Boby

Wipe, swoosh, rub, soak, scrub....... Even the most aggressive post poop cleaning will fail to remove all the smell, prevention is better than curing a rubbed raw bum! I've found success with what WallaWalla suggests, which is the use of barrier/nappy cream. Having pots of this about the change room also compliments the experience of nappy changes. The reason the smell lingers in one's skin is that poop contains a lot of fat and grease, which can become absorbed into dry skin. Using creams before pooping saturates the skin with oils, meaning that the fats and accompanying smells have nowhere to go except into the nappy. I have also noticed how cleanups are easier after using creams, poopies tend not to stick so keenly to the skin and wipes off more easily.

I too enjoy wearing in public, but not overtly so, I do it for the personal experience. I also try not to do so close to home where friends or neighbors may notice. I know that in reality, one won't be noticed unless wearing something absolutely huge, but the self conscious element and physical awareness of their bulk makes it difficult to rationalize and convince oneself that they won't be noticed. Any adaptation of clothing A couple of replies further up suggested that wearing loose clothing such as jogging pants helps to conceal things, but I've tried these and noticed that they just allow padding etc to expand and become even more noticeable. Just a pair of comfort fit jeans is sufficient to conceal a single slip, the denim keeps it closer to the body, better concealed while reducing any rustling noises. The only problem I've encountered with jeans is when wetting while seated, their tightness can cause a backup which, although is a pleasant change to the normal course of flow, can flood past the front padding and down one's hips..... Two possible outcomes of this route are either for it to run right down and to become absorbed by the rear padding, the other is for a dramatic escape at the overlap. The outward results of the second option is far more obvious for others to see then a subtle bulge!

Yep...... I occasionally reinforce my "need" to wear nappies by wetting the bed, mostly when sleeping alone, this would be pre planned and protected with a waterproof sheet and a couple of towels. Unlike some respondents, I prefer to pee the bed in the morning after an undisturbed nights sleep, allowing me to start the day with a buzz. I told my SO about my fetish shortly after we started sleeping together at her place, outlining what I like to do, including the bed wetting excuse to wear nappies. The next week I visited, as we were going to bed, she told me that her mattress was protected incase I wanted to wet her bed! WOW! Morning came and I tried to let go, but just couldn't relax enough to do it for the first time in the new situation of company and in someone else's bed. It was three weeks later after I asked if the bed was still safe that I woke around 06:00 needing a pee, this was the day! I tried to sleep on, nursing my bursting bladder until a more social time but couldn't relax enough to sleep, so quietly slid out of the bed and took a half pee in the toilet before returning with a lesser fullness which allowed me to sleep on. Nine o'clock and I woke spooned up against her back, needing to go again. Adrenaline surged as I thought about what was about to happen and wondered how she would react to my warm surprise, I tried to go but was too tense! Rolling away from her allowed me to relax and convince myself that I was going to do it, I was busting, knew I wouldn't hold it for long but wanted to delay until she showed signs of being awake with the chance of moving away if she wanted. I almost chickened out, but stress and overflow caused me to wet the bed a little, resulting in a small damp patch on my side of the bed, while facing away from her it was still my secret; this changed everything... Just that small patch meant the bed was wet and would need changing, thinking that way made things easier. I rolled back and spoon hugged her again, which provoked the response of a small snuggling movement of contentment indicating that she was awake! Thump Thump Thump went my heart, fueled by adrenaline. With my arm resting on her side and cupping her soft shoulder, I overcame the inhibition and with my semi erect cock just touching her cheeks, started a small flow which she would no doubt feel against her soft skin, with no resistance felt, I relaxed and allowed it to work up to a natural flooding flow, with a direction causing it first to swoosh against her inner thigh before running downwards, tricking into a puddle of warm wetness which quickly filled the confined space between us before being absorbed into the bedding and flowing with warm stimulation beneath our bodies. Her physical reaction was not one of avoidance but one of pleasure as she moved closer to me while verbal remarks "Mmmmm, that's hot" affirmed her acceptance and pleasure. Now, it's more common for me to wear a nappy to bed without the need for role play excuses like bed wetting. I enjoy staying in bed later in the weekend, sitting up talking, drinking coffee while allowing the top of my nappy to be clearly visible, the lay in pushes it beyond it's normal limit as I wet myself that one time too many and start to feel that old familiar wet bed beneath my thighs.

