the night in jail after being arrested, or spent the next day in jail after something worse happening to them. You can get smashed out of your mind and still be smart. You can be stupid and get smashed your first time without taking any precautions, but there is a risk. 3. Drink all the liquor you want to drink for the evening before drinking beer. You will thank me in the morning. If you forget, remember this helpful rhyme, "Beer before liquor, never sicker. Liquor before beer, never fear." Whatever you do, be safe and have fun.

I can't believe Bush got re-elected!

Please don't respond to this, as I will be leaving this thread in lieu of absence of a doctorate; however, I was unaware I needed to obtain a P.h.d. in Psychiatry before using simple knowledge of people I have gained working with psychologists. Of course it isn't always the case that person who has condition A has always had Condition B. However, if psychologists didn't have general rules of thumb regarding certain situations, noone would ever need to see a Psychiatrists, because no psychiatrist would have any idea where to start! I learned this early on in my abnormal psychology course; granted, the psychiatrists I speak of only had P.h.ds in Psychology, not Psychiatry, so I guess I'll have to rule them out. One of them only had a Master's, so I suppose I need to tell him he has no right to make any medical claims. I also never made any claims, I just made it a point of wonder. Doctor's never run any sort of test without first making a hypothesis on what might be causing the issue. Do I need to request that multiple medical tests be run on him before I can wonder? If so, none of us should be wondering or giving anyone on this site any advice, since wonders are claims, and claims can only be done by psychologists. But do I need a phD to make that claim as well? You need a doctorate to make a post?! Ayiyi! Life is so complicated! I never said everyone who likes sex with their "mommy" or "daddy" has deeper issues, nor did I say people who are dom/sub have deeper issues. I did, however, suggest that there is probably a deeper reason why someone has a strong desire to pretend to be a Baby who is being molested against their will by an abusive parent. I'm not claiming something is, in fact, mentally wrong with the person, but it is silly to suggest there is probably not an underlying reason, even subconsciously. Homosexuality, transexualism, perhaps you can be born with. Being an AB who prefers to be molested by someone who is pretending to be an abusive parent, I might have to disagree. My argument is what it is. Please don't make my argument into something simple and stupid ("an ab who likes it when their daddy or mommy has sex with them while they are in ab mode must have deeper issues") just so it is easy to trump. That means I have to come in here to restate myself. And I would rather be eating pie. By the way, I love everyone. Except for Bill.

I honestly don't care if the story continues at all. All I'm saying is I am worried about how gullible some people are. Like I said, just remember the following things: If a Nigerian prince sends you an e-mail claiming that he is going to give you a LOT of money in exchange for sending him a small transfer fee, he is lying to you. If someone sends you a link saying "Hey! I found the cutest video of you here!", it is not a link you should click. If you see a commercial/website advertising that you can make a load of money working from home, it's a scam. Penis enlargement/Hair Growth products are a sham. Smilin' Bob is lying to you. Check Snopes anytime anyone tells you ANYTHING. And last but not least, remember the following phrase: "Pictures, or it didn't happen." I'm gonna step out of this one. Wank one out for me around the time when CG and/or GF force him to mess in his diapers. I always like that part of the stories the best.

The desire for diapers is a result of something, or perhaps a combination of somethings, that happened through the course of your life. Noone is "born" an infantilist. Unlike sexuality, which you could theoretically be "born" with, diapers are a simple, manufactured object. Noone is "born" attracted to diapers any more than people are "born" attracted to paper planes. As Tommy said long ago on America's favorite talk show, there are virtually no members on these sites from developing countries who don't use diapers. That said, because of the close proximity to diapers in the early stages of your life, I'd wager a bet to say most of the reason we are what we are had to do with something happening during our early childhood development. For me (and I know this scenario is actually not completely rare in the AB/DL community), my mother put me in a diaper around age 6 because I was "acting like a baby." Innocent on her part, however I remember when I was 8 or 9 looking back on that with fondness. Although my situation isn't the same as everyone's (I'd recommend reading the essay "Understanding Infantilism", a quick search on google should be able to find it), many of us share a common thread in that it was a desire to wear diapers and/or be treated like babies even before we hit puberty. That is what makes it a "lifestyle" rather than another simple sexual fetish. It is part of who we are. Just like people who are gay, this is simply something about your life that has somehow become what you are. And like our gay friends, denying who you are, or going to therapy trying to change who you are, will not bring you anything but pain and confusion. You don't have to dive into the ocean like some in the community who have become "24/7" babies and find yourself a "mommy" or a "daddy"; many of us just wear diapers every now and then, if at all, and some don't even like being treated like babies. The only thing that is important is, if you deny yourself what you really want inside, there will be a part of you that will never be happy.

Point 1: Whatever two consenting adults do behind closed doors is their business. Point 2: Although it is your business, I have to wonder, with wanting to get molested by an adult while you pretend you are a baby, if there aren't a couple deeper issues that need to be addressed. Usually all fetishes point back to an underlying cause; therefore, it makes me curious where yours comes from.

