cuteabdl

He/she could be 18. I wouldn't be so quick to judge.

Please check your private messages.

Some hot girls using the word "diaper".

I recently bought a case of Abena X-Plus and noticed that they changed the plastic. Does anyone know if this is a permanent change, or if only select bags are like this? I don't know how I feel about this yet; my first thoughts are they feel cheaper. This WAS my favorite diaper. I don't know if I will hunt for a new brand or not.

Hello, Is anyone else a member on www.baby-doll.com? They haven't updated the site in several weeks!

Hi all, I tried calling ABDL Montreal several times today, but the line is always busy. I'm starting to think that they are not in service anymore. Has anyone been fortunate enough to visit their facility in 2010? Have they closed down?

How long have you been in TO for? I'm in Ottawa, so not too far away

I do this all the time.

Sounds like a dream come true. Did she say anything about your erection?

I've tried sites like diaperspace.com and diapermates.com but nothing seems to go anywhere. The few people that I've actually been able to talk to are either not from the same city as me, are already taken, are rarely online, or simply don't care. I'm not one to complain, but I feel like I have a lot to offer and would really like to meet a girl who is also an ab/dl. Over the last few months, I contacted about five local newspapers to see if they could place me in their classifieds section. I'm very polite in my emails, and describe the ab/dl fetish in the best possible light -- even referencing sites like Wikipedia. But to my dismay, ALL of them have either rejected or ignored me completely. What are some other ways to "get yourself out there"? The online thing just isn't working for me.

I'm a 25 y/o male and I'm still in the closet about being an ab/dl. When I was with my ex girlfriend, I never got the courage to tell her about my diaper fetish - out of fear of humiliation, rejection, and the ruining of my life basically. I felt guilty about holding back this part of me from her, and in many ways I know that it contributed to the ending of our relationship. My biggest fear was her telling her friends about it, and it getting around to my friends and family. To me, her knowing my big secret and having something on me wasn't worth the bundles of joy that I would get from seeing her in diapers. When I was with her, I wanted an ab/dl girl so badly. I wanted (and still want) somebody who can relate to diapers the way that I do. I don't feel that I will ever *truly* be happy until I am with a girl that shares the same passion that I have for diapers. I'm at a point in my life where I feel that dating is pointless, unless it is with an ab/dl girl. But at the same time, I know how few females there are with this fetish. Is it worth waiting for an ab/dl girl? For those of you who are in relationships and have told your significant (non-ab/dl) other about this side of you, how did things turn out?

Yes it's cheating... believe me you don't want to go that route. Talk it over with your partner and get them to be your mommy.

Hi monkeysgirl - I also applaud you for being accepting of this and joining the boards. I know it must have taken a lot of courage for your bf to come out, but being open like this could only make things better between you guys. I know for a fact that if I could have been open about my ab/dl side with my ex, it would have shed a whole new light on the relationship, and would have brought me one hundred times the happiness. It's no fun keeping things to yourself all the time.

Wow, guys... that is awesome. I know how hard it can be to do such a thing, as I could never get the courage to do it myself. But all the power to you.

If I was younger and I had been given the chance to wear diapers, I would have jumped all over the opportunity. But in hindsight I'm glad I was not given the chance, as then all of my family members would know about my passion for diapers today.

Man I feel really sorry for you. That would by far have been the most humiliating experience of my life. I most likely would have fainted.

I remember at my school once there was a girl (very hot) who was wearing a black t-shirt with "Adult Baby" written on the back of it in white lettering. I was so turned on by it, thinking she might actually be an ab/dl. But I couldn't get the nerve to say anything to her. I'm sure it was just a joke t-shirt though.

I remember with my ex girlfriend I was watching a show on tv, and the topic of fetishes came on, and low and behold, there was a tiny segment on ab/dl. My eyes just lit up, and I couldn't wait to see her reaction to it. To my disappointment she said, "how can somebody like that?". I knew then that I would not tell her that I was an ab/dl.

No you aren't weird. Everyone has something that turns them on.

All I can say is you are one lucky man. I wish I was in your position.

I'm not a member but I like how they incorporate punishment and bdsm.

Back when I was with my girlfriend I could never bring myself to do this. I feared that we would eventually break up, as a lot of couples do, and she would then use it against me. I feared everyone I knew would know about my fetish, and decided it was in my best interest not to tell her. For something like this you have to trust the other person completely, if you are going to tell them. If you haven't been together very long I would advise against it, but that's just my opinion.

Being an ab/dl isn't very common at all, at least from what I have read. I think it is great that your boyfriend came out to you. This is something that takes a lot of guts to do. The best thing to do is ask him what he likes. Every ab/dl is different. We all have things that turn us on, which might not necessarily be what turn other ab/dls on.

Anything bondage related is great for punishment.

Control freak is definitely an accurate description of me. I also seem to have OCD tendencies.