Thanks for your professional opinion, you're describing a paraphilia which I had already recognized and described in the OP; therein I also explained that it was the reason why I decided to seek counseling. If my OP indicated that my only source of arousal was the DL fetish, then I apologize for not extending it by including several desrcript paragraphs of our other personal sexual activities. The OP was only intended as an introduction to the concept of PS counseling and to hear from others who, as I, may have taken the same path after accepting that some inclusion of the DL type fetish or fantasy had become a regular part of sexual relationships or outlet. So if any-one has taken this path, it would be good to hear about experiences, values or merits and if their aims were met.

Ahem...... I think you've got the wrong idea, please read before replying

I've played around with recreational bed wetting/WS, both alone and with my fiancee. I prepare with a vinyl mattress protector, over this goes either one or two towels, depending if just one or both of us are going to wet, finally a cotton bed sheet goes on top of these to make it look and feel like a normal bed. Body weight creates a depression in the mattress in which any wetting accidents will pool, even without absorbent layers it won't run over the side. If not fully absorbed, there is a tendency for it to flow upwards along the body, with the danger of reaching pillows, so make sure these are also protected or removed in time! Enjoy!

Has anyone got experiences or stories of psychosexual counseling that they would like to share? I've done it and I'll give an outline of my situation so far- I accepted that my DL fetish has caused sexual difficulties and I've discussed the problem with a doctor. I don't want to be "cured" of my nappy fetish, I just want to be able to make love without depending on nappy thoughts and fantasies. I've since been referred onto a specialist psychosexual councilor with whom I hope to work towards a solution. OK, So I love the feel of wetting myself; I enjoy the calming and warm emotions (and other warm things) experienced when wearing nappies; at home I like wearing bulky nappies and allowing them to show above the waistline of my PJ pants so my fiancee can see them. As they get wetter I start to become excited while thinking about the moment that I have to let down my adult guard and tell her that I I need a nappy change; the anticipation of the following intimate, close and very personal experience of her washing, caring for me and putting me in a fresh nappy causes waves of excitement to course through my body. But these are all selfish desires! My fiancee accepted my fetish without question when I told her early on in our relationship, she and I thought that related foreplay would help with arousal and sexual performance. The decision to tell her was because I was a late starter and a virgin, it was more than a fetish and had become the focus of my sexual experiences and fantasies from an early age, before and during puberty, at a critical time when sexual associations (love maps) are formed within one's mind. After seven years together the problem didn't solve itself and she has started to feel that my difficulties indicate that I'm not sexually attracted to her, which just isn't true! I realized that to prevent the failure of our relationship, I needed to seek help in the form of psychosexual counseling, this may help to redirect my inner sexual focus sufficiently to allow pleasure from regular penetrative sex and assist in the other problem of erectile dysfunction. I have a chronic neurological condition, while reading related medical journals I discovered documented cases suggesting links between my condition and medications used to control it with similar sexual difficulties to those I'm experiencing. These can include erectile dysfunction or extremes of sexual behavior such as hyposexuality or hypersexuality (high or low libido), the former may explain why I didn't form sufficiently close relationships with women to loose my cherry until my thirties (or were nappies taking their place?). Similar journal articles also discussed links between this condition, and a predisposition towards sexual fetishism, including specific cases of adults with nappy fetishes. I felt a whole lot better after discovering these links, they helped me to accept what may be a contributing factor towards the development of my paraphilia and also in my decision of who to approach for assistance. Should I discuss it with my GP? He had previously made a limited attempt to help the ED by prescribing some of the well known pills for men, he was not aware of links between my condition and my ED problem (I didn't discuss the DL fetish with him). The pills didn't work and he wasn't in a hurry to help. I had an appointment with my neurologist soon and felt that in the light of the medical journal articles, the case was more in the realm of neurology, I decided to discuss it him during my next scheduled appointment! My appointment drew near and although it would be a positive step, I grew anxious when wondering just how was I going to tell a doctor that I have a fetish for wetting myself and wearing nappies! It's certainly not a subject that one could work into the routine subjects discussed during a consultation, but if I was ever to enjoy normal sexual relationships alongside my nappy fetish, it had to be done! After nervously getting through the basic review of my condition and medications, I stalled and hesitantly told the doctor that I needed to discuss a personal problem of a sexual nature. My heart was pounding and I found raising the subject very difficult, after explaining my reasoning on why I chose to discuss it with him instead of my GP, he reached for his note pad. It was now or never! I nervously started talking about a problem in my sexual relationship, one where a fetish or paraphilia had got to the point of preventing us from enjoying normal sex, and I wondered if psychosexual counseling would be appropriate. He wasn't an expert in sex issues such as this, so I kept it to the point, explaining how this fetish for wearing nappies had possibly evolved from an early curiosity, wondering how it would feel to be wearing a wet nappy while seeing babies being changed. I went on to explain how curiosity lead to experimenting with towels and eventually to discovering the warm and pleasant sensations associated with wetting them, and how repeated cycles of wetting nappies followed by masturbation has evolved to my current situation, one where the focus on wetting and nappies was making a normal sexual relationship very difficult. I also made it clear that the attraction was only to wearing nappies myself and nothing to do with minors. He made notes while I nervously explained my situation and mentioned some early publications in which I discovered that I was not alone, I also mentioned some internet sites which described infantilism and autonepiophilia. He didn't ask many questions and said he would discuss my case with a neuropsychologist and that he intended to seek a referral to a suitable specialist or clinic. He also asked if it was OK for him to send a letter to my GP! This had me a little more nervous, one of the reasons I chose not to discuss it with my GP was because of the close proximity of the practice to my home, combined with the risk of admin staff opening and reading the correspondence! I've been referred to a specialist and have just started visiting him weekly, the first week was to obtain an outline of the information and to assess if I would be a suitable patient. Next time I visited, we went through childhood and family background, then he allowed me to talk about my problems. This man was a specialist sexual councilor and the fact that he must have experienced a very wide range of sexual disorders made it easy for me to talk through the aspects and development of my paraphilia in a clear and factual way. He was quick to reassure me that wearing nappies was not abnormal, didn't ask for details and didn't suggest that I should stop. I caught a few glances towards my crotch, perhaps he was trying to see if I was wearing one during the consultation (I wasn't). I leave each visit feeling more confident that both aspects of my disorder are being treated well. Any diagnostic physical or physiological tests will be done to help the ED and psychological exercises will assist me to redirect some of the sexual pleasure from nappies alone to help me confidently form good associations during sexual experiences with my fiancee. So if you're a late developer, you're sexual drive is focussed more towards nappies/wetting and you don't have a relationship with women, or if you have a relationship which is showing the strain and you feel things could be better, you can do worse than talk to a specialized councilor, It won't be new to them!

