Jake

I was in a very similar position with my wife for a number of years but I am happy to say things worked out very well. Considering how long you two have been together and how settled you are, I think it is very unlikely that it would blow up in your face. It sounds like you guys are already very playful with each other so keep her introduction to diapers playful as well. Don't put too much emphasis on the diaper. Keep it about her and follow her lead and take things slow. But don't wait too long or you risk becoming obsessed with diapering your wife. Remember, your desires aren't going anywhere. If she already indulges your interest in her potty times, there is a good chance she will indulge this one too. I would be happy to share with you more details about how exactly I introduced diapers to my wife, but not in such a public forum. PM me if you want to chat online about this. good luck Jake

I posted a few months back looking for advice on how to get my wife into diapers. At first she was reluctant to engage in any kind of roleplay where she acted younger. Eventually she tried it and has even come to enjoy it. Now spankings, cornertime and dress-up are a regular part of our sex life. But she drew the line at diapers. I would bring it up every so often and each time she would flat out refuse. UNTIL... Last week we were getting ready for a little roleplay. I took a shower while she dressed. When I came out, she was waiting for me in the living room wearing the pink frilly party dress I bought online for her, frilly ankle socks and patent leather mary-janes. To top it off, she had two pink ribbons tied around her pigtails. It was my favorite outfit and her least favorite. She didn't dress-up like that very often because she said it was too babyish. But there she was, looking like the sweetest, most adorable adult little girl. I hadn't seen her like that in a while and I didn't know when I would see her like that again so I did what any red-blooded man would do when he gets to indulge one of his fantasies - I asked her If I could take some pictures. Surprisingly she said yes. I got the camera and she started posing like a little girl. After a few shots, she said she had to pee. I said something silly like "How badly?" of "Can you hold it?" I don't remember exactly, I just didn't want to stop for anything. She said she really had to go. I looked at her, dressed as she was, kneeling on the floor and thought " what the hell, I'll give it another shot.". I blurted out "I could just put a diaper on you." (I kept some handy on the off chance she changed her mind.) She asked if I had one, I said yes, and she told me to go get it. My hands were shaking as I went to where I kept them hidden but they weren't there. I tried to remember if I had moved them somewhere so my wife would find them by accident. I had butterflies in my stomach as I tore through our bedroom looking for them. I couldn't believe my bad luck. The one time she finally agrees to let me put her in a diaper and I can't bloody find them! I didn't want to ruin the mood by taking too long so I gave up, tried to hide my disappointment and rejoined her in the living room to tell her she was in luck and didn't have to wear a diaper. But I didn't have to. Her guilty little smile to me everything. When I told her I couldn't find her a diaper, she lifted her dress and said "You mean one of these" revealing a diaper. I almost fell over. She was giggling like, well like a naughty little girl who had just played a prank on her daddy. She told me that she did find my secret stash and decided to give me a surprise. She practically gave me a heart attack. I won't go into details about the rest of the night but I will say that I had the time of my life. She told me later that she was surprised how much she enjoyed the whole experience herself and that having her diaper changed was a huge turn on for her. Not only is she willing to do it again, she is looking forward to doing it as soon as possible. This turned into a much longer post then I thought it would be, but I have been dying to tell someone about this since it happened. Yay for me.

I have been considering this. A while back I (half jokingly) suggested she could get out of a spanking she was not looking forward to by letting me diaper her instead. She chose the spanking without a second thought. Even though I tried to sound nonchalant when I brought it up and hid my dismay at her choice, I knew she was well aware how much I wanted to try this. I also knew, from her response, not to bring it up again. Which I never did. That was sometime ago. Since then she has accepted and even enjoys many aspects of ageplay that she never thought she would. Maybe the time has come to try again. I just worry that not only will she refuse but, it will put an end to the good thing we got going. And I don't want to lose that. I'm not sure what I should do, other then bide my time and thats getting hard to do. Especially now as she has a spanking coming to her this Friday. Jake

Thank you all for your input. Many of the ideas you all suggested I have or am doing. I would never force her to do anything she wasn't comfortable with. I do know how incredibly lucky I am to have her and do not take what we have for granted. We have discussed and explored her fantasies as well as mine. our sex life is not all about me and what I want, but admittedly, my post was. I have approached this with patience and understanding, and so has she. I guess I feel so close to what I see as a final step that I getting anxious to reach that goal. In my heart I know that if I continue to be patient, I will most likely not be disappointed. I am sure a lot of us who share this fetish have stories similar to mine which ended badly. One learns more from failures then from successes. Iwould love to know where people went wrong and hopefully avoid the same pitfalls. Thanks, Jake

I'm not new to this site but I never bothered to post here until now. I have been wanting to for some time, its just taken me a while to find the courage. Now that I have, I am sure this will be rather a long post and I apologize for that. I am really hoping to get some constructive guidance for my situation. Let me begin by explaining my situation. I am a happily married man. My wife and I have been together for nearly ten years. Even before I knew what it was called I had a fascination with ageplay, paricularly the "Daddy/adult Little Girl" dynamic. I told my wife about this before we got married. At first she wasn't sure what to make of it. It didn't exactly freak her out but nor did she embrace the idea. It took a bit of explaining the difference between ageplay and pedophilia before she would agree to try a bit of roleplay with me. I didn't want to push her too far, too fast. Our first exploration of this lifestyle was pretty tame compared to many of the first time experiences I have read on the internet. She was a naughty school girl, dressed in a kilt and knee socks, I was her teacher. She fell into the role fully. That night I gave her her first spanking and her first cornertime. She gave me the most passionate night of lovemaking in my entire life. After we were done, I asked her what she thought about what had happened, confident that she enjoyed the experience as much as I did. I was wrong. She didn't like it. Being spanked, she told me, and sent to the corner, made her feel like a real little girl being punished. And that feeling didn't turn her on at all. I was so hopeful that her and I would continue exploring this together but her reaction was devastatingly disappointing. I asked if that meant she was unwilling to try again. Her response floored me. She said she could only let herself be treated and punished like a little girl, if she felt she had done something to deserve it. I had only ever thought of ageplay and roleplayin terms of play. The idea of a grown woman being made to assume the "little girl" role as a real punishment, especially a woman who didn't want to, was the domain af fantasy and fiction. Over the following years, we would have the usual arguments common to all couples, but many of ours would be setteled with her over my knee, then in the corner and always dressed approriately. She had certain groundrules. Firstly, she had to feel she was in the wrong and deserved a punishment. Secondly, we both had to agree to the severity of the punishment. And finally, because of her job as an elemetary school teacher, she refused to act or be treated the age of her students, or younger. The first two rules we still stick to, the third has been bent over the years. She now has a number of outfits (dresses, babydolls etc.) I bought online from AB supplier, more approriate for a girl of 5 years. While she wears them, she still isn't comfortable acting that age. If you have read this far, you are probably wondering why I am posting this here. My dilema is, The more she indulges me by breaking her third rule, the more I want. I have become obsessed with the idea of putting her in diapers. We have talked about it and she adamently refused. I won't force her. I am sure it's not something she will ever grow to enjoy. But I can't stop thinking about it. Does anyone have any advice. Has anyone had a similar experience and how did it work out. thanks for reading

I would love to chat online with you sometime. I have never met with an adult baby girl in my area before.

Anyone from Montreal?

Hi, I'm new to this as well and looking for online chats with another newbie like yourself.I'm 33,male and alittle on the dominant side. you can email me at cure4brats@yahoo.ca. hope to hear from you soon. Jake