I was married 8 years befor i wore a diaper to bed and my wife was outraged. although she hates my diaperwearing she loves me and tolorates me . I have a wonderful wife and famly that allknow of my behaiver. i wear my diapers in private and discreetly in publicI have been to counsuling and I talk to no one about them and have never been with a ab/dl I would love to talk to others in person that share this obsesion.now i have been married for 33 years. I feel i have a very good wife and famly and they love me even though they cant figure out my obsession. but neather can i. but i try to keep things in perspeticive. I have a life time of storys about my diapers but that s for later. litlrickyboy@yahoo.com