I too feel that some tend to push what is essentially a sexually orientated fetish and lifestyle beyond the limits of privacy and decency. Many of us wish there was a wider range of AB/DL sites, but the reality is that experiences available while playing out our lifestyle are self limiting and are soon repeated. Running searches of related keywords results in a few relevant fetish site hits, but also lead us to medical incontinence or bed wetting sites. A quick read of topics in these non fetish sites soon reveals messages of obsessiveness or pretense, so obvious to one who indulges that they're from AB's or DL's, trying to manipulate subjects or targets in order to get some sexual thrill from the revelation and discussion of extremely private details. I have personal experience of how being a DL has interfered in a relationship with my SO after she started to experience stress incontinence. Sneezing or coughing now cause regular damp patches, which she hates! Since becoming one of the medically incontinent her view to my intentional diaper wetting has changed, she admitted that it made her feel worse because I appeared to be getting pleasure from doing something which, for her was unpleasant, embarrassing and stressful. People like her or worse, who can't conveniently fit incontinence into their lifestyles by deciding where, when and how much they pee or poo may seek out a support site. Now imagine their feelings as they seek support and advice in the anonymity of the internet to find completely unrealistic threads, contaminated by DL's gone bad, or even become an unknowing the target of one who's whacking off while reading their personal experiences. Another related action is the excessively overt public diaper usage. It's still not illegal to wear diapers in public without a license and as healthy people, we can even use them too! I admit that I enjoy wearing diapers in public occasionally but how long will we be able to enjoy this freedom? Not long if the regularly repeated Walmart story is true! This, and similar shopping mall stories are examples where, for some, the private thrill of subtle public diaper wearing appears to have lost it's kick. Boundaries between subtle use and public decency become blurred and their control of impulses is lost as they deliberately start to draw attention to themselves (and the general DL fetish), with reports of messing diapers while walking around a food store or while standing in line with people close behind! It is this kind of activity which excessively involves the general public and should neither be supported or accepted in our community.