I think Bettypooh touched on something big at the end. The biggest fear most people have (which is the reason some people, especially teens) use trashbags and crap like that for diapers is that they have some scenario worked up in their head at the checkout counter: You: This is all I'm buying (hands over diapers) Checkout Lady: Ewwww you like wearing diapers? When actually, the scenario is like this: You: This is all I'm buying (hands over diapers) Checkout Lady: Cash or credit? People buy diapers all the time. From the incontinent to people buying diapers for their grandparents, diapers get bought all the time (otherwise, the drugstores wouldn't keep them in stock). That checkout lady has had enough people buying combination purchases of whipped cream, chocolate sauce, nuts, cherries, condoms, enemas, and KY Jelly to waste any time giving your innocent diaper purchase an ounce of thought. Even if she did, what is it to you?

I ordered over $50 worth of supplies from ABU. After being charged for my purchase, I waited a month for the items to arrive. I spent a week trying to e-mail them, none of my e-mails were returned. The same week I was e-mailing them, I called each morning and afternoon at their office. It always went to voicemail. I left over 10 messages over the course of two weeks giving my contact information and asking them to contact me about my order. I got no response. I finally had to go to Bank of America and explain the entire situation to them, diapers and all, so I could file a claim. It was embarassing. 2-3 weeks after THAT, I finally got my package in the mail. Like I said, I ordered 3 packages, and one of them was the wrong size. But I wasn't going to give another 2 months of my life trying to get THAT fixed. The shipping date on the package was Between March 15 and March 20 (They charged my card one of the first days of Febuary). About a week later, I got a notice in the mail that my claim had been denied because they had shipped the package, the claim had attatched shipping information that proved they had shipped my item. Guess when the date was that ABU received the claim? That's right. Between March 15 and March 20. Dozens of e-mails and phone calls at all hours and all days of the week wasn't enough. It took me going into Bank of America and talking with a representative in person (as well as another representative on the phone) abaout diapers. Humiliating, and on TOP of that, the diapers weren't even worth it! Bottom line, avoid ABU like the plague. They have screwed me over, and have screwed many others over in the past. They either don't care about their customers, or are at the very least incompetent in customer service. There are plenty of better places out there to get you what you need.

Methinks someone is not 18...

Give Yourself Goosebumps was the best.

*flips to page 159* Finally arriving at CG's house... we exited the car, and she showed me inside. She turned to me and gave me an evil grin. Me: Uh... what are we doing? CG: You'll see... Leading me downstairs to the basement, I suddenly heard a loud CLANG behind me. An iron door had slammed shut! Looking around, I saw a bunch of men of various sizes in diapers, chained to the wall. Me: What's going on?! Without warning, two girls jumped out from the shadows. One I noticed as GF, the other I had never seen before. They stripped me down to my Abriform, and chained me to the wall, placing a pacifier in my mouth that was also chained to the wall. I looked into her eyes with fear as she uttered the words... CG: Well baby... welcome to our dungeon. We saw how excited you got with our little diaper party, so we decided to show you the ultimate experience for the baby you really are. Unfortunately, we can't let you tell anyone about our little secret... so here you must stay... FOREVER! I sobbed quietly into my pacifier, as I saw CG, GF, and the other girl mockingly wave goodbye, as they turned and headed out the door. As I lookd around what was to be my new home, the room was now silent, except for the crinkle of the now wet diaper between my legs. THE END. I'm confused... did I get a good ending or a bad ending?

I had a response, but then firefox crashed and I lost everything. Sadness. "Decide amongst yourselves and I will check back tomorrow." Not even hiding the real reason he's here anymore. Better get to begging, guys! Also, KFC > Popeye's.

Regardless; like others have said, this belongs in the roleplay forum or the story forum. People around here seem to be trolled a bit too easily. Oh no! My girlfriend found out about my diaper fetish! She went and told her friend about it! And what do they decide to do? Throw me the diaper party fantasy of my dreams! Not only that, the other girl is leaving her boyfriend so she can join us in our diaper wonderland. See how she came onto the one random diaper forum on the internet to prove that she was real? It's just sad. Fantasy and roleplay is fine, but don't let your diapered desires blind you from common sense. This is like the old 'true stories' (or whatever it was called) section of Penthouse magazine, where a guy would write in talking about helping a girl bring in her groceries, then being treated to a 5-girl orgy. An interesting read, but when you start taking that crap seriously, it becomes negative. It fills you up with hope for a situation to one day occur to you, when in truth it never happened to somebody else.

If anyone still finds this believable after that, it would make me very concerned. Not because of anything to do with this thread directly, but with so many e-mails from Nigerian princes wanting to send people millions of dollars in exchange for your bank account information, having people this gullible still on the internet keeps me up at night with worry.

Great thread. Would read again. CG coming across the one diaper forum on the internet where she is being talked about, and instead of confronting him directly about it, she not only creates a username on DD, but also makes sure she refers to herself as CG in the screename for the benefit of the audience, AND she stumbles across the thread in the exact same page where someone proposes the idea of CG coming across the one diaper forum on the internet where she is being talked about, and posts on the exact same page! What are the odds?! I haven't seen true stories in such detail since [That site].com!

Dump the honest fetishist, and you'll end up marrying the dishonest necrophiliac. Karma's a beach.

I hear these rumors but I have yet to meet another ab/dl face to face. I'm anywhere between Houston and Dallas. =)