If you're enjoying a diaper in privacy, there's no hurry to fill it, don't strain to pee, Just let things happen naturally. Drink more fluids, having a cup of water with each cup of coffee is a sure way to increase your natural pee output. Soon you'll feel the urge, but don't give in and do a little trickle, hold on till you're really full then reward yourself with one of those hot wet floods. It sounds like you've detrained your bladder by peeing little and often, why not use your diaper as a great retraining aid. When you feel the need, just relax and wait for the urgency to pass, this cycle can happen several times. Hold on and on..... non diaper wearers begin to panic when getting this far incase they don't get to a toilet in time, we can just hold on when wearing a diaper, remaining relaxed and calm in the knowledge that when and where-ever we reach our physical limit, we can just let go, remaining confident that there will be no wet pants while we privately enjoy that wonderful combination of stress relief with the bonus of that long, warm stimulating flood around our sensitive areas as a personal reward for being good and holding on so long.

I wear nappies to bed about three to four nights in a row most weeks, I've become totally comfortable wearing them and they don't cause excessive excitement during the night so I can sleep well. I HAVE to pee at least twice in a night, when I wake just enough to feel the need and become conscious that I'm wearing nappies, I roll onto my back, wet myself and go straight back to sleep. By night three or four I often wake in the morning having wet my nappy with no memory of doing so . I must either wake to a very low level of consciousness and pee myself without remembering, or somehow do it in my sleep while retaining an element of subconscious knowledge of what I'm wearing and that it's Ok to pee. To avoid wetting the bed without protection, I limit wearing to four nights in a row and on the fifth night, the last thing I do before sleeping is say clearly and out loud to myself that I'm not going to wet the bed. It seems to work!

Mmmm, Yes! Sometimes the feel of impulsively pooping pants when the situation is right provides a tremendous thrill. In a pair of jeans with a good pair of cotton briefs means public poos can be done without a that big dark wet patch highlighting who's just wet themselves. I wear trainer pants over my disposables as discussed, sometimes without the disposable, providing that luscious wet squishiness after peeing. Trainers would provide good solid and some smell containment, they also prevent any stains which ultimate do happen in jeans, however, I don't poo straight into my trainers because of how the PVC pants hold the stain and smell. Heavy washing would destroy them in a very short time.

As a mature person, about to embark on his first online PS3 gaming session, I'm about to enjoy the convenience of wearing nappies during an hour of motor racing in GT5. The guide says it is not considered good etiquette to quit during a game, now I won't need to when a desperate pee starts bashing on my bladder wall, I'll just casually take a whizz while whizzing around Suzuka! Does anyone else enjoy this convenience while gaming? It would be fun to race around a GT5 circuit knowing another driver in the same race is wearing a nappy.

For those of us lucky enough to have our SO's who play along with the DL fetish and change us, there is something I was wondering- How do you tell your SO that a nappy change is needed? I guess it depends on your own blend of DL and baby/toddler roll play. For example one who is mostly Ab may wait quietly in a wet nappy until either leaks or a routine check reveal the need, while one who is more DL may have one or more ways of telling their SO that it is change time. Does the act of telling provide some excitement? Do you find it easy to tell? Do you assume a regressive roll when telling? I'll attempt to describe my situation and give a few examples. I'm mainly DL and get pleasure from her knowing that I'm wearing a nappy during normal domestic activities, she doesn't check for wetness but relies on me telling her when I need changing. Each of the physically and emotionally stimulating highs of wetting myself secretly while near my lover builds towards that time when I know that If I don't soon share my secret, there will be leaks which may result in a smacked bottom for getting so wet! Thinking about telling her, and how, is a form of exhibitionism which adds another tier excitement and anticipation to my pleasures of being a DL, however, I often feel embarrassed and never know exactly how to raise the subject! Do I simply tell it as it is? Shall I play the naughty toddler roll, putting on a pouting expression as I tell her I've got a wet bottom or a wet nappy? Sometimes when she's busy and I'm close to leaking I just open up and tell her I've got to change, as if I'm going to look after myself, this still gives her the chance to help out if she wants to. My last experience a few days before writing this included the usual build up of excitement while thinking of how and when to reveal my need for a change. I was still thinking of how as I wet my nappy again while doing the dishes (running water often causes that urge), I knew it was close to the limit and it may not be safe to sit down for a few moments, so lingered for a short while and enjoyed the experience of the warm flood slowly dispersing. Hot drinks usually follow the washing up and this gave me the opening. I felt the usual warm pulse of excitement immediately prior to revealing my situation, as I walked from the kitchen I stated in a slightly awkward and childish "I would have made the drinks but I've just wet my nappy, and think it needs dealing with first". This was received and replied to with one of those bad boy looks from her, before telling me I would have to wait a while (Mmm, the wetter the better!). I sat next to her on the couch and was warned that I better not get it wet! At a convenient moment I was told to get upstairs, remove my jeans and wait for her. Being sent to the bedroom and undressing down to the nappy while waiting to be changed gives time for anticipation of the following pleasures, which cause a throbbing engorgement, which will soon be revealed after the initial situational humiliation which is probably quite normal for an adult laying on his back wearing nothing but a wet nappy. Very soon, acceptance and the assumption of a completely submissive roll allowed the unique pleasures to be relished as she untaped and removed the wet nappy, followed by the close and most personal experience of our secret, the careful and gentle manipulation of one's most private areas while being washed with warm water, dried, powdered and wrapped in a cosy dry nappy.

Just forget the diapers..... If your room mate found out, you would be the subject of discussion, gossip and ridicule for weeks! Going the medical requirement route would be difficult to sustain convincingly for long periods. I've lived in similar situations and until having a room to myself I limited my nappy pleasure to times such as when staying at my parents house during leave, limiting my fetish made those moments extra special and very intense. Simple alternatives kept the diaper fire kindled, such as peeing down my legs while showering. On some of those precious, short periods of privacy, I would sometimes wet my pants immediately before doing the laundry, which meant there was nothing to hide and get smelly.

Some of my better pooping experiences have been those where I was never planning it and was not wearing a nappy. These have been both at home and in public heading back home, I've felt a real need to poo and suddenly realize that I'm in a situation where it would be safe to do it NOW, ie the right clothes, it won't be too runny and there's a good chance of getting home without major visible signs for neighbors. You can't beat the experience of impulsively pooing pants and knowing that those passing by have no idea of what you're experiencing. I've done it at home while laying in bed, working in the garden or house, and in public when getting off the train, going home from the shops, walking the dog etc. My problem with public is that I find it very difficult not to wet myself at the same time as pooping and as we all know, wet pants show from miles where as if thick clothes like jeans are worn, a squished down poopie is virtually undetectable by sight.

I've not tried enemas, but have often played with suppositories. They work perfectly for those who like to feel as though they're having a real accident, either at home or out, in pants or nappies, quickly providing intense desperation and loss of control within a small time frame and resulting in one of the biggest softest loads possible with very little or no effort. My first experience with these was on the suggestion of a pharmacist for their intended purpose of treating painful constipation. He told me to insert one and hold it as long as possible. On arriving home I popped one up, with no idea how long it would take to work. This didn't turn out to be very long, stirrings could be felt within minutes and after another 10 minutes I almost filled my pants before getting to the toilet. Wow! what a feeling as the extreme pressure and desperation was relieved without the slightest need to strain, indeed more effort was expended trying not to lose it too soon. The result was a huge mass with a softened but not runny consistency, with a more predictable and comfortable contrast to the stomach cramps and time delay and wetness of oral laxatives. Although not having tried one, I guess they also provide a more satisfying result than an enema, which would be too runny for my preference of something which stays warm, close and squishy in my pants without escaping and running down my legs. I had made it to the toilet as intended, but afterwards, felt like I had missed out on a giant pant filler. I couldn't resist using the remaining suppositories for my recreational nappy and pant pooping, they work by softening stools and mildly irritating the colon to stimulate defecation but will only work if there is some stool present and there is a real need to poo, but they certainly add to the experience by making it happen, even against ones will. They are convenient and easy to use. One can be kept in a pocket for the right situation, then only a few moments of privacy are required to apply it. Tick tick tick......... A time bomb has been armed and there is no stopping it! Enjoy the feeling of inevitability as stirrings and surges of pressure start while walking about the street or home. Stronger and stronger, closer and closer to ones personal limit of retention. Head for the toilets and see if you can make it while another surge builds, this one requiring extreme concentration of effort to hold it back before it gently subsides, marking the moment when cover should be sought because time's up! The next surge starts to build, I know I won't be able to avoid pooping myself this time, adrenaline rushes as I start to anticipate how it is going to feel, who's watching, will staining show through my jeans, where can I go to change, will I wet myself at the same time? I take a moment to adjust my clothes, lowering the waistband and underwear slightly to make room. I know I won't make it to the toilet and calmly accept that I've no other alternative but to give up the fight of holding back! Intense relief is accompanied by sensual feelings of hot soft squishy contact, spreading and filling all available space, gently pushing outward, mound like beneath denim or concealed but not unfelt in the soft white bulk of my nappy. As the flow slows, I make the most of it by pushing a little to finish what had started involuntarily, such bulk and mass can be felt to swing with my stride. Only the smell and mound indicate the source, the latter can be easily concealed by sitting for a few moments of contemplation and enjoyment as the bulk yields to my weight, quickly squishing forwards along my perineum to surround my balls with hot softness. With such experiences available for free, it's a wonder that many more people don't still have accidents or use nappies.

I believe that reduced bladder capacity, urgency and frequency can be the result of wearing nappies for extended periods. It would depend on how you wet your nappy, you may have limited time to enjoy the experience and may keep peeing small amounts the moment you feel the need. If you have discretion and all the time in the diaper, you may not be in a hurry and can enjoy the different sensations of relieving a very full bladder and the resulting sensual, contained flood of warm wetness during and after a good long pee. From personal experience, wearing on occasional days is less likely to have extended effects, continued use or the way one wets may de-train one's bladder, especially if peeing is forced and frequent rather than relaxed and at the natural frequency. It may be possible to use your nappies to an advantage in helping retrain in an effective and enjoyable way. Wear one all day, holding on and on to each full bladder, resisting the spasms and surges until you're absolutely sure the limit has been reached, only then, reward yourself with a good hot swamping, stopping the flow a couple of times to tone up the pelvic floor. The convenience of wearing a nappy during retraining means you can be totally confident during desperation and won't have to find a toilet before reaching the limit as non nappy wearers would.

My main reason for replying was to offer a solution to the mentioned problem of nappy pins being too large or difficult to insert, I can't remember where, but a contributor to a similar forum shared the tip of pushing the tips of pins into a soap bar before use or storing them in this way to provide lubrication. I tried this and it proved to be an excellent solution, almost stabbing myself when applying it for the first time! Returning to the main subject of cloth nappies in the UK, I am of the terry nappy generation and prefer these, but limited available durations of discrete use and practicality means I tend to use disposables more often. As a compromise, I often wear terry lined trainer pants over the disposable, the external look and feel is very close to that of a terry nappy and I can swamp my disposable to a warm, squishy state without wetting the bed or furniture. Single layer trainer pants over disposables are still bulky and are not ideal for outings. I agree that Drylife nappies are of good quality, with a 38" waist I first used 48" nappies, these were difficult to pin together using the kite fold and provided insufficient absorbent material in the front for real security. I upsized to 54" which has overcome the problem. I doubt that many use terry nappies in public so going up to 60" would provide more realistic baby sized proportions to enjoy in privacy. Drylife's plastic pants have cloth bound waist and legs, these are comfortable but I've found that they readily wick wetness from a well used morning nappy into the bed. Going up an extra size and folding the bindings back under the nappy can prevent this but they do work their way out again. Arizona supply plastic pants without fabric binding, combined with welded side seams they are more able to contain totally swamped nappies. I savour this stage but when active and walking about the house or garden, weight starts to becomes a problem and nappies keep sliding down. I believe certain baby wear is designed to support nappies and is also available for adult babies. I haven't tried these as I'm a DL and prefer to see and feel my nappy, my exhibitionistic side also wants my wife to see them above the waist bands of my trackie trousers.

Mmmm, Lots! I love to scuba dive, where I live it is normal to wear drysuits over thick quilted thermal suits. I almost always wear a nappy under mine. On dry land I often just wet my nappy instead of removing my kit. If one needs to go during a technical dive with remaining decompression stops, the only choice is to pee yourself or suffer the bends! Some male divers use adhesive condom catheters attached to a valve in the drysuit leg, these sometimes become kinked, causing floods. I never bothered with these because I am a DL and don't need an excuse to wear a nappy!

I felt like a change so am still wearing the cloth nappy and plastic pants which I used overnight, I wet a few times and it's still holding 10 hr later and is better than the the maxest of maxis. I'm still wearing it cause I need a poo and can't decide whether to enjoy the different sensations provided by an even wetter and squidgy cloth nappy or to get changed into a disposable and go walking the dogs. Public aromas while walking the dogs are assumed to be from the bag of **** cleaned up after they do it in public.

Here's something which I have used to make my girlfriend who likes a bit of BDSM experience wetting her jeans in a way she would enjoy. Simply thread a light chain around the belt loops of jeans then lock the ends tightly together. You can prevent men from cheating and opening their fly zipper by threading the padlock through the small hole in the zipper. I used this method to make my girl wet her jeans after getting desperate and pleading to be un-locked several times, I just kept telling her that she might as-well accept the situation, a little later she totally swamped her jeans for my pleasure and through no fault of her own. The image and feel of her first glistening wet crotch remains fresh in my mind after two years. She has also locked me in instead of putting me in nappies order to "train my bladder" I can also clearly remember the point where I stood in front of her and pee'd myself after she refused to let me go to the bathroom.

Mmmmmm, I think I extend just beyond NL, I do love wearing and wetting nappies (and pooping when alone) but they have to look like real nappies i.e the type I grew up with. Most often I use disposables but to get the best look and feel, I wear a pair of PVC trainer pants on top, these then add bulk and look just like cloth nappies, I also love the feel of the PVC. As for being just beyond a plain NL, other than a bulky realistic looking nappy, I certainly don't behave like a baby of wear baby clothes. When I feel that I want to wear nappies or have accidents, this is indicated by telling my fiance that it may be a rainy day, this allows her to tell me if she doesn't want to play, to warn me what might happen if I have an accident or to put me straight in a nappy. If I'm not nappied it allows an element of the the non potty trained naughty toddler to surface, in toddler role I wait till needing a pee, hold till desperation then wet my jeans, if she wasn't watching I tell my GF that I had an accident and wait for her to take charge. She falls perfectly and happily into the roll, being a little annoyed she washes me then tells me I have to wear nappies again like little boys. Once, before going shopping, while snug and protected in my nappy, I asked her if I could take off the trainer pants so my nappy bulge wasn't obvious, she sternly refused, stating that I put my own nappy on when I knew we were going out and now had to keep it on! I have worn just disposables in public before but this was the first time with trainer pants, I had to walk around a shopping centre in Cheshire with a slight waddle and obvious bulge, feeling like everyone could see I was wearing a nappy under my jeans. She could see my embarrassment and was obviously enjoying my humiliation, after realizing I wasn't getting a glance, I relaxed into the roll, confident with the protection from leaks and patches provided by the trainer pants, casually wet myself while she was browsing books. A feeling of excitement surfaced as I felt compelled to tell her quietly and with a pouting expression that I wet my nappy, to this she replied more loudly that it was OK and she would change me when we got home. When wearing nappies at home I like them to be visible, and if I had a choice would wear just a tee shirt with the bulging white PVC clad protection in view, I wonder if this is exhibitionism or regression closer to the AB side? She however, prefers it to be covered up and has bought me some loose fitting hiking trousers with a rustling fabric specially to wear over nappies, these do work well in hiding the bulge and nappy noise and are suitable for use in public.